Do girls give hints to their crush?

[Anonymous]

Do girls give hints to guys they like? If yes what are they? Shy girls what would be your hints to guys you like?

[Anonymous]

my eyebrows usually go up like im worried and i figit with my hands but i do that 24/7 so iguess its hard to tell. i also actively avoid the person without letting on that i am, and try to occupy myself if they are around, by talking to friends or messaging my friend. dont ask her though because she will likely say no especially if her friends dont like you.
p. s. be nice to people especially when she's around;) good luck

[Asker]

I don't know if my crush likes me or not. Signs seem like she does but she could be testing me?

[Opinion Owner]

i think shy people often notice the way other people act more than confident people because they are always watching rather than talking, so be careful how you act- if you act like you sleep around a lot or are always flirting with people, chances are shell give up on you. also dont try to hard to get her attention by being realy loud or attention seeking cause shell probably find you obnoxious and annoying.
make sure your nice to her, and to everyone else too, and give some hints- like opening doors for her- that you like her, but dont tell her unless your sure she does too.
if she's smart you could ask her to tutor you

[Asker]

I blush a lot around my crush and her friends because I know they could be watching me and it's awkward.

[Opinion Owner]

heh shell might realise by your friends, but make sure you dont assume she likes you because her if her friends respond to your friends and tries to get you 2 together cause they are probably just joking around.
also, make sure her friends like you but dont end up fancying you cause she's likely to be more loyal to her friends than you
an easy way to tell is by asking a friend of hers if your crush would ever go out with you, cause she will almost definitely tell your crush, (and the whole world) but be careful about it cause if she doesn't like you then itl be pretty awkward

[Asker]

My crush knows I like her.

[Opinion Owner]

oh well thats awkward..

[Asker]

Yes and so as her friends they look at me a lot.

[Opinion Owner]

oh sorry but she probably doesn't like u if she hasn't said anything or reacted

[Asker]

She and her friends know I like her. They act weird when they are around me.

[Opinion Owner]

yea she probably doesn't like you though, her friends are probably making fun of u tbh, sorry

[Asker]

Well looks like that sucks.

[Emojis201]

Did you ever talk to her? If do what did she do and what other signs does she give you

[Asker]

I never talk to her.

[Anonymous]

Write a note and put it in their locker saying I want anal.

[Asker]

No I would never do that.

[Anonymous]

Haha, I only like drop hints to him every single day!

[Opinion Owner]

Here, I will explain...

[Opinion Owner]

I am shy, so I will be different than the more confident girls. But I guess, shy girls tend to drop more hints.

[Opinion Owner]

-I will look at you when you are not looking, but sometimes when I walk by you in the hallway, I intentionally ignore you because I am scared I'll mess up. I will try to become friends with your friends, because I think it brings me closer to you, and they might tell me something about you. I will try to get into your interests. At times, I talk to your friends more than I talk to you. I will try to impress you. I might start dressing differently or putting on perfume. I won't tell all my friends I like you, but there will be that one friend who knows basically the whole story. I will try to hold eye contact, but mostly I look away and smile. If I feel you don't like me back, I will become upset and might try to ignore you.

[Opinion Owner]

I will act like I don't even care, just so I don't reveal too much feelings
-If I think you are better than me, I will try to get on your level, even if it doesn't work
-BODY LANGUAGE: Girls with stroke their necks, smoothly run their fingers through their hair, point they body towards you, smile, etc. Search up some body language, it'll help you.
I hide my feelings for my crush really well, because I don't want my friends to laugh at me for liking him and ruin my own high school life. He might think I'm creepy, and that would break my heart. So I kind of admire from afar. But I can't entirely ignore him 100%. I know that he would never notice me, or consider me if I did that. I think many girls are shy, but they can't show 0 signs. Like I have said to other people., 0 signs= 0% interested. Hope this helps!

[Opinion Owner]

I will also ask him random questions out of the blue

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know if he knows, I like him, but I drop hints anyways

[Asker]

My crush doesn't talk to me. I think we're both shy.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell me about your situation, I can give you a second opinion.

[Asker]

Like?

[Opinion Owner]

Some people are so shy to the point they won't talk. It doesn't mean she isn't into you

[Opinion Owner]

Does she give other signs?

[Opinion Owner]

Body language is your biggest helper at this point

[Asker]

I mean we don't talk.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't need to talk to know she is into you

[Asker]

Well what signs?

[Opinion Owner]

reluv.co/.../

read it. I've read it a lot of times

[Opinion Owner]

Another big one is if she mirrors you. You drink your water, she drinks hers. You cross your legs, she does the same

[Opinion Owner]

Girls stroke their necks and touch their faces lots as well. We play with our hair, and basically try to act more feminine

[Opinion Owner]

Also, did you read the paragraphs I wrote? There's some good stuff

[Asker]

I saw her put her hair back today when I was walking towards her and her friend.

[Opinion Owner]

K, anything else?

[Asker]

Um they my crush always whispers in her friends ear when they pass by me.

[Opinion Owner]

You said to someone else that she knows you like her right?

