When girls post a lot on social media, do they come off as needy or seeking validation? (Page 3)

[Jamie1865]

IMHO seeking attention and validation. Women who keep posting selfies so all their other female mates can tell them how gorgeous they are don't last long on my timeline! Blatant narcissism.

[VaIiant]

Praise. I’ve never really gotten why a solid 3 gets comments like “omg bb slayyyyy😍😍” on a selfie...

[Jamie1865]

@VaIiant Amen!

[siempreparaiso]

Hell! Ya!! Needy and validation and may be more... I know by own knowledge, and same goes for the guts side too... so we are all equal; I think anyways ☺

[InTimoreDei]

They're the worst kind of girls. Always attached to their phones, posting dumb needless selfies 24/7. I saw 4 girls "hanging out" at a cafe and, instead of actually talking to each other, they were all glued to their phones in silence... pathetic...

[skel47]

Yes they do. But depending o what they post no. If its all selfies then yes. If its them doing things then no.

[Danny_dan92]

It depends on the content.

If they are very adventurous and travel a lot and post pictures of all the cool places they travel too.

But if they post a lot and it’s selfies and body shots then yes. They are definitely attention seekers

[djmzes]

Yes they do without knowing it and most of them will deny it cuz you have to realise it by urself first.

And it also subconciously make you feel worst

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[Psych-O-Derick]

Depends on what they're posting. Try using the back facing camera every once in a while and maybe upload something that's not focused around yourself from time to time. Then you could upload as much as you like. Personally I think the key is to strive for quality over quantity.

[g_peresilva]

I hate it when girls post the same photos with the same pose and the same snapchat filters and the same faces made (especially if they never smile in a photo). It gets really annoying after a bit

[cheriya]

I think both honestly. But probably leaning more towards the validation side. Or they just do it because they like social media, etc. But if I were to choose, I’m going with validation.

[phill5158]

I don't think so at all, it is not the case in every single girl. I mean there is no harm in showing your life to friends/family and the world, if that is what you want to do then that is fine.

[VegetaSSB]

yep, and not just girls, boys too, everyone posting tons of things in social media are just attention seekers and majoriy of time going after validation.

[jessicanic]

If it is constant provocative selfies, body photos then I would say yes but I'm not one to judge I personally am very private with what I share on my public social medias

[Prof_Don]

Honestly yes, comes off as very insecure and seeking approval from complete strangers to artificially inflate their self-esteem.

[ObliviousJester]

It kinda comes across as needy, but more off it shows that you care more about the opinions of complete strangers rather than those closer to you.

[yodaiam]

Absolutely. Without a doubt. That is exactly what they are doing whether they admit it or not. I always tell guys stay away from girls who have social media presence.

[VaIiant]

Nice age. You must tell me what you eat.

[yodaiam]

Eat, do not, for essence is the strength that life feasts upon, only than shall nourishment fill you... or something like that

[secretgirlxx]

I think girls who post pictures want validation in some sense. They want to feel beautiful and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

[djmzes]

Psychologist and study show the opposite.

[secretgirlxx]

Personally I don’t see myself a beautiful and acceptable but have posted my fair share of selfies on Instagram not because I want attention and to be needy. I hate my birthday because I hate to be a center of attention. I post pictures of me and my friends on outings on Facebook because it’s sharing memories. Pictures to me is a time capsule something I always look back at.

[djmzes]

Then you should not be worried about likes and comments.

[KnightCross]

i never view that neither as needy nor as seeking validation. it seems some girls are just being jealous of other pretty girls who do that

[aaaae2e]

err-ya-no... or maybe that they got nothing to do and their day is just boring. I like to spend most of my time on social media, etc. I would have ended my life without them xD

[p1235]

In my eyes: Yes.

Especially if the pictures are always selfies/belfies similar to each other without other actual content than her body.