When girls post a lot on social media, do they come off as needy or seeking validation? (Page 3)

[sixThousand]

Depends on the content. If it's tons of pictures of themselces then yea, it can seem that way. Maybe not necessarily validation but just seeking attention. If it's thoughtful content, art, or their career depends on social media then not really.

[Demiurge6]

They come off as stupid sluts. And most likely they are (with very rare exceptions)

[whowatawhat]

If it's just pictures themselves like the example.. yes.

[MrHungwell]

Kinda vain and too into themselves to be worth a guys time and effort to date.

[Cursewords]

Absolutely. They come across as massive attention whores.

[Ripper_E]

it's very unattractive. Just like when she takes a lot of selfies.

[Thunder_God_Thor]

Seeking validation for their sexual market value, if using pictures. Content would dictate otherwise. Its as if they cannot be alone or handle themselves if they post a lot. I dont like that, but again, it depends on the content of posts.

[Kareless21]

I feel as if they seek attention and validation from men. They enjoy the pleasure of a man telling her how beautiful/hot she looks.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

https://i.imgflip.com/1s0711.jpg

[HappyWheels]

Yes of course. Why else do you think they do it. It's to see how many likes they get as a way to feel important and not feel irrelevant.

[Anonymous]

Depends on your content. If you post quotations, selfies, and tag friends EVERYDAY you will come off as needy.

[NitroCat]

Or they are addicted to social media like somebody can be addicted to watching tv. Depends what they post, if it are attention grabbing things, then yes.

[watisgoingon]

just really annoying and comes off as very unintelligent

[CrazyyChick]

It depends on what they post, but the answer generally is yes

[Patriot357]

Male or female it seems like they're looking for positive comments that makes them feel good

[sachinthe]

I guess seeking valdiation but it might be the case the she lover herself way to much and have a attention seeking nature.

[Anonymous]

Probably just insecure and fishing for compliments.

[rapfan107]

Yeah like omg look at me , unless they're an Instagram model that's getting paid no need to post so much

[Smegskull]

Like this.

[smcool]

Generally it's for validation (identity crisis). But I believe there are few matured girls who does it for their pleasure without bothering about responses

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

No they just following the social media consumerism.

[saud1998]

Not necessarily. They could just be having a good day. Maybe feeling good about them self.

[Elenor-1]

Every girl gets called beautiful even if she’s ugly so I don’t know if it’s truly validation

[VaIiant]

Bahaha
On social media yes, in real life no... it does weird me out when I see a solid 3 getting comments like “omg slayyyyy😍😍🔥”

[Elenor-1]

Just a bunch of thirsty virgins if you ask me 😂

[cuteboy69]

Well actually they come off as fake and showy to me

[Hammerhead315]

Depends. Some seem needy. Some seem to just be confident and like to show off their sexiness

[britpop]

No not necessarily it's just a thing a lot of people do nowadays

[Iron_Man]

They come off as big attention-seekers. There is another word for that but I won't say it here

[Hopelessliar]

No positive opinions towards these specific type of female. Attention sellers for sure

[Dinnye001]

Seeking validation is such a... light term.

I'd say attention whores.

[jay-rainbowcat]

Yeah but not completely. It depends on what they post

[Ankush_is_here]

Depends on what they are posting.. and who is judging..

[Dafes]

I do feel they are loking for validation tem others and are actually insecure about themselfs and their look

[cth96190]

Seeking validation, or straight out narcissism.

[Sannctus]

First, OMG that hair. Second, nope. It meams you either have too much free time or you care a lot about social media

[JesseTheMan]

As many have said, it depends on the girl and the types of pictures in question.

[BeHappy1985]

Maybe as unskilled in life and lazy. Do something useful for a change.

[sucklingambitions]

Yes, the insecurities that grow from seeing others social media make them require validation

[KingOfTheOzone]

Depends on the post, if its a never-ending stream of booty pics then yeah.

[Riz89]

It use to be the needy thinking before but now it's different. They like attention and social media is a way to get it.

[JustCurious136]

They wanna show their beauty and get more followers and they probably want guys to go crazy for them... Thats how I understand this.

[Anonymous]

Yes and so does people who ask endlessly about how they look here.

[xxxhunter]

I would not say that she is sad, because she is seeking Validation (= trying to get attention). - it's a Call For Needs (=Post for Need).

[Anonymous]

If they are mostly selfies... and posts of her talking about how great their life is, I think it points to narcissism...

[Bellydancer83]

I wouldn't go the direction of full blown NPD though. I think it's just really tough when there's so much good looking out there. One might feel compelled. Ya sounds a bit childish. I have a special account for pics , quotes, food. But mine in a exercise, diet and health page.

[Anonymous]

YES! It also indicates that she can't think for herself and is more likely to cheat on you. I consider it a huge red flag.

[alaskanways]

Validation get that dopamine flowing cause the dope wore off this one

[yuvihamagnivoli]

Your little brother crishtof is fucking cunt he like your fat tites

[Anonymous]

They post a lot of content no one gives a single shit about, I can tell you that

[afogarty21]

I never saw an issue with it unless it got to a point where you were glued to your phone 24/7

[Ali1999hatim]

I think to spend time or lose it and get away from isolation, loneliness or entertainment

[Umayr]

It depends on the content, if the posts are like this selfie then no

[Parthneo]

you can also it on the other side, like they are trying to prove themselves.. or show to the world

[createbelgium]

As they have not found the right friend to spend their time with...

[kahli98]

Some girls definitely but I generally think girls are more socially minded than guys

[musicmuse77]

Vain or insecure is usally the perception.. but maybe they just like it!! Js

[Anonymous]

If she has no talent then why the fk would she post?

[Anonymous]

most of those girls are paid to do it. they're models

[Anonymous]

Depends what it is. sometime they are attention seekers. I dont like that

[Blue6324]

To put it simply... Yes

[Anonymous]

Yep, first thing that crosses my mind when I see them

[boggboss]

Yes depending on how much they post up

[Asker]

What if it's posts that aren't her? Like posts of a meal or of her cooking

[boggboss]

Yeah because why feel the need 2 share that