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I posted it here, because it all didn't fit in the reply box.
Here just read about my 1st time. Mine was a odd ball 1st time. I was 18 back then.
Now mind you we been dating for a little bit. No sex or nothing. But I was really trying. She kept saying not now time is not right.
We were doing some heavy petting for days. Then one she came to me with a box all gift wrap. The works you know.
I ask what with the gift box. She goes it time now. I go huh. I was dumb I didn't catch her clues and hints.
She said "open it come on open it" So I opened it. Guess what was inside. It was a bunch of lingerie and panties. I was lost and confused.
I go whats with this stuff. I kid you not this next part is going to be word for word. She said "These are are for you the wear tonight. I want our first time to be super special. So I went Fredricks and with your sizes. Got you some of these things I thought you might like."
Here is what going through my mind. This girl is freaking nuts and at the same time I was getting super turned on. By the idea.
I was like. No fucking way I'm wearing that shit. My mouth was saying and my brain was saying. Shut the fuck up mouth your going to blow your chance of getting laid.
Well needless to say I wore it and had the best sex of my life. She turned me into a lingerie wearing crossdresser.
We were together for 3 years. In those 3 years. I became real comfortable in lingerie. So after 28 years I still wear lingerie. I may not be with her any more. But her affect on me is still active.
Women after her think I'm fucked in the head. Maybe they are right, but at least I'm happy with my brainwashing from 28 years ago.
Would I change this event if I could? I thought about that. And answer is always the same. No way because I would have missed out on some great memories and lifetime of enjoying ladies lingerie.
Wow that's intense
The same women who think you are fucked in the head are the ones who wear guys shirts, jeans, etc
Okay I crossdress as well and the wife knows. But I don't think I could do the sissy and passable woman style of crossdressing.
I go for the man up version of crossdressing. Like I would wear something female with my mans clothes. I don't try the look female at all.
Now back how the wife feels. Well lets just say tolerates it to a point. Like in the bedroom every goes and try anything.
Now outside the bedroom thats where she is not liking to a point. Like I can wear leggings and maybe something else. But a skirt or a dress forget it. But to be fair I have not really tried it on her either. To see if it fly.
Also I don't do make-up tried don't like. Makes my skin feel weird. And I don't do bras. Why because my body don't need one and I think they are uncomfortable as hell. So she glad for them two things I don't wear. But she likes me wearing perfume. I mean she really like it. More then I do. I like it a little. She freaking is shopping for it for me. I find that part odd.
Oh there is a rule I must follow I can't shave my chest if she is to be content with CDing. She has a thing for hairy chest and mustaches. So I keep them.
So what I'm getting at is compromise and comucate. Is the key to live with them. Like I told my wife you been crossdressing most of your life. I'm just getting started I only came to learn to except it in my middle 30's. So if I must have it in my life, might as well be happy with it.
Damm I talk to much. I just wanted to say a couple words and I wrote a freaking book. Oh well. I figure if it helps it helps. If not to fucking bad. I already typed it.
I don´t know anyone who is into it, so this topic is really new for me. Maybe I would be confused, because I don't know how far it affects your sexuality. Honestly I don't know how I would react, if I found out my boyfriend is into it. Maybe freaked out, maybe I would make it a fun time together. As already mentioned: Communication is everything.
But what is it, that you like about crossdressing? Is it something you just do behind closed doors or in public? How do you express yourself, when you do it? Just curious.
For now it's just private, but I would like to be able to be passable enough to go in public, and be like my wife's girl friend you know go check out guys and stuff. I think it kinda comes from the fact that she doesn't really have too many girl friends
checking guys out for fun, or because you are bi? I don?t know how open minded your wife is, but I would take it slow tellin her all your fantasies. Might surprise her a little bit too much. But I hope you guys find a way to share it together.
