Is it true that women love conflict and drama in a relationship?

[Scared_Banana]

Yes

No

[kaylaS91]

Good thing I actually watched the vid as otherwise, I probably would've launched into writing a whole paragraph in defense of women (myself included). 🙈

After watching it, though, it does sound pretty accurate for the mostpart. Though I would change use of the word of 'drama' as in women love drama to intensity. My boyfriend often tells me that I 'must love to fight' and shit which is not at all the truth. What I do crave sometimes is just seeing more of an equal amount of intensity/passion from his side. In my efforts to try and get some more of that out of him, especially after a couple of weeks of things getting a bit stale between the two of us (be it because of scheduling conflicts, stress due to work/exams, etc.), it sometimes leads to collateral damage in the form of a big fight + some tears being shed on my part. Which is obviously not what I enjoy, nor what I unintentionally seek to find but... once tensions are running high, it's easy for the passion to get a bit off course before hitting the right target.

[btbc92]

I hate conflict and drama! Nothing good comes out from it. Only immature women and gossipers love that stuff. It toxic for me to be involved with. And I feel extremely sorry for some men who is trapped in a never-ending cycle with women who is selfish, petty and doesn't deserve him. When a man wants to be left alone, leave him alone! When he is ready to come talk to you about what bothers him, he will come.

[Allebana]

I hate drama but I realised that most of my girl friends just can't help it
as in they're always over thinking what their bfs are or aren't doing or what they do or don't say and overreact to stupid things like a text answered an hour later etc.. lol

[steveguitar]

You would think they want it and maybe they don't, but look at the TV shows they watch, soap operas, reality (fake bullshit) TV, hey read romance and dramatic books. I don't know but that is the kind of stuff that grabs them.

Hrn you hear the loud girl talk about their social lives or love lives and another girls says ' NO WAAAY' .

I don't know about their own relationships but they certainly love to have something to talk about or gossip about, or just have dirt on their guy for no reason

[steveguitar]

Thanks for MHO!

[Default_Hore]

I think "drama" can create a stronger bond and even hotter sex at specific moments or times. Not all women like drama though, so I'll go with just some.

[BettyWhite]

I wish there was a some do option. I know a few women that like drama in their relationships, they said it adds passion. I enjoy passion from time to time as well, but I'd rather be positive and not bring drama.

[Anonymous]

Only the ones guys see as "passionate" and "expressive" and "exciting" - because in both sexes those seem to be euphemisms for dramatic.

Us boring chicks don't love that rollercoaster, but we also aren't prone to gush and giggle and give huge ego-boosting over-the-top praise or gestures of romance, either.

[martyfellow]

Somehow I haven't met any women who LIKED conflict and stress. There ARE a lot of women who CAUSE it but not because they planned to.

[OlderAndWiser]

There are some guys who are into drama but it is more of a female quality. Fortunately, most women lose this as they mature.

[FakePrincess]

I don't like any drama at all. I avoid it and people who cause it.

[3336PS]

Not at all...
The guy can contribute to her insecurity = drama. 😜

[ikissedtheskyonce]

I think most girls do. They think drama is a better love life, its ridiculous really

[Oxi112094]

Only girls who have nothing better to do love and crave it

[dudeman]

of course. have you ever date a women. I've dated many women. treat her mean keep her kean you got to keep them on their toes so they act right.

[HarvestMoon]

I don't think any normal women "loves" conflicts and drama unless there's something wrong with her mentally.

[Luci92]

A mature woman doesn't.
It's not as simple as yes and no, because like men, not all women are the same.
Some love drama and conflict and some don't.

[fueledbythc]

Girls who want drama in a relationship are the girls who don't deserve relationships.

[anonman32]

i think drama is absolutely toxic to a relationship and i do not tolerate it.

[whiner_clam]

Yeah bro, I can confirm that's true from my experience. For women no drama, no conflict kill relationships.

[April10]

No. Girls like it. Women don't.

[Heera]

Only the immature ones craving attention

[Luminifera]

No, duh. That's stupid

[99percentangel]

I don't. I'm sure some women do though.

[cchris989]

If women didn't love conflict and drama they would never nag :/

[99percentangel]

@cchris989 I didn't say women didn't like drama or conflict. I just said I don't.

[cchris989]

We'll I have Yet to met a women that did criticize everything

[Joesyyyywhales]

lol you nag @99%

[btbc92]

@cchris989 Women nag because they are expressing themselves about what motives them and what they care about. Sadly most women don't get that men are more thinkers than feelers, unless he is just naturally an emotional person. Nagging is also a form showing that she cares about you. There is a difference between nagging and criticism. If doesn't nag, it means she doesn't care what you do, and that's bad. If she criticize you, its because she thinks things needs to be done in a certain way, but doesn't consider the fact that you may be comfortable doing something another way.

[cchris989]

Men see nagging as her treating him like a child and criticism as her not believing in him. So the ideal women is one that believes in her husbands ability and does not nag or criticize, but sadly those women don't exist anymore :/

[btbc92]

@cchris989 I wouldn't do something like that if I was married. But remember. Nagging is not wrong. What your describing is criticism. Nagging is not a tool to belittle a man, that's what unhealthy women do. Nagging is like I said. Just her expressing her emotions and her way of saying she cares about you and loves you, but doesn't want to see you get in situations that can get you into trouble. Women are initiative naturally and can see future implications that can/will destroy the marriage. Its her way of safeguarding as she is the wife. When a woman doesn't nag, trust me. That is her way of saying she really doesn't care what you do, and when you ask her for help, she expects you to already know since your a man. Honestly it's really stupid. I can't relate to most women.

[cchris989]

But I'm a guy so i don't see it that way, it's the same when guys become distant when there in an argument, women see it as him pulling away but in his mind he is protecting her because if he stays there and let his emotions get the best of he might do something he will regret.

We all project ourselves on each other that's why where confused when we don't know why the opposite sex doesn't understand our way of thinking, but if we humble ourselves then we can begin to understand each other.

[btbc92]

@cchris989 That I can understand I know that about men. So I have no disagreements with you there. And I agree. You need your space so that you can recollect yourself, because if you lose control over your emotions you will end up hurting her, and regret it. Don't worry, I'm not one of those naive women. ^^

I tell others that all the time, they just seem to just not give a damn and its a shame. They say they love them, but prove themselves to be hypocrites by actions. But as a man, it is up to you to learn this about women. You have to willing want to understand them because you love them and want to bring out the best in them not the worse. The same way I willingly went to learn about men, and I can relate perfectly well with men. And regardless to how he likes to work and do things, I will always respect him because that is my job as a woman. To respect the man in all things.

[cchris989]

Good talk, I believe we're both are on the right path to understanding each other's gender ;)

[modeve]

All myth. Women want smooth relations.

[Yanoa_Yanza]

I think not, doesn't sound right