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Well Barbie, since U R 18... I don't want to show you any hate. I love your pic-I don't see how anyone could even try to talk shit to you. And if they still do it's because they're jelouse.
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Jealousy, or at least envy, usually.
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Jealous bitches and threatened dudes.
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Society. Period.
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Being a showoff with something you achieved is barely tolerable as is.
Being a showoff with something you were born and grew up with (ie, your body) is a whole step above that.
No one likes showoffs.74 Reply- +1 y
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@puffynips ad hominens are never enough said. If you have no way of retorting someone without them, you have no point of your own.
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First, let me say that personally, I have no problem with it. I'm just going to play devil's advocate.
1. Nakedness is a form of vulnerability.
Vulnerability is a weakness.
People have a problem with weakness, especially if they feel they can't be weak themselves.
2. You're seeking to get attention and admiration only for your body.
You're looks are not only a mostly unearned trait, which makes showing it off conceited in some eyes, it's also hypocritical considering the messages that women don't want to be seen for their body, and that men are superficial and objectify women.
3. Jealousy.
Self explanatory.
4. Low self esteem
Other girls might simply feel bad when they compare themselves to you (which is not the same as jealousy), guys might be feel bad, knowing that they are simply not good enough for some people.
4. We are driven largely by our genes' "will" to propagate. That is a fact.
When you are sending sexual signals to EVERYBODY, it's likely that you are promiscuous. That is, in and of itself, nothing immoral.
But while you can be sure, that the baby carries your genes, should you get pregnant, none of the men you (hypothetically) slept with can.
From an evolutionary standpoint, that would mean that there's a baby no man would feel compelled to take care of, which might result in it's death and (sorry if this sounds cold) wasted ressources.
If a man was FORCED to take care of the baby, he might get resentful, as his genes command him to create his own offspring. (I know, primitive; but true.)
5. Our history of promoting monogamy, due to female polygamy, as explained in 4., being bad for "the tribe", and an unsafe investment for the men you're attracting.
Again, this is not a judgement. I don't think there's morally anything wrong with posting slutty pictures.82 Reply- +1 y
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Why thank you, kind stranger ^^
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In my experience, they only seem to get hate from other ladies, and I always thought that may arise from either jealousy or an indignation that they as females are in part represented by it as being slutty, when they are not.
As several users have mentioned, it also has to do with self-respect. This mostly in line with the second reason I suggested, when other ladies see a slutty post, they see it not only as disrespectful towards the subject of the post, but also to them as a group. And whether or not the individual in question views it as disrespectful is irrelevant; so long as the viewer sees it as disrespectful, that is what they will think.
It is a matter of privacy, for the most part, that makes it– to me– seem disrespectful. I believe privacy is one of the most important things we ought to protect. When you take it away completely from even yourself, I see that as a blatant disregard for respect towards the person. It may not be meant as such, but since I value privacy and align it with respect, any extreme lack thereof will immediately flag in my mind as a lack of respect.
This is, however, only my opinion. And on the contrary, it seems as though your profile picture appears to have gotten no hate as of yet. So perhaps it isn't as common as you believe.20 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
I’m not going to sit here and lie, there is a part of me that’s jealous. I’m not that comfortable with my body. I do wear things to show off my assess but wearing next to nothing and posting it publicly just isn’t something I could do and it’s not really something I want to do either
The main reason I don’t care for it though is it seems like the girls that do that are only doing it for attention and it shows a lack of respect I think because you could be a really intelligent girl or you could be insanely funny or whatever it is but now you’ve boxed yourself in this ‘I’m only good for one thing’ category. While some men will go further a lot I don’t think will because they either only see you as sex and that’s all they want from you or they see you as sex and assume you’re sleeping with any guy you can so they won’t care for anything with you. Why might this bother me? Because it’s become a trend, women post ‘slutty’ pics and its normal so I think some men will only see women, as a whole not just the ‘slutty’ ones as sexual objects and I don’t really think that’s ok.31 Reply- Opinion Owner+1 y
Lol thanks for the downvotes. 🖕🏻
766 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I think it is playful and attractive. However, modesty shows maturity. Before post college, you are still trying to figure out who you are and you are doing all types of things to figure that out. These years are just experimenting and having fun. But, for those that can take this in, there are those in high school that take a stance to stay pure and be modest until marriage that's a strong stance that not many follow or will follow. In the end, modesty shows maturity. It shows you are not just going to show anybody your body. They have to earn that right. Your body like a work of art, that is priceless. You need to respect it and take care of it. You don't want to make guys think that they all can have you if they wanted to. You are special and they have to earn you. By posting revealing pictures you are giving away parts of yourself to others without saving it for that special person. Casting pearls before swine as they say. Giving parts of yourself to others that have not earned it or deserve it. Your body is beautiful and is truly a gift! It is something to be treasured and something that is special and unique. Men need to earn the right to see you. That's way it should be. It's fine to want to feel attractive but don't give away to much because if you do, a man could take that for granted. You want to give him a special part of yourself and you can't do that if you give it to him at the start. It needs to be special for the both of you.