I'm an older straight mature male that has had the interest and desire for years, and I mean years. I've kept it to my self wondering if I maybe bi or gay. I come to realize that I'm neither, I'm a straight male. However, I truly enjoy the feminine aspects, the feel of lace, silk, nylon panties on my shaved skin, I have not gotten comfortable yet with the size and fit of matching panties and bras, but, Once mastered I may try more. My interests isn't going outside. I'd really enjoy sharing an occasional playful makeup and dressup with a special woman that may enjoy doing her guy up. Role playing and maybe even being her French Maid and exploring being her sissy from time to time. This is dependent of how far she may want to go with her playful toy. If it was discreet, I'd love to dress up as her French Maid and she have a few of her close discreet lady friends over and I serve them wine, cheese and drinks. Thats a long stretch but its quite the fantasy. Any thoughts?
I think my biggest fear would be you stealing my favorite clothes ;) in all seriousness though, the woman already obviously loves you! I mean don't shock her if you can help it but lead her into understanding this side of you gently :) maybe talk with her about it and show her your favorite parts of cross dressing and talk everything out with her. Things like this work so much better with just a bit of communication :)
Good lucky sweetie. Some women end up being very supportive of their feminized men such as in this book where a crossdresser wrote about their positive experience. www.amazon.com/.../
Some women see it as another aspect of the man they love and embrace it. I wish you the best of luck
@NicoletteKomotov going to look that book up
@NicoletteKomotov My first serious relationship happened when I was 19 and she was 43 and she talked me into crossdressing because she thought I already looked like a girl with my extremely long hair and soft feminine features. Even when not cross-dressed, before meeting her some women would address me as "miss" thinking I was a girl until I opened my mouth. It didn't help being both skinny and having man boobs, a rare combination I've been told. I lived with her for a year and she was also a Domme who "enslaved" me (I very enthusiastically consented) and I spent entire months cross-dressed. Within a few months I had more girl clothes than guy clothes and most people thought we were a lesbian couple. I had a blast. But our interests took us in opposite directions and we broke up.
@NicoletteKomotov that would be awesome from my wife
Uh... The only time I saw a guy crossdress in real life was when my friend and I were walking through Harajuku and this group of males cosplaying in lolita outfits approached us asking us to take their picture for them. I don't know if I would like a crossdressing guy. I think I'd find it odd, but if he wanted to do it once in a blue moon it would be fine by me.
I don't know if this post is old now, but I find guys who crossdress to be just as attractive and masculine. I wish I could find a guy who was open to it but I've been afraid to ask as I've hinted at it with exes and they usually turn up their nose. You can definitely find a girl who is interested in it. I sure am, haha.
@SpectrumX That makes sense. And I can understand the hesitancy, society is a bitch. I’ll probably just try to become more acquainted with private communities into it and ask around. And then there’s always the roulette of casual date questions lol. “I’ll have the quesadillas, by the way do you cross dress.”
Really?
First I noticed the question.
Then I noticed your age.
Then I thought it over.
We-men who wear lingerie-are out here.
It should be something you get settled up front in a relationship-if your speaking of finding one of us.
You can search us out-maybe try the easy free ones first..."Locanto" is one I believe where you can still have a classified ad.
Or go the expensive route-Adult Friend Finders-and if you do that one talk to me before you do go on there.
Or the old fashioned way, ask all your friends who they know and if they can introduce you. Word of mouth, THE one thing most crossdressers don't like, is the most essential part of people finding their mates for life.
You might find one, or one of us may find you.
Life is really a big crap shoot. You roll the dice everyday, and see if it's win-lose-draw. Pay attention to the people around you-you might be working with a guy who has a $35 pair of stockings under those trousers, would you know what to look for? I see it almost everyday. Guy's are hiding the best stuff under suits, overalls, work clothes.
Some day get up, pull some stockings and a garter belt on and a pair of pants. You'll soon be able to see on yourself what shows through, that should help with that.
And if you do search on out , please be honest, direct, and don't settle with any part of it that doesn't feel right. Remember, when it for you, you should go for the best of the best.
I cross dress. Let's chat!
If you see a really cute guy who has a clean shaven face, really neat eye brows, pierced ears and long hair he is probably more open to the idea of cross dressing than a guy who has short hair, a beard and scruffy features. I know that seems stereotypical but honestly the closer a guy looks to being feminine the likelier he is to be willing to take it a step further and in fact may already being doing so when you're not around. Check out fetlife an online organization that helps like minded people of all persuasions find sexually compatible people.
