I kind of am. I'm not ugly, but I'm not a model either. I'd be wondering why a hot guy would be talking/interested in me.
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Yeah I've noticed a lot of girls that I've found attractive and talked to are really imsecure and thing theyre not pretty, so end up thinking Im only talking to them to try and get sex, which really sucks
Just try and try again. Hopefully she will eventually notice the difference. Maybe try starting off acting as a friend first, then make you're move. I'm better now at accepting compliments than I used to be, a couple of great guys taught me better :)
I know its hard, but try not to be disheartened, we all go through feelings like this at some point in our lives, just keep on moving forward and you WILL meet the right guy
guys that are attractive are kinda assumed as players, if you want more girls convince them your not, u get one first impression be charming, reserved and RESPECTFUL
personally im suspicious of almost any guy bc i can't trust them easily. especially good looking guys. and yes i do think they are after sex although i know that not everyone is the same.
not, really. It is just something with very off with attractive guys. They are often arrogent and cocky. I don't got time for that. No girl should feel like shit just cause of a guy is "attractive" and gets more attention than most guys. . I am not insecure at all. I just don't like attractive guy so much, for me personality is more important than looks, who gives a fuck about looks. Looks fades away, and yes. I am an attractive girl.
Well, sure, it's intimidating to talk with a guy who's attractive. Especially if he knows it. If a guy can get anyone, why would he settle for just one person?
Hopefully as u get older you'll get a bit more confident. Because there's no reason for u to be thinking like that. Trust me start changing ur mindset while ur still young, believe u are worth it, because you are, trust me
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I kind of am. I'm not ugly, but I'm not a model either. I'd be wondering why a hot guy would be talking/interested in me.
Yeah I've noticed a lot of girls that I've found attractive and talked to are really imsecure and thing theyre not pretty, so end up thinking Im only talking to them to try and get sex, which really sucks
Just try and try again. Hopefully she will eventually notice the difference. Maybe try starting off acting as a friend first, then make you're move. I'm better now at accepting compliments than I used to be, a couple of great guys taught me better :)
Yeah I suppose I could try that, thanks 😊
No problem :) Good luck!
Yes, I do. I always think that they're making fun of me or they just want me for sex.
I would think you're too pretty to look at a girl like me, that or he must be gay.
From ur display pic you look nice (no creep). A good looking guy would have to be mad to not wanna date you
Thanks but I get rejected on a daily basis 😥
Just dont let that stop you, youve probably just encountered the wrong type of guy. Saying that, I've probably answered my own question
Maybe I have been approaching the wrong guys. 💔
I know its hard, but try not to be disheartened, we all go through feelings like this at some point in our lives, just keep on moving forward and you WILL meet the right guy
I can only hope so and not let thoughts get to me.
guys that are attractive are kinda assumed as players, if you want more girls convince them your not, u get one first impression be charming, reserved and RESPECTFUL
personally im suspicious of almost any guy bc i can't trust them easily. especially good looking guys. and yes i do think they are after sex although i know that not everyone is the same.
A lot of hot guys are arrogant whores.
So some girls are suspicious of them.
They make it hell for ones who are not arrogant whores
I like the both of you ;)!!!
Haha 😛
I would be if he was really attractive and had a lot of girls into him. I wouldn't like that and would kind of feel like "why me?"
I would never date or go out with a guy that is very handsome. It is just waste of time. He can get everything he wants, why would he have me?
the insecurity is strong with this one.
why? because who cares what you deserve, take what you want.
not, really. It is just something with very off with attractive guys. They are often arrogent and cocky. I don't got time for that. No girl should feel like shit just cause of a guy is "attractive" and gets more attention than most guys. . I am not insecure at all. I just don't like attractive guy so much, for me personality is more important than looks, who gives a fuck about looks. Looks fades away, and yes. I am an attractive girl.
Well, sure, it's intimidating to talk with a guy who's attractive. Especially if he knows it. If a guy can get anyone, why would he settle for just one person?
i get no girls where am i going wrong ? i am jealous lol
They just think you are taken or probably think too much of yourself and that is a turn off
I'll go out with you ahaha 😉
Haha ur in the UK as well, yes, lets make it happen 😉
Oh wait, ur under 18, no
Ohh come on it's only a year. I'm starting to get suspicious 😉😉😉
I'll just think that they are out of my league
Hopefully as u get older you'll get a bit more confident. Because there's no reason for u to be thinking like that. Trust me start changing ur mindset while ur still young, believe u are worth it, because you are, trust me
Thanks a lot. It's definitely something I'm working on :)
Thats really good keep up the good work sis. Out of interest is that an Indian name?
My name?
Like the user name. Just thought the Jas looked like an Indian name. Never mind haha
It could be your approach
no, not at all. i proliferate them recklessly.
Jesus Christ... welcome to my world mate
I think your hot
Thanks, the question mark usually gets the girls interested
I think ur too hot lol
I'm suspicious.
yeah... 100% true..