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Good girls, nice girls, nice guys, etc. finish last because they are too busy thinking about trying to please the other person instead of trying to please themselves. I've been called a nice girl but I sure am not going to wait around until the guys in my age group are done having fun, so maybe, just maybe one of them will decide he wants to choose me to settle down one day. I'm living my 20s the way I want to and doing what suits me. You have to change how you define "Winning" and "Losing".
If you do not want to sleep around, then you are not losing because you aren't being selected by guys who want girls who sleep around. If you have self respect and you're picky about who you give your body to, why would you want a guy like that? Those girls aren't being treated the way a girl like you most likely expects to be treated. They get relationships that last a little while, from guys who like them a little, then they get dumped and it's on to the next.
Date guys you have things in common with, go out on dates but don't feel you have to do anything you don't want to do. What I do is just meet different guys, go out on dates and keep a few guys on my team for dates and going out and spend the rest of my time with friends, family or work or school. I'm not letting a guy who just wants sex be the main point of my life. I get what I want from them (attention, dates, affection, etc.) and then bounce. It's the way of the world, you can sit around watching guys play girls or you can take control of your life and get what you want too.
There are a lot of guys. All this stuff is silly. Look if you genuinely like a person for they are its hard to find & even harder to get- if you just want to get guy well big freaking deal there are lots of guys, It isn't easy for anyone to get what they want, everyone has to work for it one way or the other,m now or later.
Its cowardly to blame your problems on someone eles behavior if a guy doesn't like you it isn't necessarily sex, If you know who you are what's important to you, you'll find someone who gets with you- if you want it, doesn't mean it happens right away. If you just want to f*** around with any guy- well than you're just f***ing around. Might as well f***. BUT w/e you do stop complaining, swear more & more of these posts on gag, make girls look absolutely pathetic- its embarrassing.
do you really want the guy that will sleep with anyone? those aren't the good guys...
I for one do not want a guy that will jump into bed with anyone who offers
Hmmmm Your young! Look at girls who have been turned out... Sex is not all that... Love is! Before you give in! Don't give up.. If you are around a group who behaves like that change your freinds. If you look for good guys you will not find them in that click. If you want marridge its not about being had by a guy. It's about enjoying someone who takes your breath away. In otherwards you only live once. Your young and if you give yourself to one of them you will be no good for marridge. Be infactuated first then look for compadibilty. I've been infactuated by many cute girls but I seek compadibilty. See lifes short, they know it to. That's why they give them selfs up like that. But those types of girls end up in tears. I've met so many women who because they where like them ended up old and in tears. And full of hate. Before you give in think about your future. Your body will become old. If no one will want you if you are like them if you disagree then you will be like them in the future. If you can wait then you have a chance, If you can't look for a older man. A younger man dosn't want to settle down. They are as clueless as you. The chance for a sucessfull marridge incresses with age. Because as you are they are...
I'm not quite sure I understand your question, guys only want to sleep with sluts, but they could care less about her, guys care about as you put it "good girls", those are the kind of girls we actually want to be in a relationship with. What confuses me is that "good girls are expected to wait until the guy is ready to settle down", that I can tell you is not true, we don't want to wait until we "settle down", but we do want to wait until a bit into the relationship, because if you sleep with a guy really early he will think you are a slut, basically what I'm saying is, just wait until you've dated the guy a bit first, but you don't have to "settle down"
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people sleep around typically because they are insecure and are seeking affection. If you do not agree with their way of life you don't have to follow it, you should wait for the right guy, definitley don't rush into things that make you uncomfortable. pretty much all guys are jerks that only want a girl for sex, primarily because now they are told its OK to do so and life is so short so they want all the PLEASURE they can get
blunt answer ... good girls don't put out ... bad girls do... but the good news is good girls don't have to have sex with the donkey to know that doing donkey shows for a living is a bad idea ... they tend to have imagination and intelligence, not only can these girls expirence the most mind boggling orgasismz ever seen because of these traits but more often than not they do end up with truly amazing guys in the end :)
Good girls have the same conundrum as good guys- seemingly they are in a zone where nobody wants em (at that stage in their lives).. but it's all perception here. It's not anything other than perception, fear, and frustration... In the end, the good girls, just as the good guys, will win it all. Long life, real love, happiness, etc... Compared to the 'bad guys/bad girls'... You are on the right path. Hate to sound cliched, but you are on the right track...
