Do you respect girls who post pictures in bikinis or tiny outfits on social media? (Page 2)

Question

Would you want a girlfriend who did that?

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Over here, pretty much any girl who is in an OK shape posts bikini pictures in summer. However, some make it quits obvious they're looking for attention, overly sexy poses etc , while others are more casual and simply come along as I like my new bikini.

speedinbai · Answer

I would definitely date a girl who had taken pictures in the past and would never think anything of it short of just barely covering your self with hands or tape. if she was my girlfriend I would expect her not to take pics like that for attention (ie bikinis in winter, bra and panties at all, or extra skimpy clothes and your not going out) and obviously if you are going out or going to the beach that's fine.

BarbaraP · Answer

Most of these opinions make me wonder if I'm the weird one here.
So, basically, I can walk around wearing only a bikini when I'm at the beach, but if I take a picture wearing one, suddenly people don't respect me anymore? Good to know.

Anonymous · Answer

Lets be real. The majority of those women are doing it for attention. If you're at the beach and you take a picture wearing a bikini, cool. If its winter and you're posting bikini pic in the bathroom... you're doing it for attention. lol

pooper89 · Answer

If I were a guy, I DEFINITELY wouldn't want a girl who did that. It shows that she's an attention whore and has a small brain.

macix670 · Answer

Yes I do respect them because why not? They're people. I see them as human beings worthy of respect unless they do something that is unlawful or immoral. Wearing skimpy clothes does not make them less worthy of respect. Now, the ones who wear burqas I have no respect for.

BradA · Answer

I was drinking with a couple friends, maybe last week or the week before that. And one of them was a little more drunk because he was a lighter weight then most of us. He accidentally admitted that he uses social media pictures of friends for a certain bank of pictures. If you know what I mean.
So I would tell her that and see if she is still wanting to post those type of pictures anymore.

kenworth · Answer

I dont believe I would feel comfortable. Having a girlfriend. Who feels the need to attract all that attention. Isn't something. I want to be apart of.

arasytrennif · Answer

Yeah. a lot of girls aren't comfortable enough with themselves to do it (me lmao). It takes a lot to appreciate and love your body especially since the female body is so highly criticized in the media. People either love it or hate it. It's honestly the same as seeing a guy in swim trunks. It doesn't really matter. It's just a body and the human body is beautiful and deserves to be appreciated :/.

Jaquav · Answer

Yeah sure, it's natural to crave attention and validation. I wouldn't fault a girl for it. People need to stop slut shaming so much, I would just want her to be loyal to her boyfriend.

bootyfulgal · Answer

Depends on the pose of the girl. Is it sexual? If not, i see no issue. Hell, if you have a good body don't tell me wouldn't flaunt it. And thats the actual main reason girls post these pics. Coming from a girl lol. That's all.

Samuel_Mendes · Answer

A person's use of Self espression shouldn't be judged if that person has honestly intensions. No one should be judged for wanting to show case their body unless it's not appropriate for the event or the audience that may see it. Stay classy 😉

hahahmm · Answer

Yes UNLESS she claims its wrong for men to sexually objectify her because it's like dangling raw meat in front if a lion and then getting pissed if it licks its lips.

I give respect to everybody until they treat me like crap.

He-man · Answer

No I wouldn't loose respect for her. If she was taking naked pictures I wouldn't loose respect for her. Even if I saw a video of her banging 10 guys I wouldn't loose respect for her. Now if she did all that and told me she wanted to be in a serious relationship with someone who on wants her and on wants to sleep with her etc. I wouldn't loose respect for her, I just wouldn't take her seriously.

xander_zone · Answer

I personally believe a decent girlfriend would not be doing this. She would not want attention from other boys, and if anything would only send them to u personally through messenger, because they're not exactly nudes, but something u can enjoy privately without other men gawping at your girl.

thatguywithakeyboard · Answer

Nope. Why? Not biggest fan of having some backward thoughts that somewhere out there some guy on his Nokia 5530 is fapping away on his E connection to the images of my girlfriend while the image buffers 1KB/s.

