My bf aunt doesn't like me?

[Anonymous]

I have met her at the park when my bf's mom wanted to have a picnic. They're hispanic, I don't know if has anything to do with, and I'm a Filipino. Anyways when the first time I met her, I was my with my bf meeting them to their car to tell them where our spot was and she didn't even said hi or anything and just told me to get some chairs on the back of her truck. And I was okay with it, like I thought she's already treats me like family. After the pick nick my bf got really upset cause he said that it was really rude of her. But I told him it was alright he don't have to get all upset about it. But today when his parents invited me to go watch the super bowl with them, we went to her house, I just pretty much stayed with my bf the whole time or with his cousins and little bit with my bf's mom , and when I talk to her it was before we left, and I thank her for having me over, and she just looked away and said yeah your welcome. but when it comes to other people like her sons gf she's like all nice and stuff. I don't know what I did wrong for making her hate me, or don't like me. So what do you guys think her reason is? Why does she hate me?

[Irish_cutie]

I don't think she hates you for any reason. Try talking to her more, go out of your way to make conversation with her.

I know my boyfriends mom was upset with me because when I was with Matt (my bf) in his room watching TV we were always talking and joking around and the moment his mom was around I was quite because I didn't really know what to say. Well she hated that and told Matt who of course wasn't going to hide that from me. So I walked downstairs and sat with her at the dinner table and asked her if I could bug her to see some baby pictures. And she ran to her room and grabbed them and talked my ear off about stories of when he was little.

Now she loves me and won't let me alone when I am around. You just have to put on a smile and talk to her, ask her questions about herself and even ask her about stories of when Nick was little. She can't hate you for trying to get close to her.

[Asker]

Thanks that made me feel a little but better, but whenever she's around she's always just busy with something and I do try to help her out and stuff, and like how you felt I didn't really had anything else to say either, and she'll just be like no, I mean I try harder than her sons gf, she just sits around and stuff, but she treats her better which kind of throw me off

[Irish_cutie]

You could always talk to her son's girlfriend about it and see when she says. Ask her if she had the same problem with her at first and how she did it. Because I have a feeling She didn't like her son's girlfriend at first either. Female Hispanics normally like giving the cold shoulders to girlfriends until they "prove themselves worthy" because they have a huge thing about respect and family. So I think talking to the girlfriend would be your best bet.

[Yeatts]

Maybe she just wants him to go out with someone who shares their culture or religious beliefs. Just ask your bf if he has any ideas.