Girlfriend acts so different around her friends?

[jjames82789]

So, we're both 20 years old and we've been dating for a little over 6 months. When she's around just me, she's completely awesome and secure and we just have a great time together. Then whenever we're around her friends or family, she is kinda crazy and annoying and says hurtful things in the name of being "funny" but I don't even laugh. Then whenever we're alone she says I was acting weird! haha!

I know that we all act a little different around different people and I'm sure I do the same sometimes. But the problem I have is I wonder what is the real her? Because as she becomes more mature, she'll stick more to her real personality, I believe. I just don't know which one that is and I don't want her crazy self to be her real personality, if you know what I mean.

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Any more thoughts here?

[nadiya]

She obviously doesn't realize she's doing it. Have you tried talking to her about it?

[jjames82789]

No, I haven't. I don't really know how to go about it without causing friction

[nadiya]

Next time she tells you you were acting weird, just bring it up and try talking to her about it. tell her its hurtful and offensive and you don't like it. but nicely.