Is ignoring girls actually a good idea? (Page 2)

Question

I've been reading a lot of stuff online, and they keep saying that ignoring girls and not giving them enough attention actually makes them like you even more. What are you thoughts girls?

bubble_tea · Answer

it might work for immature girls who are not ready for dating. they usually crush on emotionally unavailable guys.

Born2shine01 · Answer

I personally wouldn't want to be ignored from the guy I love. I have actually been in this situation and all it has done is pushed me away from him.

rawanx22 · Answer

Be nice with her and her only or she'll think u r treating her like everyone and it's normal make her laugh and I'd u make fun of her shake it off and b nice to her she'll like u. Then ask her out. Good luck😊

Diamondwolf50 · Answer

Personally, I don't like to be ignored, but it makes me think about the person who is ignoring me more. I would suggest slowly moving away from her, but don't loose contact completely. A warning however, if she's insecure, this will not work, meaning that if you do this, she'll think she did something wrong. Good luck!

pikachu1sarah · Answer

I hate it when a guy that I'm talking to or that I'm interested in ignores me, it feels like he doesn't want anything to do with me... Then I end up loosing interest in him.

Mumble · Answer

Depending on the girl I'll say. Some wants the 'chase' or 'game' and others do not. I also think it might depend how shy, outgoing or confident the girl is.

FelineWhisperer101 · Answer

I think that you should be aloof of the girl. Make her curious, want to figure you out. Ignoring a girl is pretty much playing hard to get. But be careful, you may send the wrong message.

YourFutureEx · Answer

Your eyes can ignore them but your D can't. Don't try to do that. Just build greater personality and have good ego will help you. Just don't give a F to people.

StefanieC · Answer

This is stupid. Why would ignoring someone make them more interested?

art84 · Answer

Ignore the girl and she will either ignore you or give you attention. I been with both and it really depends on the girl.

mormollio · Answer

It'll make me feel like you're not interested and then I feel annoying for even trying to talk to you/ask you out or w/e

leusername · Answer

Don't ignore her but don't be clingy either give each other space and time for her to actually miss you and want to talk to you

AddictedGirl · Answer

If the girl likes u.. Don't ignore her, she will get confused n under confident. But if u don't know if she likes you or not.. Don't ignore her nor give her that much attention

crunchy98 · Answer

i dont like it when guys give mixed signals because im not sure if he likes me back or not , then if he keeps ignoring me, ill just move on with life

Anonymous · Answer

They tell us the same thing about you. So, what they REALLY mean is to have a life and make them a part of your life, but not ALL of your time and the ONLY part of your life outside of sleep and work. The reason we are told this is based on “perceived value.” People naturally think that someone who has a life already is more valuable. Even if they aren’t. It’s just perception, but perception sells.

Winterblade200 · Answer

No it's not the girl will feel like you don't care and they will eventually give up trying to get you to like them. Hope this helps

Luvbug78 · Answer

In the Begining that's fine, but if you play this game too long, she'll have no other option than to give up on you so don't ignore her completely

Supastar10 · Answer

If you stop talking to the girl and ignore her, it will come across like your mad or not interested and she'll move on.

sammy_xoxox · Answer

I absolutely hate when a guy ignores me. It immediately makes me want to drop him. So yeah don't do that.

rikkibear · Answer

No matter what, if you really like her, DO NOT ignore her. EVER.

Anonymous · Answer

There's a guy I really like and he'll text me one day all day long then disappear for a week... I hate it! I love talking to him! He makes me smile. Never ignore a girl.

ClassyClaudia · Answer

never a good idea. it will piss her off and.. just dont do it

booklovergirl25 · Answer

Ignoring her will make her like u more but doing that for too long would directly tell her that u r not interested!

Your_boss · Answer

Usually when guys ignore me  I start ignoring them too  Even if I really like them

Anonymous · Answer

I always thought it was girls who did the ignoring.

JulieXO · Answer

No, don't do that. To me personally, being ignored is a turn-off

Hajar_Whitestone · Answer

Don't ignore her, or she'll think you're not interested!

