If you play hard to get with me, then i won't try to get you. Love me or dont. Dont play games.
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I personally hate it. It is hard enough to read how a girl feels normally let alone when she is trying to act a different way. It's stupid really and is just a game. I don't have time to play stupid games like that so if she plays hard to get I take it as she is not interested and move on.
But at the same time I do get why women tell other women that. If you come across as to interested or easy a guy won't be interested in you at all or just sex with you.
i don't think there is a universal way of ”playing hard to get”. what i picture when i hear this term may not be what others imagine. people have different standards.
No... not really. Id be quite disappointed if I invested a lot of time into something only for a girl to just be stringing along. Just let me know straight up.. i would rather you tell me in a clear consise manner in detail why and what you feel leaving no room for doubts.. why's that so hard?
NO : If you play hard to get, you are boosting your ego and decreasing your real value. WE DON'T LIKE THAT! Boys will not send you appeals every single morning!
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Shit if anything the dude is the one playing hard to get and I straight up told him it's a turn off and getting on my nerves!.
Not crush , but girl in relationship yes like tease me and make it harder for me to get a kiss or stuff like that XD Coz crush playing hard to get can be easily misunderstood as not interested
Only cuckolds like such a trait. I value honesty. Play not hard to get, nor should you throw yourself at one's feet without challenge. Simply be yourself. No mincing words, no frilly distractions. Firm confrontation is the best.
@rairai You're still not getting it are you? Guys are just not girls - deal. Seriously, it seems you're one of those that tries to make things other than what they are. Guys are simply not keyed into the same things you are. Call them dumb, stubborn, stupid, whatever you want - not going to change it. Find one you like, choose wisely, treat kindly.
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Of course not. If you play hard to get, you will end up being hard to want.
If you play hard to get with me, then i won't try to get you. Love me or dont. Dont play games.
I personally hate it. It is hard enough to read how a girl feels normally let alone when she is trying to act a different way. It's stupid really and is just a game. I don't have time to play stupid games like that so if she plays hard to get I take it as she is not interested and move on.
But at the same time I do get why women tell other women that. If you come across as to interested or easy a guy won't be interested in you at all or just sex with you.
I do this with my boyfriend sometimes to annoy him xD
i don't think there is a universal way of ”playing hard to get”. what i picture when i hear this term may not be what others imagine. people have different standards.
No... not really. Id be quite disappointed if I invested a lot of time into something only for a girl to just be stringing along. Just let me know straight up.. i would rather you tell me in a clear consise manner in detail why and what you feel leaving no room for doubts.. why's that so hard?
No because I'm forward and honest, playing hard to get ruins it and just frustrates me
i hate it
but if he wants to play this game... challenge accepted :))))
i can beat him at his own game 😈
I suck at playing hard to get. Some girls can do it and make it work, but my version of hard to get is pretty much fuck off.
Basically for some reason, if I'm disinterested it looks like I'm playing hard to get and if I'm trying to be too excited I seem disinterested.
NO : If you play hard to get, you are boosting your ego and decreasing your real value.
WE DON'T LIKE THAT! Boys will not send you appeals every single morning!
Shit if anything the dude is the one playing hard to get and I straight up told him it's a turn off and getting on my nerves!.
No.
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Not crush , but girl in relationship yes like tease me and make it harder for me to get a kiss or stuff like that XD
Coz crush playing hard to get can be easily misunderstood as not interested
if it's easy to pickup on. a lot of women need to be more subtle, and not overdo it.
Only cuckolds like such a trait.
I value honesty. Play not hard to get, nor should you throw yourself at one's feet without challenge. Simply be yourself. No mincing words, no frilly distractions.
Firm confrontation is the best.
My time is hard to get too and she'd be the first to the back of the line, I'd pass on her.
no, rather know if they are interested or not and quit playing games
Yes, but only if women do it right. Most are terrible at it
Girls communicate covertly. Guys communicate overtly.
If you want a guy to understand you spell it out for him. Guys just don't get it with the fine points of nuance. They just don't.
they re too stubborn
@rairai Nah, that's not it. You're just getting that they're different. FI is telling there's something wrong and that's just not it.
they would not see what s in their front even if it looked like an airplane lane with lights and signals 😂😂😂
@rairai You're still not getting it are you? Guys are just not girls - deal.
Seriously, it seems you're one of those that tries to make things other than what they are. Guys are simply not keyed into the same things you are. Call them dumb, stubborn, stupid, whatever you want - not going to change it.
Find one you like, choose wisely, treat kindly.
no. no. i understood. i was just making fun of it :)
@rairai Thank dog. :)
No, only girls fall for that shit. Most men hate the "chase" entirely, but since they already have to do it, they want it to be quick and simple