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Because what your doing is seeking attention, and its really difficult to respect some one who doesn't respect themselves. What I mean by that is you present yourself as nothing more then a sexual object ergo one cannot see you as anything else but that so naturally they are going to respond that way. No different then if some one where to present themselves as a hobo, thats precisely how they will get treated. So men will not respect you (but plenty will probably want to have sex with you and nothing else) and women will look down on you because biologically you devalue them as you are suggesting that you are going to provide sex for no cost while they are trying to use sex as a means to acquire a mate that will provide and protect them. That is, for example, why would I go out and buy something and invest in something if I could just get it for free? Its kind of like standing outside of a candy shop and giving out free candy, the owner of the shop will be understandably upset because I am taking away his business. This is why women are biologically driven to dislike and have animosity towards women who present themselves in an overly sexualized way. As for men, again, you are presenting yourself as nothing more then something they can stick their penis in ergo they cannot respect you beyond that because you have given them nothing to respect.
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I'll preface this by saying that every individual's bodily autonomy is sacrosanct, and should be protected by law--regardless of mine or anyone else's opinion on any individual's decisions. However, I will explain to you why I personally have a negative opinion on the act of posting revealing pictures:
There are certain actions that are permissible outside of relationships, but not inside of relationships, because they are disrespectful to your partner (if you have one). Posting revealing pictures is one such action. There is no independent reason not to post such pictures if you are single, but if you were in a monogamous relationship, it would undermine your exclusivity and devotion to your partner.
Now that we've established that certain actions become unacceptable upon entering a monogamous relationship, if your goal is to be in a monogamous relationship eventually, it is unwise and pointless to engage in such actions--even while you're still single--because it would require you to make major changes to your lifestyle once you do enter the relationship, and it would be difficult to adapt. It would be a much easier transition if you had already been leading a lifestyle that is acceptable in a monogamous relationship.
TLDR: If your ultimate goal is to be in a relationship, it is in your best interest to behave as if you were in a relationship, even when you are single.00 Reply u
+1 yWhy can't you do whatever you want without suffering any consequences? A slutty picture strongly suggests that
1. you are a woman who wants to use sex to get what you want. Most people resent someone who is such a conscious manipulator.
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2. An attention whore. If that's what you are, most people want to tell you to grow the fuck up.
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3. You simply have no shame. We think it would be a bad idea for you to ever have children.
by the way, when you took the profile picture that shows your naked butt to the world. . . why did you have your bedroom door closed? Didn't want daddy to see what you were doing?103 Reply- +1 y
I think it’s more of a character/values flaw. The decision to post a picture of your body in a explicit manner for attention, ego-boosting, and furthering the belief that there’s nothing wrong with this, is something a smart person wouldn’t decide to do. If you post a picture of this nature, you’re basically saying it’s okay for pictures like these to be posted and that there’s nothing wrong with them. I think this can be wrong because it can fuel the objectification of women. Perhaps young men and young women will understand this to be characteristic, normal, or okay for a woman to do and start to feel a certain way towards women, nothing positive. Also, it’s just not professional to have these types of pictures up for the whole world to see, employers, friends, and family. It’s a lack of consideration for what other people may feel, showing you just don’t care.
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Nailed it.
