Guys: Why do many guys automatically friendzone a girl when they are extremely sweet and funny?

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SexyBiMan · Accepted Answer

I'm assuming you're saying the girl is extremely sweet and funny. In answer to your question, it took me a LOOOOONG time and being in a lot of friend zones to figure this out, so pay attention:

You only think you've been put in the friend zone if you believe you had a chance to start with. If you find yourself in the friend zone, it means the other person decided against you in the first 30 seconds you met. You never actually had a chance and were deluding yourself.

In other words, they're not interested in you romantically, never was, never will be. Is this a reflection of you?

No, you're just not his type, even if he's yours. Stay friends but know it's never going anywhere, because you're not his type.

Solution: go find a guy who's your type and for whom you're his type.

Azzazle · Accepted Answer

I tend to give them a chance. Sweet ones are usually great. I think women friendzoning a guy is more common. It could be that for whatever reason you dont tickle their fancy. They are probably missing out.

DrRev77 · Answer

I would say because depending on age and mindset, some people, guys and girls, are scared of the real potential of commitment. I'd say that he might have caught feelings and wasn't planning on it so he didn't know what to do. That's just me though haha

djmzes · Answer

The same reason girls do automatically friendzobe nice guys

Morg1796 · Answer

I personally could never be in a relationship with someone who I didn't find physically attractive.

The personality is extremely important too but she has to have both aspects of her that attract me, not just one.

It's either that or lie to make her happy when I'm not even into her, and that's something I'll never do. She deserves someone better than me, someone who really loves her, in that case.

SupernovaV10 · Answer

Could be she's not physically attractive to him. While we love women who are sweet we also don't want pushovers or one who's too easy. We like a challenge. We like women who can stand their ground but will be submissive in the right ways. Don't overthink it. Usually lack of physical attraction.

xxripper81xx · Answer

That is a great question. It's not as known for that to happen, but it does. We as guys may accidently and unconsciously do that to you when we start talking to you. And then we start wondering how to take down the walls we put up😂 but in all actuality, we do that based on personal opinions most of the time

jordidp · Answer

Some guys only care about looks. You might be sweet and funny but when you don't look 'hot' or 'sexy',... U gonna be friendzoned. Those guys are dicks. Then there're guys who also care about personality, if they friendzone you that means 1) he's gay
2) he has a girlfriend
There might be some other Things but i think those are the most common ones.

ddaws · Answer

Probably not attracted to you or whoever is having this issue. Every guy wants a girl to be sweet and funny

lacaras · Answer

My primary reason for 'friendzoning' girls is that I can't picture being in a relationship with her, which could be because we're too different in interests (or too similar), she doesn't seem to be very smart (by smart I mean not dumb as a sack of rocks), or I don't find her physically attractive

shades777 · Answer

Usually its the other way around. Men friendzone ugly, fat, mean, and old chicks.
Nobody is friendzoning a hot chick. We all want to bang her. The friend stuff is the weak man's approach. A strong man is direct and does not want to be "friend" unless its friends with benefits

bigoat · Answer

Most guys develop connections very quickly and easily. If a guy friend zones a girl, it is more than likely he does not view her in a romantic light, regardless of their previous positive interactions. Also, all guys have a different on what they deem attractive, so it's very difficult to overcome that boundary if a girl does not fit within those guidelines.

InkHero · Answer

We don't, really. Those are qualities guys like. Unless, the girl is too clingy or rushes things a bit. Also, if you only send a guy "friend vibes" and don't flirt, you put yourself in the friend zone. On the plus side.. Friend zone only means they aren't interested at that current time.

MacNCheese69 · Answer

Girls like boys who can take risks and do things that actors does in movie... They want beauty with brains in men. So , shy and introvert got stuck there because tgey don't know how to express or how to flirt or even if they do , they come on as creep

PikaSheikah · Answer

You're not really giving context, if a girl is extremely sweet and funny and the guy barely ever out or talks to her very often of course he'll label her as a friend. If the said girl and the guy hung out more they would get to know each other and have more of a chance of falling in love. Unless the guy already has someone in mind and the other way around

Dim1213 · Answer

Its not what teens are looking for. Guys your age just want sex and a pretty girlfreind to show off. A sweet and funny girl is just a friend or a sister.

Gamerofallgames · Answer

Many reasons really. They could think it is a act, they think if they get into a relationship the girl may change. They just don't like you like that, etc.

aaronbw · Answer

It depends on many factors. Sweet and funny isn't everything. Lots of guys want different attributes in a woman and simply being sweet isn't always enough, some guys want an athletic girl, some want sweet, funny AND sassy, etc.

Curmudgeon · Answer

9 times out of 10, the girl friendzones the guy. Just saying.

baelen7 · Answer

Ahahahahaha
Guys friendzone girls? What fantasy world you're living in please do tell. I have never once heard or seen a guy friendzone a girl unless he already has a girl or has serious reasons... other than that. Guys don't friendzone hun

victorvolf · Answer

Generally we like people that are a bit of a challenge. Not an excessive amount, but giving a guy some shit is always healthy.

DatDudeDEE · Answer

My opinion is that when a female is very friendly and sweet us males think if we was to make a relationship the next guy could probably get the same attention.

genericname85 · Answer

They don't. They friendzone girls that they are not physically attracted to. If she wasn't sweet and funny, they would probably not even want her as a friend.

mannythemanly · Answer

It goes both ways. Its usually just because the person just isn't interested in that type of personality, some like tough and serious , while others * like myself* like easy going, sweet and funny girls. It all depends on the person

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I don't think guys do that on purpose I think it's just something that happens it depends on what kind of connection you make some time you make a sexual connection or sometime it's more like a friendly connection it just depends on the situation

Password_Is_Taco · Answer

Why do girls friend zone guys when they are extremely sweet and funny?

__tim__2000_ · Answer

Because they're more like a sister than a true wife material. Plus, this happens the other way around way more

mdub1021 · Answer

For me, in most cases, it's because im not a very expressive man with my emotions and so I know there's someone far better for her than me.

Travis_Skyles · Answer

Sounds like there is a story behind that, care to share?

hindril · Answer

Better than someone who is a total bitch. Lol. I wouldn't because that kind of raises a flag of a liar.

kao1313 · Answer

they r prob not used to all the attetion or the girl is acting clingy

JellyDonutguy96 · Answer

I only friendzone red heads because my mom is a red head and I don't want to end up with a redhead myself

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