Justacatlady · Answer

I don't really feel respect or disrespect. If a person wants to post pictures of themselves in clothing, swimsuit, underwear, whatever, that is their choice and I respect their choice

PrinceNeo · Answer

yeah as long as she admits she's doing it for attention and likes because at least if you're honest I can respect that but if you say that you're not doing it for attention when you obviously are then I can't respect you at all and if you have a boyfriend take pictures with him even if you wear skimpy outfits at least I can respect the fact that you have a boyfriend

theworthypotato · Answer

No, I don't loose any respect at all, if a girl wants to do that and she has enough confidence to then more power to her, I wouldn't mind dating a girl that would want to post a picture of her in a bikini, if she feels confidant and she's happy that's all that would matter to me

mangofett · Answer

Five years into my relationship with my fiancé I started doing nude modeling and some cam shows. I still model but I'm done camming. He respects me the same as he did before I started doing those things. We also discussed everything before I did it. Posting a bikini pic wouldn't change his respect for me either.

Mistynic · Answer

It's there body, it's there decision to do so. If they feel confident and happy with themselves, don't see why not. If I was confident I would take a picture of myself in my swimming custume, depends on how I feel.

imbored2252 · Answer

I don't know, would you respect a guy who takes pictures in booty shorts with his butt on the sink and shows off in tight clothes? even if that were my son, or my daughter, I would be ashamed

Bandit74 · Answer

Like the kind of stuff an instagram model posts? No, I probably wouldn't want a girlfriend like that.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

I do..  if they have the sexy body, then post all they want... I wish i looked as good as most of those girls do!!!

mistixs · Answer

I don't judge them but I think they're misguided and (understandably) ignorant to what many men do with such pictures.

stephii1998vm · Answer

well i think it's fine because girls would always want to show her bikini because of summer vibes. Just because of showing her bikini on social media doesn't mean she is going to be cheating on you or being a slut.

StElmosFire · Answer

Doing something just because everyone else is doing that is just a lousy way to go about things at the first place.

anyway, it's no secret that females dress that way for male attention, and as far as I'm concerned, I'd think there are better ways to get my attention, maybe decency for starters?

Sammyman · Answer

My respect for people (girls and boys) don't depend on what they wear and post on social media. Because that would mean I am shallow. And if I were shallow, there would be no point in gaining my respect.

Anonymous · Answer

Unless they model for a living then no, to me they would be attention whores lol. I have a few model friends and it doesn't bother me as long as they don't do it to be whores for attention lol

Loveherbut · Answer

Is not a matter of respect what people do or not do on their aocial media its their own business. However i would never ever date a girl who does that because i wouldn't post a pic of myslef like this too.

_lauren_ · Answer

If my partner worked hard to look good then they should do their thing. People can post photos because they feel cute. People always think other are seeking validation too.

rtlm368 · Answer

if she was my girl friend age 18-24 and looked like that. I would encourage her to post those pix. please understand I will be 50 in December. So I would not cover her up !

menina · Answer

I see nothing wrong with it. It's their body, they're free to do whatever they want to. However, that's not something I would do, since I'm not comfortable enough to do it.

luke95 · Answer

Of course, there's no reason not to! If that's how they want to express themselves, let them be. I don't see why anyone would choose to disrespect someone based on how they dress or express them self; I think it would be pretty ignorant for someone to judge the way a girl dresses.

Z-ant · Answer

Bikini is fine if they are at the beach etc but when they start making it overally sexual I disagree with it as those images can never been fully removed from the internet and it's so easy to regret. It also objectifys them and then they wounder why boys who have seen it start staring in public. At the end of the day men are only human and if a boy showed of his body on social media and is was great I'd probably stare at him in public too

Yumenai · Answer

Yeah, I do. It demands a lot to post pictures of yourself like those. So it means this particular person might have really high confidence or she/he is trying to build one.