Because the "good girls" want the guys who wants the "bad girls". While "nice guys" want the girls who want the "bad boys".
However, I am a perfect exception to this rule, and I know why they lose. Because the "good girls" would want THAT SPECIFIC GUY to win the game with. If anyone else would approach them, those are rejected, and yet these girls still weep to their "friend zoned guyfriends" about how horrible it is to be alone and lonely and single (even the one they rejected!). So none of these girls are worth the time of consolation, they should just accept those who appreciate them instead of those who don't even notice them. :)
well, its hard to place an exact answer, but it works for guys that way too. nice guys (and girls) finish last. sometimes its related to confidence, but there is such a thing as being too nice. if you are too nice you don't present a "challenge" for your partner. with that being said the relationship gets boring or doesn't even start.
as for the girls that sleep around getting the guy, that's pretty true because its just in our programming. guys (on average) think about sex once a minute...and from personal experience, I'm a virgin and still think about sex, so that sorta proves that its just built into our brains
The girls that sleep around do not get the good guys, at least they are not able to keep them. Having sex too soon means no long lasting meaning full relationship is possible. We know that as soon as it happens, but does not mean we won't stick around for a while or until we are ready for a long lasting meaning full relationship. No sex for too long means he goes elsewhere to get it. Too soon, too long, its a fine line and every mans line is different.
Lots of women are lousy at sex. The more sex a woman has the better she is at doing it. Women with enthusiasm are much better. You may not like the idea of practicing to get better at having sex. But that's irrelevant, because you will practice, and you will get better. Some women have 5 men in their life and some have 500, and every one was the one man who would last forever. Women can't escape that feeling, it's coded into the X chromosome, with 2 copies to make sure there's no mistakes.
I am talking to a good girl now :p I don't get your point haha.
it's not about "good girl". it's about which vibe you send out.
are you shy and not talkative and look down most of the time? then I would have it hard to approach u.
are you open, look up in peoples eyes and smile near em then I would at least try (not in school tho, I'm shy at school).
how many men have you turned down? things might have worked with one of them. how many men have you asked out? things might have worked with one of them.
Well the definition of a "good girl" to me is one who won't have sex until married, doesn't give fellatio without a condom, doesn't watch the Family Guy nor find any of the content funny, and won't have anal sex in the shower... yeah, those are legitament reasons to stay away from them.
Same reasons the good guys always lose.
Girls always aim for the "hot guy" yet complain about the guy being a jerk and treating them badly.
Guys always go for the hot girl because guys are visual,guys go for looks not personality.Guys will always ignore the "good girls"
Just how life works.
You're a moron if you really think that's how it is. Guys will only go for sluts after getting led on, stood up, and rejected by prudes like you.
The simple fact is THEY DONT.
A guy will simply use them to gratify himself and then ditch her the moment anyone decent comes a long
I feel the same way.
I'm waiting around for an actual good guy.
Good girls go to heaven, bad girls just have more fun...
Because everything men say they don't like, turns out to be what they love and what captivates them and gets them. So that means, sluts, girls with all the make up and high maintenance. The more money he has, the more this is true.
You're probably just extremely unattractive. I suggest cosmetic surgery, otherwise, you'll be alone forever. ]':
one answer, because life never works out the way you want it to.
every girl is kind in certain aspect,i don't know which kind do you mean on earth.
Men think with the wrong head, sorry :(
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