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Girls, Don't Put too Much Stock Into "what will he think" About The Small Things

KindHeartedBeauty

Girls, Don't Put too Much Stock Into



I see so many questions from girls on here (including myself sometimes) and other places on the internet such as, "will HE think I'm desprate, if I text him first"?, Will I look desprate if I follow him on instagram etc?",


At the end of the day the guy doesn't really care all that much about this simple shit that we care so much about and look so deep into. Whether you're in a ltr, dating, married, or friends with benefits I'm telling you THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT THESE THINGS! They're still going to look at you however they want good or bad for whatever reason, all guys are different with different standards and thoughts just like us girls.


Some guys enjoy the chase and some abosolutely don't, some play hard to get and some don't, most will play games and most won't. Some guy's like for a girl to text them first (make the first move) and some guys feels like that it's THEIR jobs to do the asking out etc. Some guys won't wait around for you to "feel him out", or get to know him if you're not putting out he's gone! It doesn't necessarily mean that he was only looking for sex, it may mean that he just didn't feel like waiting around for it.


You should always do what YOU want to do and DON'T want to do. I know that sometimes we need advice for conformation on something that we may have been feeling or thinking about a guy, but you can't depend on GAG to actually TELL you what to do because it may or may not be a good idea. If you want feel like texting him because YOU feel like it's right then go ahead, if you want to call him to talk then call him, if you want to hangout then ask. Life's too short to be worried or concerened about what he might think of you , if you send a simple text. Stop worrying so much and learn how to do you & live with the results. I really believe in what's meant to be will BE!


Now lets just hope I can take my own advice ;) LOL


Girls, Don't Put too Much Stock Into "what will he think" About The Small Things
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