She was talkative. Now she's quiet?

[Anonymous]

So i met this girl on an online dating site and the same day I started talking to her she was super talkative and answered very quickly the whole day. We exchanged numbers and she even gave me her snapchat. Everything just clicked so well. Then that same night I asked her to meet me for late night food, she said she was tired but still want to and for me to ask her again when I got out of work. Then, nothing. When I got out of work I asked her and nothing. I met her online it says she's still online but she won't return my texts. I sent 4 texts straight that wasn't answered. Which I knew was a bad idea because it seemed desperate. I don't want to date her or anything yet. Just to meet and get food. I didn't eat all day so I was actually hungry. Now I think she's turned off by some reason. Anyone can explain why and maybe how to fix it? I texted her once today and still nothing.

[becca123]

This indicates a lack of interest. It's probably nothing you said or did, just that she isn't interested in pursuing things any further. Could be she is talking to other guys, she didn't find your conversations interesting, she never intended to date you, who knows.

The one downfall to online dating is the ability of people to ghost, just disappear without warning or explanation. The anonymity of the sites makes it easy to do.

Don't beat yourself up, just delete and retreat; delete her contact info and retreat from pursuing her. You deserve someone who respects you and meets your efforts with efforts of her own.

[Asker]

But that doesn't make sense. Why would she give me her number and her snapchat only to not talk to me

[becca123]

She was into you at first, then I guess for whatever reason cooled on the idea. It isn't anything you did, some girls are just fickle.

[Moose2coolvargas]

Yeah happens to me

[Prof_Don]

in my opinion she probably got a boyfriend, and doesn't want to lead you on.

Girls are so afraid to have the "I don't want to see you anymore" conversation, so they decide to vaporize into nothingness instead. Get used to it. A girl not replying = not interested anymore.