This guy is really quiet whenever we hang out. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy while on tinder and I thought he was really cute and we started getting to know each other. So I’ve been over to his place 3 times now and we just hang out watching tv most of the time. So today I asked him if he still liked me. And he said”yeah why’d you ask?” And I told him it’s because he was really quiet with me. And it’s funny because he has a podcast with him and a couple other guys on YouTube and he’s really talkative on there.

[Guy13]

Perhaps you should question him less. I ask one thing and give other person plenty of time with it before you change subject. Do not push conversation BECAUSE you shut it down. It seems like you are the only one talking then SO guys shut down. Guys do not like to talk as much as women... Stay on ONE subject... investigate that one topic for awhile.

[Dboy97]

He probably just really enjoys your presence and energy and doesn’t need to speak. Some are like that. If I really like someone and I’m comfortable enough, I’m happy to just exist near them and spend time. Talking is optional. It’s also rather new so he might also be timid that he’s gonna say/do something early on that would turn you off.

[spartan55]

So I guess that means you are talking the whole time then?

[Avicenna]

Do something that you both find fun that doesn't rely on great conversations

[FilmGuy93]

He's probably hoping that you'll bounce ideas off of him and start talking.