@SpectrumX agree with you 100%. I'm a straight guy, but I do enjoy cross dressing for quite a while. I've been fortunate to date a few girls that were very open to it and loved to explore it. However, this is one of the toughest questions I've had to ask early on in a relationship because of the fear a girl I really liked was going to end our relationship over it.
Actually I like dressing like a woman. It gives me the freedom that all people should have. I like going out late night for a drive wearing skirts, heels and nylons. The best feeling ever is to have someone that is open minded that will try anything especially cuddling with both individuals wearing nylons. Now that turns me on. Just as having your woman take you to the woman's department and tell you to pick out whatever you want.
I’d love to show tou pics of me. I think you’d be shocked and very turned on ;)
I personally love cross dressing guys. When guys wear dresses and stockings and other things like that I think it's cute. Cross dressing can also be very sexy if done right. I wish I had a cross dressing boyfriend to dress up...
Want to know about my 1st time CDing...
This also counts as loosing my virginity...
So this is a re-post of what I said else where on this web site.
Here just read about my 1st time. Mine was a odd ball 1st time. I was 18 back then.
Now mind you we been dating for a little bit. No sex or nothing. But I was really trying. She kept saying not now time is not right.
We were doing some heavy petting for days. Then one she came to me with a box all gift wrap. The works you know.
I ask what with the gift box. She goes it time now. I go huh. I was dumb I didn't catch her clues and hints.
She said "open it come on open it" So I opened it. Guess what was inside. It was a bunch of lingerie and panties. I was lost and confused.
I go whats with this stuff. I kid you not this next part is going to be word for word. She said "These are are for you the wear tonight. I want our first time to be super special. So I went Fredricks and with your sizes. Got you some of these things I thought you mi
id give anything for a girlfriend or friend like you!
And you hear guys wishing they had someone like you. I got lucky. My going to be wife, we were together for about a week and she handed me a pair of stockings and said "Ty these on". Thats it, we've been doing it for almost 25 years now. I'm total heterosexual, never tried to leave the house dressed because I have never been fully dressed, and so un-passable.
And correct, can be extremely sexy with ll the soft satin and silk rubbing together with your lover. We have locked the doors and just stayed in lingerie for a week too. It' our little world and it's fantastic... I do want to ask you though, is cute the word you want to use?
We are serious about what we do. When I put on lingerie I want to look super sexy for my wife. I someone dresses up for you you need to know: if they do it for you they are putting their heart in it, they are trying to be as sexy as they can for you, make you desire them, and ask anyone who does dress, cute was when we were 4 years old wearing mommy's big floppy hat and high heels. Grown up? Sensuous, thats more like it. I do appreciate this being here for us to state our case. Men had corsets before women did-check the military history on that one, true. Men had garters for their socks before women even had stockings, fact check it. Women need to not be challenged by the idea of a man wearing stockings, panties, garters. We-I any way-don't want to be a woman. Period. I'm a guy. I like being a guy. I also like comfortable clothes. Some of them just happen to be designated "women's". Anyone wants to pick my brain I will be around-and I was a licensed nurse, answering things truthfully is built in!
Thank you for asking the question that everyone else was afraid to!
Wish I could wear your bra
That's great that you are open minded about it. I think a lot of girls don't realize the side benefits of a guy that cross-dresses besides the sexual part. A few girls I have dated that were accepting of it loved the fact that we could shop for clothes together, and that when they were getting ready I was way more patient than other guys since I realize how much work it is. Women have way more clothing options to choose from than guys so obviously it takes a little longer to get dressed.
You are so right baby
Are you happy to let you help me dress up or dress me up anytime you wish. I'm 5 ft 9 in tall and weigh 127 lb long legs long hair very petite narrow high arch feet with my toenails painted, I absolutely adore feminine clothing 💋
I wish you were here with me now if would love for you to dress me like you dress every day sweetheart you could be my wife forever and
That is awesome, wish my wife understood.
I'll tell you this much: I probably wouldn't date one, LOL.
Nothing against them; it's their life and choice. But attraction wise, I'm not into guys that wear women's clothing.
