Are all rich people especially girls acts haughty and snobbish?

[Anonymous]

You see guys, my little brother's girlfriend (Fiancee) is a rich girl. she's polite when talking to our parents and normally sweet whenever she's with my little brother. too sweet to the point that I find them a bit corny, but the thing is whenever my brother isn't there and when I see her interacting with others or me. she usually act haughtily and snobbish. she would usually roll her eyes when someone hit on her or when I tried to make a joke she would just scoff and roll her eyes, but she wasn't antagonizing me (though it didn't help the fact that she would sometimes ignores me when I ask a question or when I'm talking). she just usually point out that I don't have a good sense of humor and lack proper etiquette because of the way I dress. it's not that I find her irritating. it's just I feel uncomfortable whenever she goes to our home riding different car models. there were even one time she was riding a limo and it irritates me because it become the subject of gossip around here (How I wished that she would just drag my brother and let him live in her house). I admit, she deserves to act that way with how rich she is. but still, I kind of feel like she's flaunting it. but her polite and innocent expressions made it hard to believe that she's doing it on purpose but she acts as if she's humbled. are all rich girl/guys (peoples) are all like this? because I do hope that it isn't. I sure hope not.

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and I post this question because I wanted to know how to break her out of it, she's a kind girl but she has trouble interacting with others because she was raised in a different way. if I offended you, forgive me then as I didn't mean to say that all rich people are like this.

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And I didn't mean to insult the rich people, I just wanted to know if it felt the same when interacting with rich people. it's as if they are so high up there and it's hard to reach them, that there is a line between them and the others which gave them hard time understanding each other.

[serg11]

Ok, I used to go to a private school back in Mexico so I know the kind of people you mean. Honestly, based on how you say she acts, it's not much her being snobbish as much as her living the lifestyle she grew up used to. I mean we were very well off financially, but some people were filthy rich (ex. a primary school classmate showed up to my bday party with a bodyguard, kid in elementary school getting a car for when he drives, etc.), so I could see that there were differences. However mostly they weren't snobby (a handful were though!), that was just the only lifestyle they know. It could be the same with the girl you mention.
Think about it, she grew up wealthy so it is not outlandish for her to be on a limo, it is what she knows. I'm not saying it in a bad way, but it is similarly to what would happen if you visited a third world country. You will go in used to the ammenities from the USA. You would probably find yourself sometimes asking where you can get some wifi, or find a starbucks, getting confused looks among the way. Some people might even find you snooty, but you are not, you just simply grew up used to a specific lifestyle. I don't know if that answered your question.

[Asker]

no. you already answered my question. thank toy. I feel like a jerk now. I kind of judge without looking at their perspective.

[Anonymous]

I think it's a bit of a sweeping generalization but not an entirely entirely fallacious one. I went to a good school, my father worked his socks off to send me there. The pupils were all trustafarians but there was a marked divide between the children of well-to-do parents and the children of nouveau riche parents. Speaking of the latter I'd say they were ignorant, self entitled morons who knew the price of everything and the value of nothing. Their upbringing was poor and their attitude was also poor as a result, they had no appreciation for the consequences of their actions, they thought wealth was a guarantee of immunity from the repercussions of being an ass. These people are the same as adults, but you don't meet them in the workplace, thankfully. They are losers in adult life and gradually loose the respect of their peers because freeloading off your parents is fucking deplorable as far as most people are concerned.

[Opinion Owner]

*lose

[Asker]

I see. I do grew up in a high society. and i know what it means to be rich, but I know how to be humble as I knew that money always comes from hard work of someone.

[YvngQueen]

You sound a bit jealous and like her wealth is making you uncomfortable. If you were secure in yourself and appreciative of what you have then she wouldn't be able to do anything to make you uncomfortable. Until you've met every single wealthy person in the world , you have no place to generalize or judge. Take their materials and money away and they're human just like you are. Money and materialistic things don't matter. It's things that one cannot touch but can only feel that are the most valuable in life. Get a good education and pick a good paying job and you can be wealthy too. Just because that girl happens to be rude and wealthy doesn't mean every girl that is wealthy is also rude. Myself for example , i'm blessed enough to be able to get nice things but i am not rude and i value the simple things in life just as much as i value my materialistic things.

[Asker]

I didn't mean it like that. and I am not jealous of her, I do like the kid. the reason I ask this question is because I knew the reason she acts haughtily and a bit snobbish is because she was raise in a different way and she wasn't good with social interactions (when it comes to normal things only) she's an only child after all so she's a heiress. I post this question, as I wanted some opinions how to help her break out of it. as it appears that she acts snobbish is because she's uncomfortable. and I wanted to break her out of it. she only acts like a normal girl when she's with my brother. what if my brother weren't here or if he's busy. how could I possible help her is something is wrong if I don't know how to.

[YvngQueen]

You can't change people. She can only change herself , accept her for who she is.

[Findesemana]

agree with this... his generalisation doesn't make sense...

[Asker]

I guess your right, she'll be my sister in law soon. so I wanted to understand people like her as much as I can.

[Tharithi]

Break her out , u seem broken down with jealousy

[justbeinghonest]

It depends on each person. I know a few people that crap money and they are the nicest down to earth people you'll meet.

[Asker]

I see. she's haughty and snobbish yes. but she's a good kid nonetheless... just that she looks like she's bad at social interactions.

