She CURVED me right?

Question

So a girl at work i got a crush on i swore she liked me, because she was always telling me "i look so good all the time" but she needed help with something im good at so she got my number. I helped her out and tried starting a convo, but got no reply. She will talk to me in person and say and do flirty stuff give me back massages, then she made a comment asking me if im doing anything to invite her out. So i take that as another SIGN and were texting, she text me back but before i can get that reply to ask her what she's doing i get no response. So like a SIMP i waited for a reply and nothing.

Days later i see her at work cause i started to avoid her and she comes in my area just to talk to me like nothing happen. So this time i try getting at her in person and all she says with a bright red face blushing & smiling "Whatever (My Name)" So now i just avoid her completely and treat her lije a ghost but now she gives me that WTF look so if you can tell me im CURVED so i can move on. Cause im tired of my friends saying it's "The Hard To Get Game"

Captmorgan · Accepted Answer

I concur with hahahmm below - I'm dealing with a similar situation.

She's an attention whore.

As crazy as it sounds, she probably does find you attractive, but won't deviate from her current LONG term boyfriend.

What I did, today in fact, is give her an ultimatum. Basically, tell her "let's go out today, take it or leave it."

If she makes excuses or doesn't take you seriously, she's an attention whore.

Moreover, you don't want to date someone like this, I know it's hard man.

You're welcome to message me if you need some pointers.

martyfellow · Accepted Answer

Like many people, she may flirt at work, but she has a rule against any romantic involvement outside of work, and other people at work know it. That way there isn't gossip about her... She probably treats everyone like you. She assumed you knew her stance on work relationships.

Mekara · Accepted Answer

She seems to want YOU to do all the chasing while she sits back and watches. As soon as you stop giving her attention, she draws you back in with her cutsy attitude. I say forget her all together. All these playing hard to get games are childish and stupid. Just forget her all together. This will be a never ending cycle of confusion for you.

realrecognizereal101 · Accepted Answer

she's not playing a hard to get game. she deadass doesn't want you. Sounds like all she wanted was your attention and for YOU to be the one to want her. Sounds pretty messed up but I know a few girls just like her. My advice is to not entertain her and to ignore her completely.

rachel99 · Accepted Answer

she probably just likes attention and likes to play games. she didn't curve you, she likes you. she's just childish.

lightning32 · Answer

I wouldn't say you're curved, she's being annoying probably on purpose as a bit of hard to get. she's toying with you. instead of deading her I'd say just ask her why she's being like that. see if you can get a straight answer and then tell her you don't like it and it makes you want to stop talking etc. if she cares and likes you she'll be a bit less "hard to get" after that

tangymarmalade · Answer

TOTALLY DUDE!!

YOU DON'T NEED TO WASTE YOUR DIVINE ENERGY SITTING AROUND FIGURING HOPELESS MIXED CLUES FROM A GIRL LIKE HERS.
THERE ARE OTHER FISHES IN THE SEA. GOODLUCK.

PS- IM NOT SHOUTING. SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH MY KEYPAD. DAMN.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

she's definitely fucking with you. Why dont you just play along with her. When she is playfully asking what you're doing tonight, tell her there is a chick you are taking... watch her reaction.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

She either wants your attention or get extremely nervous/scared and has no idea what to do or say to you thus doesn't reply, acts like nothing happens.

iuoala · Answer

Seems like another childish attention seeker to me. She probably only wants you to chase her so she feels better about her existence. Don't waste your time.

CoolSky01 · Answer

i had a girl like that once at work, just forget about her and move on, she is immature and has issues, just avoid her and stop talking to her, you dont need someone like her in your life.

iwannalicku · Answer

I would try to ask her again if she wanted to go out and if she tried to avoid you I'd say do you like me or not if she doesn't answer just say okay I take that as a no

blah20 · Answer

tell her. "hey, I texted you and never heard from you. why don't you text me when you're free.". and then move on

imanangel09 · Answer

Don't get involved with a chick like that.. I'm just saying

Prof_Don · Answer

Something tells me she has a boyfriend and she likes the attention you give her.

Annamariam · Answer

Yep agree with guys above , maybe she wanted u at first but then she changed her mind so u better look for someone worth u

Caaarl · Answer

She's honestly being an asshole. I think she's playing hard to get but in reality she's just being insanely cruel. If a girl did this to me I'd think something was wrong with her.

JamesMilward · Answer

hard to get really doesn't work, girls need to stop it.

Sasisen · Answer

This hard to get bullshit is getting so ridiculous! Move on buddy, not worth your time.

TadCurious · Answer

She's playing games. I've experienced that with some girls myself. Don't waste time on her.

assley · Answer

She's not interested and just being nice so you'll help her with what she needed.

fueledbythc · Answer

Just leave her be. She likes the attention. It sounds like it won't lead anywhere. you're doing the right thing.

Frank_Castle543 · Answer

Maybe she has a boyfriend that doesn't want finding out.

Rogered · Answer

probably not the best person to get romantically involved with, trust me.

Anonymous · Answer

It does seem like a game that only she is playing but you're not going for it. Just tell her straight up and ask what does she really want with you. You have nothing to lose at this point

CharaGenicider · Answer

Some of the time, Hard to Get = Attention seeker. You choose if yo want to pursue an attention seeker, because it seems like that's what she is.

reixun · Answer

So what you're saying is you just avoid her now because she wanted to be set straight and asked out?

Anonymous · Answer

That happens to everyone. Chill... You are not the first and you won't be the last.

bails72 · Answer

she probably wnats booty calls  not worth the immature games

jagguook · Answer

dude break the ice, tell her everything u can decide by her reaction.

hahahmm · Answer

She's married or has a boyfriend, in my opinion.

artie1983 · Answer

Attention seeker, pure and simple. Sorry

sadgirl2002 · Answer

Probably hard to get. Stop texting her completely

Wertime · Answer

Sounds like a bitch looking for attention. Avoid!

MichaelG · Answer

Avoid het bro, red flag. Very destructive...

WhereAmI · Answer

She's messing with you. Move on.

akadatank44 · Answer

Did you ever ask her out?

Anonymous · Answer

Waste. of. time.

Midget_Hug · Answer

Whew

Anonymous · Answer

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