saying you are lonely means you are needy and that you have problems. people don't want to be around someone with nothing to give or who seems like a downer.
Girls usually want a guy a bunch of other girls want. We're driven and competitive by nature and everyone wants someone who stands out more. It's the thrill of pursuit.
Because i'm no good at starting conversation. So if the guys lonely and just sit in the corner, not start any conversation, i will also just... sit in my own corner, most likely
Lonely means insecure, and insecure means a waste of time unfortunately. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who was a hermit, and I can imagine not a lot of girls would either.
Because they're deemed as unapproachable or undesirable.
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Girls ignore lonely guys only when the guys makes it seem like they're lonely. No one wants a relationship with someone who seems sad and depressed 24/7. They want someone who's fun and exciting. Even if you're lonely, there's a way to present yourself that will make girls notice you.
I like shy guys i think they are adorable but there is a difference when it comes to guys who are shy and guys who really just want to be left alone.. Its hard to differentiate
Because she wants a good father for her kids, and like it or not, being lonely is not a very strong trait.
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well if you're fuckin lonely then you must be depressing to talk to have around as well... who would want that negative vibe around them? cheer up buttercup
Because they smell of desperation and it's just so sad and a huge turn off.
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Anonymous
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I wouldn't ignore a lonely guy but id assume he wouldn't want me to approach him or start a conversation with him because he is lonely and might like being that way
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saying you are lonely means you are needy and that you have problems. people don't want to be around someone with nothing to give or who seems like a downer.
Girls usually want a guy a bunch of other girls want. We're driven and competitive by nature and everyone wants someone who stands out more. It's the thrill of pursuit.
Because i'm no good at starting conversation. So if the guys lonely and just sit in the corner, not start any conversation, i will also just... sit in my own corner, most likely
Lonely means insecure, and insecure means a waste of time unfortunately. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who was a hermit, and I can imagine not a lot of girls would either.
probably the same reason why guys ignore lonely girls...
but just keep pursuing what interests you and put yourself out there so people know your there and someone will come.
Lonely people in my opinion tend to secluded themselves from others. It seems like they don't want to talk anybody so people will leave y'all alone.
If a guy doesn't talk to me, or anyone else, I'd think he's not really interested in talking to anyone so I don't want to "disturb"
i guess this happens because they'd be afraid of his reaction basically... lonely ugys have a rep. that they might be rude when you talk to them
I don't ignore them..
It's just that, I don't spot them. .
You see my eyes is not the best eye to see who is lonely or not..
Because they're deemed as unapproachable or undesirable.
Girls ignore lonely guys only when the guys makes it seem like they're lonely. No one wants a relationship with someone who seems sad and depressed 24/7. They want someone who's fun and exciting. Even if you're lonely, there's a way to present yourself that will make girls notice you.
I never ignore them.. Each n every guy has its own individuality I respect that..
I like shy guys i think they are adorable but there is a difference when it comes to guys who are shy and guys who really just want to be left alone.. Its hard to differentiate
Because she wants a good father for her kids, and like it or not, being lonely is not a very strong trait.
well if you're fuckin lonely then you must be depressing to talk to have around as well... who would want that negative vibe around them? cheer up buttercup
Its funny becaue linely girls should seek out lo ely guys amd vice versa. They would be very happy amd understand each other.
What'd you mean by lonely? If you mean the quiet type then that's probably why. They don't feel like you're chatty enough
because they're not appealing. I prefer confident, outgoing guys - but not overconfident and clingy
Because they smell of desperation and it's just so sad and a huge turn off.
I wouldn't ignore a lonely guy but id assume he wouldn't want me to approach him or start a conversation with him because he is lonely and might like being that way