[justbeinghonest]

It's kinda hard to break out of the bubble if she had overly protective parents. Also she is young, she will get better when she gets older.

[Asker]

well she's an only child.

[justbeinghonest]

Just let her be, it's not even your girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Lol yeah more like b*tchy, my sisters so rich Im not jealous but i hate her attitude guess money does change people.

[Asker]

yeah, though I am amaze that my brother manage to woo her. as I knew my brother is a tad bit innocent and doesn't have a back bone when it comes to talking to girls so it was big surprise.

[Opinion Owner]

Its cool lol, he probably has good looks I'm sure of it.

[Asker]

uh, I'm sure it doesn't work that way... shouldn't it be that is because he's kind rather than looking good?

[TheGreenRanger]

I'm renting a room out from a rich live in landlord.

One of the coolest guys I know; he encourages me to throw parties at home, lol.

[Asker]

now that made me feel like wanting to rent in the same block as you.

[TheGreenRanger]

Yeah, it's a bachelor pad.

[Findesemana]

no... rich people are all different..

if what she says bothers you, then either talk to her or your bro...

it's most likely she is a bitch, but then if yo udon't like her, then limit your time around her...

[Asker]

no she's not like that, and please refrain from using such degrading works towards her. shes' a good kid. it's just that she's hard to get along with, it's just that it feels as if she's very high up there and it's hard to reach her.

[Findesemana]

huh? i just responded to your question... and you slated her, i don't know who she is...

even if money has made her snobbish, so what? you have to take people as they come..

[Asker]

I guess, anyway thanks. there are all kinds of people out there. right?

[Findesemana]

of course..

[Anonymous]

most rich /spoilt kids act this way... its like this when they are born with a golden spoon in the mouth

[Asker]

It kinds of irritate me somehow as whenever I cook something she wouldn't eat as if eating my cooking is beneath her. but she's pleasant enough to bring me some good wines whenever she comes to visit my brother. (Means almost everyday) and when she's talking to our parents. she acts as if an angel that it irritates me, it was as if she just act that way with me.

[Asker]

as if she found amusement in annoying me.

[Opinion Owner]

this world is full of weirdos

[Asker]

I couldn't agree more. as much as I am loath to admit it, I met a few of them.(weird peoples) but the girl I'm talking about is a good kid. just hard to get along with but a good kid. it just left me wondering if she had any social interaction other than business. as she wasn't very good at interacting with others.

[Opinion Owner]

oh i see

[Michael_Rc46]

Not all. I met a whole lot of millionaires and celebs. Most of them are really nice actually. Most

[Asker]

that's nice to hear.

[sexymax]

all are not the same but many people will act like this.
if you don't like them better stay way.

[Asker]

It's not like I don't like her. she's a good kid she's just, you know. hard to get along with at first because she far too high, (Up there) but she's a good kid.

[sexymax]

then what is the problem

[abundantlyrich]

Accept it. That is life. She has more leeway and power than you.

[miserybusiness]

No lol that's like saying all poor people are kind and selfless

[Anonymous]

No, it's a stupid generalization!

[Asker]

I see, that's good to hear. because I don't meet rich peoples a lot. in fact she's the first one.

[Opinion Owner]

It depends in the kid and how they were raised. I was brought up with money and I'm not haughty or snobby neither is any of my siblings. This generalization really pisses me off.

[Asker]

oh I'm sorry about that, I didn't mean to offend you. I did say that she's haughty and a bit snobbish.(too much sometimes) but she's a good kid. there are just times that she acts like she's having trouble having normal interaction with others but when talking about business she's all good. I didn't mean to offend, as all I mean is if they are snobbish and haughty. but I knew she's a good girl, just hard to get along with. but a good girl nonetheless.

[Asker]

that is the very reason why I asked this question, the reason she acts snobbish is because she's uncomfortable. and I wanted to break her out of it. she only acts like a normal girl when she's with my brother. what if my brother weren't here or if he's busy. how could I possible help her is something is wrong if I don't know how to.

[Opinion Owner]

Her being uncomfortable doesn't make her snobby. It's normal. Even a girl who wasn't rich would be uncomfortable with her bf's family in the beginning. Give her time she'll become more comfortable.

[Asker]

She's been dating my brother since they were first year high school and graduating from college now. so she's very comfortable with him now, there are times when I'm talking to her but she wouldn't respond or wouldn't even look at me, I knew she was uncomfortable and I felt like wanting to break her out of it. we're going to be family soon but she's still uncomfortable with us.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know why she's like that. That's weird. Do you guys do anything to make her uncomfortable? Like keep talking about how wealthy she is? Cuz that's very annoying and makes people very uncomfortable.

[Asker]

hmm, no. we really don;t care about her wealth. the only thing important to us is that she'll accept our family and be happy with my brother and made sure he'll be happy with her. we weren't really expecting much other than grand children's and nephew or nieces. she's just having hard time I guess? I heard from my brother that during their high school he's the only one who talks to her daily.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm a little confused. People wouldn't talk to her bec she's rich?

[Asker]

no, she's just having trouble talking to others well. as when someone talk to her, it was always business. I think.

[Asker]

she had no siblings. so I could understand her having trouble.

[Opinion Owner]

The way she's acting has nothing to do with her being rich.