[Opinion Owner]

As of now, if she hasn't confronted you, yeah, not looking too good. But don't feed her ego. If you react, she will feel like you really want her attention, and that will make her give less of it to you. Focus on other girls for now. If she sees that you are not going to give her attention any more, she will start to wonder. (even if she doesn't like you). Some girls might even try to get your attention back.

[Asker]

Correct

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't give her attention, she feeds on that. Show her, show yourself you have independence, and try to move on.

[Asker]

How do you know she doesn't like me back tho?

[Opinion Owner]

If I knew my crush liked me back, I would try to talk to him. I would express my interest, and tell him I like him too. If I know for a fact that he likes me, I am no longer scared of rejection. I can tell him literally anything. If she doesn't do that anytime soon, we've got an issue

[Asker]

That's a good point. 👍🏻👍🏻👏👏👏👏

[Asker]

Well what if your shy? You would still talk if your interested?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not extreme shy, I am shy with a little hint of confidence at times. So yes, I have talked to my crush plenty of times. My friend is basically the extreme shy, but she has talked to him 3 times. If she doesn't talk at all, something is wrong

[Asker]

Yea my crush doesn't talk to me. Something is wrong...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think it would be smart to ask her. She might think you are clingy

[Opinion Owner]

But if you're brave enough, that would be the best option

[Opinion Owner]

Or move on

[Asker]

Well I guess she and her friends have been dissing me the whole entire time.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't get too worked up about it, you know, we are only looking at the situation as outsiders. They are the only ones who know what and who they talk about. They could be saying good things, or they might even be saying things that are not even about you. When I usually talk about people in the hallway, I wait till they walk past me. If not, then that person is being really mean.

[Asker]

Well I'm really confused and between moving on and not moving on. This situation is pain.

[Opinion Owner]

I think moving on would be best. It would take away the anxiety of whether or not she likes you back. It's not going to happen over night, but head in that direction. But if she shows her feelings more, and you really want to pursue her, then change your mind. If it doesn't get to that stage, move on

[Asker]

I don't know right now. What to do.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't intentionally try to think about her. What else in your life is important to you? Even more important than her? If it's playing video games, then play video games. If it's hiking, go hiking. I know you might find that hard, but honestly, we are very young. We haven't lived a quarter of our lives yet, and relationships shouldn't be the focus of our life. Improve yourself, because she is not forever. All the crushes I've ever had? I thought I'd be incomplete without them. I was so wrong. I realized that there are so many people out there, and probably even better than my original crush. The crush I have right now is everything I like in a guy. But I know, I can still find someone better. Don't close doors for yourself, please. I guarantee that you will find someone better. I promise. You deserve a girl who doesn't play stupid games with you, and straight up shows you how much she likes you. That's the kind of girl you need to be with.

[Asker]

Ok then I guess that works.

[Asker]

Yea right?

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you feel better

[Asker]

I never will feel better.

[Opinion Owner]

:( Trust me, you will eventually

[Asker]

Funny thing is that all my friends will think I still like her and make front of me.

[Opinion Owner]

awe :( that actually happened to me in grade 6. Everyone made fun of me for liking this guy. The worst part is, my best friends, and the person I disliked the most, were the ones who told him and the whole class. It takes a while, but I eventually just moved schools, and I got a fresh start. It does take a while for me to trust my new friends, but I decided to give them a chance.

[Asker]

I will never have a fresh start.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be so hard on yourself. I know it's hard to see straight right now because your upset. But you need to be realistic. This situation will eventually cool down. The things you think in that moment will be vastly different from what you are feeling now.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you should tell me the things you like about her?

[Asker]

What I like about her?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, what qualities make her different from other girls?

[Asker]

Umm she's hot.

[Opinion Owner]

So that's all you like? That she is hot? I'm sure there is something about her personality you like. Tell me what it is. If you can't, maybe you should reconsider if you actually like her. Tbh it shouldn't be that hard to get over someone you think is just hot. If you know nothing about her, what is making it so hard?

[Asker]

She's hot, she's fit she "probably" has a good personality. I don't know for sure because we don't talk. Sad af

[Opinion Owner]

It's kinda hard to develop feelings for someone you don't even talk to. I guess you just find her attractive. There isn't even a simple friendship between the two of you. I don't think she is right for you. You should be looking for a girl that can wow you just with her personality. Her looks should be a bonus. Yeah, I liked my crush because at 1st I thought he was super attractive. But I actually got time to know him. I am shy, but I made a move and talked to him. It turns out he is a athletic, smart, modest, kind, confident, and funny guy. He treats me with respect, and he actually gives me signs he likes me. He talks about me with his friends, I hang out with him and his friends, he compliments me, etc. I've been attracted to other guys, but they never held my attention like he did. All of them drink and go to parties. I am very against people taking part in that activity. We are only 15. Simple attraction will never last as long as personality and character.

[Opinion Owner]

It's hard to be sad about something like that, because you never even talked.

[Asker]

Ok i hate myself

[Opinion Owner]

Stop "hating" yourself. When she doesn't like you, it isn't suppose to be personal.

[handpickcotton]

i would avoid my crush at all cost because i cannot hide my nervousness 😵