Is it a bit excessive if my girlfriend tries to “show me off” to her friends?

And am I right about what I told her? Personally I just think it’s silly, and pointless for anyone to do that with their friends cause it’ll only make their friends be annoyed of them. Asking girls since I’m looking for a girls perspective given that all her friends are femalesIs it a bit excessive if my girlfriend tries to “show me off” to her friends?Is it a bit excessive if my girlfriend tries to “show me off” to her friends?
  • Yes it’s annoying when people do that with their friends
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  • @Danny_dan92 I imagine her convo with her friend similar to when guys shoot the shit and talk their women. Sometimes it's a long convo and sometimes it's just a mention... Women do the same. Maybe you took the word "brag" to the extreme. Women talk of and about their men all the time, to mothers, sisters, friends you name it. Be happy she ain't got nothing bad to say cause those convos are the annoying ones. I'm sure anyone would prefer praise over criticism.
    And talking about how amazing you are is different from dragging you along to say here he is... Besides maybe she wants others to have the same great impression of you she has.

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  • there's one thing to be proud of your significant other
    but another to brag about them... makes you sound like an item for their own personal status

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  • I'd get annoyed if someone was "showing off" their partner. But I guess that's just me. I don't do that with my relationship, I don't really see the point. So it would probably get on my nerves if someone else was doing it. I'm glad if my friends have great relationships, but it kinda makes it seem they think they have something to prove, if they need to show it off.

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  • I think you both have valid points. If the other friend asks about it, a little bragging is okay. She's just proud of you and if given the opportunity wants to talk about you. If it isn't excessive then its okay

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  • i think it's annoying, or seems like she's having the wrong kind of friends.. but i think if you love someone you would want to show them off yeah? :D

    also you can't expect everyone to be thoughtful as you are :D

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  • It depends. If my boyfriend showed me off to his friends I would appreciate that, because he's proud of me and happy I'm his. But if she's going on about it and won't let it go, then I'd be concerned. I'd take it as a compliment

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  • I agree with you. I get if their mentioned about something or asked about, but I would not brag about my partner to rub it in someone’s face.

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  • I like privacy. And not rub it In peoples faces. If they ask then they ask. So yeah I’m siding with you on that :0

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  • To be honest I'd be happy if he brags a bit about me (when I deserve it, once in a while) but I understand that if done too much it gets annoying.

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  • Only if she keeps at it. Like it's okay to be proud of who you are with, it's normal

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  • Bragging js annoying but I think she was just excited. Most of the time women exaggerate.

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  • How old is she?

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    • She’s gonna be 20 in a few months

    • Yeah she already seems young I mean yeah you're right, I personally keep my guy for myself until I get asked or when I'm out in public and all but here she is just overjoyed you know it's typical for girls to go around and tell about something they're excited about and wanting to spread the news, since you both are let's say new
      I hope you don't get me wrong tho

  • Why do u gave there messages

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  • It only gets annoying if it’s excessive

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  • I'll usually just talk about my boyfriend to my friend if I'm having a problem in the relationship etc. The only time I bragged was in the beginning. Unfortunately this tactic makes my friends hate the poor guy... all negative! :'( So... I'm done doing that. I need to work out these issues with him! You need balance.

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