What is girl's psychology for friendzoning all good guys?

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#Friendzone #GoodGuy

CrailtapSmith · Accepted Answer

That's not on her man, girls don't friendzone you just because you're a "nice guy". By the way calling yourself a nice guy is actually hurting the situation, be humble. If you truly are a nice guy, the girl knows that and if she is friendzoning you it has to do with something else about you. Perhaps the fact that you are a bit conceited by calling yourself a "nice guy". Remember when it comes to relationships girls are much much much more clever than we are, they aren't swayed by something as simple as being a nice guy; it is way more broad than that. Do everything you can to be a nice guy, obviously, but in the end that is for her to decide not you.

FatherJack · Accepted Answer

If there is no attraction at first , then generally there never will be , esp from women to men , the " Zoned " guys ( nearly always males ) simply have to cut her lose and walk away , often the woman in question will use him , because he happily LETS her !! I have never been zoned , but have had , and still have some good female friends , I don't develop feelings very easily , an advantage of my detached nature.

estoydorado1 · Accepted Answer

Uh, I can't date every single guy who shows interest in me, that would make me a cheater & a pass around.
Also, a lot of guys crush on girls who aren't necessarily compatible for them when it comes to values, life goals, and relationship expectations. A lot of girls notice this and decide that if the guy is genuinely nice, she'd rather be friends.

Lastly, it takes two to establish the fabled "friendzone". If she tells you she doesn't view you as a romantic partner, it's not like she's following you around with a gun to your head demanding that you stay friends. Guys willingly act friendly in the hopes that girls will change their mind.

shelbyturtles · Accepted Answer

Not all good guys get friendzoned by all girls. It is always going to be about personal preference. Most young and inexperienced girls are going to think they want a bad boy because good guys are "boring". It'll only take her a few to realize that she needs to grow up and try a good guy. But as another girl said, there is a tremendous difference between good guys and Good Guys™

Astoriana · Accepted Answer

There’s a difference between a good guy and a Good Guy™. Good guys know that not every woman is going to want to be with them sexually or romantically. Good Guys™ believe that they’re owed sex or a date for being nice to a woman.

Good Guys™ are also the only group of people who unironically whinge about the friend zone.

Harsh_5299 · Answer

They are more interested in "fixing" a bad guy than settle with a good one, you can't fix someone who likes to feel good about themselves by trying to straighten a dog's tail... it's pointless but as they want to stand on the moral highhorse by doing so, it seems quite ironic
That's why people who give dating advice or the guys who are PUA's get a lot of chicks but never admit that today's "good guy" characteristics are meant for tamed or "fixed" men (mostly married & henpecked guys)... if it ain't broke, why fix it?

SamtheDnDgirl · Answer

I shouldn't have to say this, but someone who says they're a "nice guy" isn't nice. That is usually the case.

Otherwise, personally, it's because I don't want to date them. I firmly believe a guy and a girl can just be friends, don't prove me wrong. So far I'm not.

SavageRae4Ever · Answer

Women also want to feel like they “Won The Prize” and like challenges.
Men that are ready to engage and settle could be super boring...
I don’t know. I just feel like I don’t know how to fight for someone and specially because when you have to fight and prove yourself it’s just like damn. Can’t you just live me from who I am 😩😭🤷🏾‍♀️

sp33d · Answer

Do they? Perhaps, they recognise a ruse and want nothing to do with him? Niceguys, if you will.

It could also be she's a busy bee and doesn't want or doesn't have time for commitment?

.. and it could be the plain ol' he's just too boring.

Take your pick.

studDMuffF1n · Answer

I never get friend zoned do you know why? Because my intentions are always made clear the girl knows I'm into her she either reciprocates or I'm gone. To many guys have been demasculized and are becoming friends with women in attempts to not scare her off or there to much of a pussy now to take the truth that there going to get rejected.

Cumulus · Answer

Men sexzone girls so fuck them if they complain about friendzone.

snowangle · Answer

She's just not attracted to them (either physically or mentally, maybe both). It's really not complicated.

Natadecoco · Answer

Basically they dont seem tough i guess. I mean, there some guys I know in real life that considered themself as good guys (but actually just by mouth). Actually there's no good guys if they only admit themself as "good guys" . Sometimes we might think that we are good enough and the person that we seem as bad from eyes are actually better than us

uniquegirl04 · Answer

Well good guys just give off that friendly vibe. Plus a lot, if not all girls love adrenaline rushes and most 'good guys' don't give them that. But I don't know much, I wish as much as the rest of you that I didn't friend zone all the good ones.

musical_kittycat · Answer

Because I really don't want to date every fluffing guy who makes a pass at me.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

If I may be so bold. . . I think men have to find a way to accept, that maybe all women are not that virtuous.

If you are truly a good guy and you have been friendzoned. . . maybe that's a good thing. Move on, find a better more honest person.

dancing_in_nebulas · Answer

He isn't a "good guy" really. No lie, a lot of "good guys" are rude and condescending. They are like bad in their own way, and not the hot bad either lol

SanePerson · Answer

Women don't want a nice guy. They say they do but they don't. Usually being overly nice makes it seem like you would be the first to back down in a confrontation. What woman would want that kind of guy for a long term partner?

Eikz1000 · Answer

Because 99% of people think they are good guys. No one does things that they view as wrong, every man is right in his own mind. So people get friend zoned and every one of them views themselves as a good guy.

aconfusedgirlie · Answer

Maybe she thinks they’d be a better friend than a boyfriend.

nohopeleftinme · Answer

In all honesty most guys that claim to be "nice guys" really aren't. I mean they are. Until they get rejected... just my personal opinion and experience.

sc15022 · Answer

Just to keep them around if she ever needs anything from him. Be it attention, validation, or some sort of help with a task. "Good" guys don't always turn a woman on, so at that point, the guy is more of a utility

Whysosirius7 · Answer

To the women who have said it’s because they want a challenge: soon you’ll be lucky, because so many of our requests are friend zoned or denied or anything that eventually nice guys become the mean pricks you seem to want

fueledbythc · Answer

I want to be friendzoned but most girls have a hard time talking to me. The only ones who have no trouble are the girls who are taken so i tend to make friends with taken girls.

xjxssica · Answer

Because you guys are better friends, it like you guys are important to us , so we want y’all to be our friends, cause friends last longer than boyfriends

alice55 · Answer

Is she truly her fault if she doesn't feel chemistry with him?

Pocahontas2000 · Answer

If she friend zones all the guys, then she obviously has commitment issues

PaleKid · Answer

I’m usually attracted to nice guys but if you’re nice and I friend zone you then there’s something else.

Tinalee · Answer

Sometimes it makes sense to keep a guy a ‘friend’ so I don’t lose him altogether.

jacquesvol · Answer

Many don't want to seem slutty in the eyes of good guys.  With bad guys they don't care about coming over as a slut. (Even if they aren't sluts)

LordChaoticX · Answer

I have never been friendzoned I am too skilled for that. I have been brozoned though ahaha

KelaAshes · Answer

Maybe you're not that great a guy.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Because simply being nice isn't enough for a girl to like you.

Tohhru · Answer

You're boring. Young people the days love drama, now go talk shit if you want friends or partner

Rbryers · Answer

She want's only bad boys who will f*ck and feed her lot's of uppers.

Bandit74 · Answer

Its usually because of how you look.

qwert1234 · Answer

Lack of confidence usually.

spnfanatic2 · Answer

Usually because they're afraid, or naive.

btw1515 · Answer

It's crazy.

Aradescent · Answer

Potato brains

Revolver_ · Answer

They want a bad boy

What is girl's psychology for friendzoning all good guys?

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