Kiwifun · Answer

I think it's the dumbest thing I've ever heard in my life! If you ignore me, I'm not going to think you like me at ALL!!!

fairyalice · Answer

Ignoring someone is the absolute worst way to get someone's attention. It's immature and rude. Just talk to her. If she's acting cold towards you, it's probably because she doesn't wanna sound clingy or annoying.

Prof_Don · Answer

"Ignore" is the wrong term. It's about not coming off desperate (by answering immediately to every text, and texting every single day at the exactly same time with the same generic message).

joe833a · Answer

Don't ignore anyone if you have interest. Thats a stupid comment someone made, ridiculous. Be honest and sincere to women. don't play little games like a kid.

Jezzyca · Answer

NO! Absolutely not. As a quite insecure girl I´d think the guy doesn't like me and it would just get totaly fucked up. Ignoring the girl you're intrested is probably the worst thing you could do, but maybe it's just me who thinks that way...

HookedUp · Answer

Give your attention to other girls while she is around. When she sees you it will make her want you more. Pay attention to all the girls in the group equally.

mag2019 · Answer

Honestly, it pisses me off. It sends mixed signals- like you like her here but when you go there you're a totally different person. Highly NOT reccomended

JokieJokie · Answer

Not at all time. Sometimes if you ignore a girl, she'll definitely think that you aren't interested to her anymore :) And that she would choose to just stay away from you.

Anonymous · Answer

That's only for if you are trying to get laid not a relationship or dating or love

QueeQuiisit · Answer

Depends on if you're trying to get close to her or you're in a relationship with her

MJas16 · Answer

Dont play mind games. She'll just think u r not interested

dudeman · Answer

Dant ignore her completely let her know you exist but dont go all eighth grade school girl.

Lonelywolf21 · Answer

Ignoring my crush and that I don't have the guts to confess to her makes me even worse. That's not true at all, at least for my situation. ^^

Anonymous · Answer

It isn't ignoring them so much as not giving a fuck whether you are with them or not.

GreenTiger · Answer

Lol at the idiot guys. If you ignore a girl, then how would she know that you want her? Use your head. Always express your intent and lead on.

Anonymous · Answer

If he ignores me, I lose all the interest I could possibly have had. It is a horrible idea, she will think you don't like her.

Anonymous · Answer

You need to find a fine balance between the two. Don't ignore her completely but show her attention every now and then to show you're interested in her.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't ignore her, because she'll think you're not interested. But, if you pay too much attention to her than she'll think you are weird and obsessive, which will push her away.

beautyandmore42 · Answer

I don't like being ignored, because that's a mind fuck. So, I assume a woman, not a girl, wouldn't like it either.

Anonymous · Answer

I've been hit on by 2 or 3 girls when I was fat.

Now I'm lean; no girls hit on me.

Needless to say, if I don't hit on them, nothing will happen. And girls who rejected me, I ignored them too and nothing is happening with them.

girl111m · Answer

I dont think is a good idea if a guy first with me and then ignores me or flirts with someone else i would juts think he is totally not worth it.

Thrifty · Answer

I ignore girls that I do not want to talk to and I play no games. From my understanding is that the nicer you are to a girl ousidet in public the naughtier they get inside the bedroom.

johnvanjohn · Answer

good q. it depends. in college there was this creepy stalker girl, that got the wrong impression from me and when i started ignoring her she became scary. really man, she was scary.

Klaatu51 · Answer

that's true most of the times actually

swimgirl15 · Answer

No no! Don't ignore her. It makes her feel like she has no chance and that you are not interested... trust me!

WaterNymph611 · Answer

For me personally, when a guy ignores me that makes me think that he's either mad at me, hates me, or is just not interested.

Anonymous · Answer

Kinda. Don't be in her shit all the time. She'll get bored. But don't ignore her completely, she'll lose interest.

miserybusiness · Answer

No she'll get pissed off and plan your murder

Nik1hil · Answer

Your M. H. O is right. I did that mistake of pulling things long.

sean_the_sheep · Answer

Personally I hate anyone who ignores me. Wh

DoctorFeelgood · Answer

Ignoring girls is apt to lead to a lonely existence.

Kountry_King · Answer

I thin it depends on the girl , the relationship and the situation

Anonymous · Answer

If you're dating a girl no because then she'll think you don't like her and break up with you that's what happened to me.

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