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Me myself I think it's because they don't understand why he's doing it and in today's world it's not expecting but to be honest i think a lot of ladies are missing out when you get a guy feminized he becomes more in touch with what a ladie wants no problems getting to help doing house work no fighting over what to watch not to mention he is not going to cheat if he's has panties on not to mention having a girlfriend to do stuff with that can still give you the sex you want and need
Good lucky sweetie. Some women end up being very supportive of their feminized men such as in this book where a crossdresser wrote about their positive experience. www.amazon.com/.../
Some women see it as another aspect of the man they love and embrace it. I wish you the best of luck
Don't say that women are scared/turned off by crossdressers. DISCRIMINATE people are scared/turned off by crossdressers. This isn't a chic thing, you just happen to know a lot of uneducated and ignorant women. If you think guys aren't discriminate against folks who choose to cross dress then you know nothing about the world.
No argument intended but, it seems as though a lot of women are scared of, or completely turned off by crossdressing guys. Look, I'm as Redneck as they come, and I'm not liking some things in society, but, if a person ain't hurtin' nobody by doing what he/she are doing, what's the problem? Just saying I did quite a bit of internet research after that, and it seem that most women are scared off, turned off by, or just plain against any sort of male to female crossdressing. Just my interpretation.
While both genders are discriminate, men tend to be the ones that will hurt someone for it. A woman may give a cross dresser an odd look, and then forget about it. But a bunch of orthodox Christian fellas in Texas may beat, harass, and/or KILL someone over it.
I wish my wife was supportive, it's a huge turn on when women like it
Muslim girls like cross-dressers... Their entire religion was revealed by a demon processed guy that wore his child bride's dress while covered in semen...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/5mYfHxyGAIo
I have a real awesome wife that wanted me to explore it more. That was 25 years ago and I am to still married to her today. I want to clear and I don't dress like a woman, I don't look like a woman and I don't want to be a woman. I just wear a mix of both genders.
I do, yes. It's loads of fun dressing him up all the way. ^_^
I wish a girl would dress me up make up and everything
lets chat some time
Well, if my wife was as supportive I'd be in heaven. your lucky husband... he ever been with a man?
Not personally it's a bit strange to date a guy who could pull off my clothes better than I can lol no hate. Just ask her straight up and if she says yes u have to consider if it's something you want to do for her
I agree with Cjanes. Women are not mind readers. Even though it sure seem like it at times.
@Happyme2017 lol if women could read our minds, you wouldn't see one for miles and I'm sure most of us would prob be arrested considering the things that enter our minds... especially when it's of a sexual nature... lol
@FauxGirlNikki and if women read minds maybe they would view men differently-it's a little more complicated than you think.
We don't walk around with a mental hard on all day craving nothing more than beer and sex.
That will come as a surprise to some folks too.
I hope if someone is going to read my mind, they have read the warning label on the back of it.
Authorized users only-using without safety equipment can cause severe injury and or death and madness. Yeah, kinda really scary up there at times...
i love being a girl, i just wish there were more females who enjoyed their company to hang out with!
Go for it just watch out she doesn't shove anything up your booty
oh my Lord.. He went there hahaha
No. If I wanted to date a woman, I would! Not a man pretending to be a woman, lol
Its not everyday when you see a man dressed like a woman. I wouldn't be freaked out but I would stare and look. I'm not used to seeing that
That makes sense
I'd love for a woman to stare and look, maby help me adjust it correctly... tell me what looks good... that'd be excellent
First thing, I find that tattooed, pierced, purple haired woman the sexiest woman I have ever seen in my entire life. I'm in love! I'm a 100% straight male that enjoys crossdressing. I can't explain it completely but I like the way women's lingerie and clothes feel against my skin and it sexually arouses me.
My girlfriend seems to at least be entertained with my crossdressing. I think she is more excited to see me bent over and fucked by another male than she is actually having sex with me. I've been in chastity for 22 days but she is very entertained with it. I already have 3 chastity cages and a fourth one is ordered that she had personalized with my name engraved on the front.
No, if I wanted to date a woman I would date a woman.
Do you want to know because you like dressing in women's clothing but want a relationship with a woman? It's problematic.
