Are all rich people especially girls acts haughty and snobbish?

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You see guys, my little brother's girlfriend (Fiancee) is a rich girl. she's polite when talking to our parents and normally sweet whenever she's with my little brother. too sweet to the point that I find them a bit corny, but the thing is whenever my brother isn't there and when I see her interacting with others or me. she usually act haughtily and snobbish. she would usually roll her eyes when someone hit on her or when I tried to make a joke she would just scoff and roll her eyes, but she wasn't antagonizing me (though it didn't help the fact that she would sometimes ignores me when I ask a question or when I'm talking). she just usually point out that I don't have a good sense of humor and lack proper etiquette because of the way I dress. it's not that I find her irritating. it's just I feel uncomfortable whenever she goes to our home riding different car models. there were even one time she was riding a limo and it irritates me because it become the subject of gossip around here (How I wished that she would just drag my brother and let him live in her house). I admit, she deserves to act that way with how rich she is. but still, I kind of feel like she's flaunting it. but her polite and innocent expressions made it hard to believe that she's doing it on purpose but she acts as if she's humbled. are all rich girl/guys (peoples) are all like this? because I do hope that it isn't. I sure hope not.

serg11 · Accepted Answer

Ok, I used to go to a private school back in Mexico so I know the kind of people you mean. Honestly, based on how you say she acts, it's not much her being snobbish as much as her living the lifestyle she grew up used to. I mean we were very well off financially, but some people were filthy rich (ex. a primary school classmate showed up to my bday party with a bodyguard, kid in elementary school getting a car for when he drives, etc.), so I could see that there were differences. However mostly they weren't snobby (a handful were though!), that was just the only lifestyle they know. It could be the same with the girl you mention.
Think about it, she grew up wealthy so it is not outlandish for her to be on a limo, it is what she knows. I'm not saying it in a bad way, but it is similarly to what would happen if you visited a third world country. You will go in used to the ammenities from the USA. You would probably find yourself sometimes asking where you can get some wifi, or find a starbucks, getting confused looks among the way. Some people might even find you snooty, but you are not, you just simply grew up used to a specific lifestyle. I don't know if that answered your question.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's a bit of a sweeping generalization but not an entirely entirely fallacious one. I went to a good school, my father worked his socks off to send me there. The pupils were all trustafarians but there was a marked divide between the children of well-to-do parents and the children of nouveau riche parents. Speaking of the latter I'd say they were ignorant, self entitled morons who knew the price of everything and the value of nothing. Their upbringing was poor and their attitude was also poor as a result, they had no appreciation for the consequences of their actions, they thought wealth was a guarantee of immunity from the repercussions of being an ass. These people are the same as adults, but you don't meet them in the workplace, thankfully. They are losers in adult life and gradually loose the respect of their peers because freeloading off your parents is fucking deplorable as far as most people are concerned.

YvngQueen · Accepted Answer

You sound a bit jealous and like her wealth is making you uncomfortable. If you were secure in yourself and appreciative of what you have then she wouldn't be able to do anything to make you uncomfortable. Until you've met every single wealthy person in the world , you have no place to generalize or judge. Take their materials and money away and they're human just like you are. Money and materialistic things don't matter. It's things that one cannot touch but can only feel that are the most valuable in life. Get a good education and pick a good paying job and you can be wealthy too. Just because that girl happens to be rude and wealthy doesn't mean every girl that is wealthy is also rude. Myself for example , i'm blessed enough to be able to get nice things but i am not rude and i value the simple things in life just as much as i value my materialistic things.

justbeinghonest · Accepted Answer

It depends on each person. I know a few people that crap money and they are the nicest down to earth people you'll meet.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lol yeah more like b*tchy, my sisters so rich Im not jealous but i hate her attitude guess money does change people.

TheGreenRanger · Answer

I'm renting a room out from a rich live in landlord. One of the coolest guys I know; he encourages me to throw parties at home, lol.

Findesemana · Answer

no... rich people are all different..

if what she says bothers you, then either talk to her or your bro...

it's most likely she is a bitch, but then if yo udon't like her, then limit your time around her...

Anonymous · Answer

most rich /spoilt kids act this way... its like this when they are born with a golden spoon in the mouth

sexymax · Answer

all are not the same but many people will act like this. if you don't like them better stay way.

Michael_Rc46 · Answer

Not all. I met a whole lot of millionaires and celebs. Most of them are really nice actually. Most

abundantlyrich · Answer

Accept it. That is life. She has more leeway and power than you.

miserybusiness · Answer

No lol that's like saying all poor people are kind and selfless

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's a stupid generalization!

Are all rich people especially girls acts haughty and snobbish?

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