Guys: Why do many guys automatically friendzone a girl when they are extremely sweet and funny?

[Anonymous]

[SexyBiMan]

I'm assuming you're saying the girl is extremely sweet and funny. In answer to your question, it took me a LOOOOONG time and being in a lot of friend zones to figure this out, so pay attention:

You only think you've been put in the friend zone if you believe you had a chance to start with. If you find yourself in the friend zone, it means the other person decided against you in the first 30 seconds you met. You never actually had a chance and were deluding yourself.

In other words, they're not interested in you romantically, never was, never will be. Is this a reflection of you?

No, you're just not his type, even if he's yours. Stay friends but know it's never going anywhere, because you're not his type.

Solution: go find a guy who's your type and for whom you're his type.

[SexyBiMan]

Glad you liked my opinion. Anything to spread the hard earned wisdom 😊

[Azzazle]

I tend to give them a chance. Sweet ones are usually great. I think women friendzoning a guy is more common. It could be that for whatever reason you dont tickle their fancy. They are probably missing out.

[DrRev77]

I would say because depending on age and mindset, some people, guys and girls, are scared of the real potential of commitment. I'd say that he might have caught feelings and wasn't planning on it so he didn't know what to do. That's just me though haha

[djmzes]

The same reason girls do automatically friendzobe nice guys

[Morg1796]

I personally could never be in a relationship with someone who I didn't find physically attractive.

The personality is extremely important too but she has to have both aspects of her that attract me, not just one.

It's either that or lie to make her happy when I'm not even into her, and that's something I'll never do. She deserves someone better than me, someone who really loves her, in that case.

[SupernovaV10]

Could be she's not physically attractive to him. While we love women who are sweet we also don't want pushovers or one who's too easy. We like a challenge. We like women who can stand their ground but will be submissive in the right ways. Don't overthink it. Usually lack of physical attraction.

[xxripper81xx]

That is a great question. It's not as known for that to happen, but it does. We as guys may accidently and unconsciously do that to you when we start talking to you. And then we start wondering how to take down the walls we put up😂 but in all actuality, we do that based on personal opinions most of the time

[jordidp]

Some guys only care about looks. You might be sweet and funny but when you don't look 'hot' or 'sexy',... U gonna be friendzoned. Those guys are dicks. Then there're guys who also care about personality, if they friendzone you that means 1) he's gay
2) he has a girlfriend
There might be some other Things but i think those are the most common ones.

[ddaws]

Probably not attracted to you or whoever is having this issue. Every guy wants a girl to be sweet and funny

[lacaras]

My primary reason for 'friendzoning' girls is that I can't picture being in a relationship with her, which could be because we're too different in interests (or too similar), she doesn't seem to be very smart (by smart I mean not dumb as a sack of rocks), or I don't find her physically attractive

[shades777]

Usually its the other way around. Men friendzone ugly, fat, mean, and old chicks.
Nobody is friendzoning a hot chick. We all want to bang her. The friend stuff is the weak man's approach. A strong man is direct and does not want to be "friend" unless its friends with benefits

[bigoat]

Most guys develop connections very quickly and easily. If a guy friend zones a girl, it is more than likely he does not view her in a romantic light, regardless of their previous positive interactions. Also, all guys have a different on what they deem attractive, so it's very difficult to overcome that boundary if a girl does not fit within those guidelines.