Caaarl · Answer

If it's not their job and they're very focused on getting attention and making social media a significant part of their life then I'd lose a bit of respect. But if it's just a few show off pics then it's not really a big deal.

JimRSmith · Answer

It wouldn't make them less worthy of respect.  My gal doesn't do this, but it wouldn't bother me in the slightest if she did. I've dated girls who have, and it didn't worry me.

Kreneman · Answer

Unless my Girlfriend is a model, actress, or musician in the lime light industry. I woud be a little comfortable of her doing those things (Depends on what type style or design of the outfit, I can respect certain Bikinis or other tiny outfits)

Zer0Ghost · Answer

By itself (read: not correlated with self-esteem issues), I don't have a problem, probably because I don't associate what she's wearing with how much respect she deserves

pim217 · Answer

hey thats up to her. if i can trust her not to cheat on me thats fine by me. might not always like it depending on the style but its not up to me to decide if she does that or not

apple24 · Answer

Sure. Who wouldn't want look at boobs. Oh I know jealous girls!

Mexicoman101 · Answer

This does not factor into how much I respect someone. They have to do legitimately stupid or conceited or abusive things for me to disrespect them

Mr-Kabuki · Answer

if they are at the beach then i think thats cool. but if they are just in their bathrooms its dunmb

MuseTay · Answer

Bikinis are cool but panties & bras & nahhhh. Exposing yourself then getting upset when a guy wants the goodies

IsabelGuimaraes · Answer

Hmm... Yes. Nothing wrong with wanting to show off your body. If she's in a relationship (except if it's open), I'd think she just can't get enough attention... But I'd still respect her.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know them enough to form any opinion of them.
I doubt it would bother them though. Most girls who post pics of themselves in bikinis or tiny outfits are attractive and they get some sort of recognition for that, so why would they care?

Enochian · Answer

I would respect them.. they still people... However I wouldn't want a girlfriend who would do so... That would just mean she is looking for more attention

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

I respect people as long as they are good people and aren't rude. So yes I respect them as long as they are decent but I don't think I would date one of them.

notallthere98 · Answer

Guys post shirtless pics all the damn time. I don't care if a women posts pictures of herself in a bikini

Harlock2045 · Answer

if she wants to show off, or is fishing for compliments why not. and if she were my girlfriend, I would trust her to be true to me unless she proves otherwise

ThatGuy123456789 · Answer

There is no correct answer. If I say no then I'm sexist because she can wear what she likes. If I say yes then I'm objectifying girls. So I'll be honest. Yes it's fine. They can do what they want.

luv_jain · Answer

What kind of question is it? If you are trying to say that girls who wear bikini shouldn't be respected then the girls who wear burkhas should be respected to Extremes. Lol... Girls are to be respected at any cost.

ChocEyes1 · Answer

Of course I respect them.

You I want a girlfriend like that? Sure. at leats it means they are sure they are attractive. Better than those moralists that call them hoes but secretely wish they were as hot.

Right, @Grace_Rdz?

Mandude · Answer

I like when girls don't focus too much on how they look or appear. If posting pics like that on social media gives me that impression, then it just looks bad. I'll still respect you, but I'll know your really into outward appearances.

Phyllis91 · Answer

Why would I care if a guy didn't respect me because I did as long as my boyfriend doesn't mind and he likes it because he says I have a great body.

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

It doesn't really matter to me. I can't really measure respect based on that alone.

kmarty07 · Answer

no! I would respect her but I don't want that kind of girlfriend for myself​... sorry to say but it's true

dannymexico90 · Answer

I don't respect cheap attention whores. Those kind of pics repel me. 1 or 2 is cool but if it's a lot than he'll no.

akadatank44 · Answer

If they constantly post that and worry about shit like likes and follows, hell no! Those kind of chicks seek validation and attention.

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