People can do what they want in their free time, but id never be in a relationship with a cross dresser.
The LGBT feminist liberal broken transgender fat rude colored hair tattoo satanic pagan Wiccan atheist girls do.
Real women with standards have no time to entertain that.
Well spoken.
I wonder why females look so masculine in pants and jeans. So if it okay for females to look a little masculine. Why can't men look a little feminine.
In privacy ok, on public - no. It can be really fun in bed x)
You want to dress as a women and think you're women would be happy 😂
Some girls actually enjoy it. It's still not commonly discussed but i can tell it's gaining popularity
No I'm not attracted to cross dressers because I'm stricky attracted to males so it kind of good es against thatbto a certain degree.
You can go to Experience Project and join a number of groups there who will help you with crossdressing. You would have much better luck.
That's something I've always wondered! D:
Back when I was in Year 11, I'd often bring up the issue of crossdressing during RP, and ask why women wearing male clothes is acceptable, but men wearing female clothes is seen as loopy :O
I know right? Like why is it okay for girls to sometimes wear boxers but if a guy wears panties he gets made fun of and everyone assumes the worst.
I'm fone with being cross dressed to be honest with you, well for a day or two only as a joke.
Are they hurting you, if not why would you be concerned. ? I am 100% fine with it.
I have moderate disdain. It seems a frivolous bout of foolishness.
Limp wristed yellow chitting sissies, I'm sure their momma is proud.
i don't mind.
and your wife doesn't either-that's all that matters
I like normalcy. I'm pretty sure your wife loves you regardless. I mean she married you after all..it's like kind of too late to ask this question isn't it?
I guess you're right about trying to get opinions on the dressing part.
Luck you, go for it, used to know a very nice couple whose wife dressed him all the time, I have a couple of outfits, Domme and slut, would love to have a girl to share dressing with,
I wish i could find someone who could understand me. Im a strange crossdresser from kiwi land and boy its so hard to find girls who are accepting and open minded
I got started crossdressing because of a girl. Goes to show you. They like to leave men with a curse
i say go with the flo and have her dress you up and if she has a strapin let her pegg u i mean look how sexy she is thats a once in a lifetime chance if u look like a girly guy
Where a open country so it happen more and more each day ignore it
Have you ever had a make out session while you were cross dressed?
That's what got me into it kinda. My girlfriend told me to wear her boy shorts when I was out of my briefs. When she saw me in them she said wow my butt looks great in them. The way they fit on me was getting me turned on. then she touched me and it blew up from there.
I wish my wife was into crossdressing like I was. have to hide it. I love thongs n stockings that's all I need. if any one wants to see my pics let me know
Yuck! I am not comfortable at all around these people I am sorry but they just freak me out.
Personally i know some girls who like crossdressers☺️
I like girly boys it matches my very tomboy side
I 've been crossdressing for years my wife knows and loves I can be myself and buys my panties for me etc
My wife let's me crossdress. I told her I have been doing this since I was a kid.
I do I think it's cute and kinda sexy!
I'm a straight crossdresser. I have been dressing since I was 10 I am now 24. I usually just wear panties instead of boxers because they fit good, feel good, and they make me feel sexy. I threw away all my girl stuff trying to quit but I can't deny who I am. I need to go buy more panties and bras. If it was socially acceptable I would go out dressed as a girl at least 3 times a week.
@Abbypink420 I been there and done that. I thrown out so much. What a waste of money. I just had to learn to come to terms with it. Once I did that I was comfortable with myself. Now no more money being thrown out for feeling ashamed of wearing ladies clothing.
If need to talk to someone that has been there. See my name click on it and contact me.
I don't see a problem
I applaud their bravery 🙂
It wouldn't turn me on
PM whatever you want to ask/discuss
what would you like to know?
I think she might be a lesbian :/
I'm here if you need to talk😊
PM me and we can work out some networking :)
I don't care, I started out as one.
Yes it is fun
Enjoy it honey!
Give him this book to get started. www.amazon.com/.../
Sure, you can message me.
I would guess most don't.
That's definitely not my cup of tea.
What questions do you have?
They aren't masculine
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