Similar situation, but she's sending me full on nudes and says shit like "I'm not trying to lead you on or anything". Pffff. Whatever. I'm well aware she may be just using me as an emotional tampon to escape her shit marriage, but knowing (and accepting) that's a possibility is key. It prevents you from getting too lost in anything and allows you to play with the situation at the same time. Just know if anyone does something that would upset you if you were in a relationship with them, its pretty much proof they aren't getting their needs met while at the same time, not doing what they should do which is work it out or call it off. Neither of which is your choice or responsibility. Justale sure you don't get shot.
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What's it mean for you? Nothing. She's (from a man's viewpoint) screwing with you; because you're a "trusted friend." There's totally no chance of the two of you crossing any lines, or accidental pocket dials at midnight. You're "safe." (to her)
Player move: Make NO comments and send those pictures back to her. With the text: "What the hell am I supposed to be looking at here?" That way you save face by not playing to her B. S., being her "pseudo-gay safe friend."
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Means she still likes the attention of other men.
What it means to you? NOTHING.
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