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In a nutshell, it's annoying as hell to see on your feed because it seems as though that is what every female under 30 is posting. If you've seen one, you've seen them all. If I wanted to see scantily-clad women, I would just watch porn. I have no desire to see my friend with her hands over her nipples squeezing her boobs... Sorry, I just don't.
Most women who do it are just seeking validation and a way to boost their low self-esteems. The women who hate it I think are just tired of seeing it. There is nothing special about your butt. There is nothing special about about your boobs. If you've seen one pair, you've seen them all.112 Reply- +1 y
Thank you for being a reasonable female. A cut above the sheepish crowd! You're absolutely right. It's not jealousy... at all... it's just that everyone is bloody doing it now for validation and it's getting rather boring and overdone.
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Thank you, I agree. Someone had to say it..😂
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Because it's whoring for attention.
I get wanting attention in general because that's basically what everyone is doing on the internet. What I don't understand is wanting to get that specific kind of attention, meaning horny guys jacking off to your pictures or people harassing you with sexual comments and messages.
I would much rather get someone's attention with my personality and opinions but maybe that's just me. And if it has to be about appearance, I would much rather get comments from people saying I'm beautiful rather than something crude and sexual.
On the other hand, I let people do whatever the fuck the want to do. It doesn't affect my life if someone has their tits out on the internet. I do understand why some people have a problem with it, though.100 Reply - +1 y
The reality is, when you post pictures of yourself half naked and you take pride in it - you're telling the world that you have nothing else to offer but your body. You probably dont think so, but the world will perceive you as such regardless of how you want them to see you.
So I dont see how you can expect respect from people, men will see your slutty pictures and immediately think of you as an object, a thing to f*ck, and then get on with their lives. You have made no impact on them. You have not impressed them in a way that they will remember and respect for a long time, or a short time for that matter.
You should do whatever makes you happy. No hate or judgement here. I'm just answering your question.86 Reply- +1 y
I still fail to see how being sexually desirable is mutually exclusive to being desirable as a person in a relationship or as a contributor to society.
If you are sexually desirable, you are not a bad mother. Or a bad friend. Or a bad worker.
Other facets of your personality do not change when you post a picture of yourself online.
There is little distinction between a person being proud of their body or sexual nature and sharing that with others, and a person who has written and shared a novel. Both take a lot of time and energy to make appealing, and can look bad if no care or attention is given to it.
A novelist is no less valuable than a model to an employer outside of either of those two fields. And neither make the person or worse or better lover or partner. - +1 y
As for the perceptions of society, yes sure. Society will judge. It's what they do. And often times erroneously.
If you post, you are at least standing up to societies false pretenses and judgement of you by exposing it. - +1 y
@SomeOtherGuy Yes. I agree somewhat. Being desirable as a person often includes being sexually desirable too. I don't really care for these arguments, because I let people be themselves and I mind my own business. Like I said I am just answering her question with cold truth.
The other reality is. And I say this just from the perspective of living life as a woman. I have brains. I know of it. I have looks. I know of it. I have kindness. I know of it. If I have high confidence, I don't need to actively show it off. If I for any reason have to say "hey look what I can do!" its usually because I like (or worse, need) the attention.
Nothing wrong with liking attention (problematic when needing it from strangers though). It comes down to personality I guess. But society gives people shit for that too, labeling such types of people as narcissists and the like. By all means, people should do what makes them happy and confident - but society doesn't always let you. Im only explaining why. - +1 y
I'm only asking you to think deeper about your answer.
Nothing wrong with attention and validation if you source it properly.
I could argue that you have just displayed your own traits, though without actually showing them off. Do we not try to make our traits known in society, to bring ourselves a sense of worth? - +1 y
@SomeOtherGuy I am not sure how "deep" I am supposed to get. We do naturally like attention and want to display our traits. It depends on how you do it.
Im not against getting validation. Honestly, when I am proud of my looks I might take selfies. I might send them to friends or to my man. But I dont send them out to the entire universe. Because the rest of this people in the universe dont gain anything from seeing me like that. And I definitely dont gain anything from THEM seeing me like that. What am i gonna get a few compliments? Then theoretically, are those compliments supposed to help me in some way? Am I supposed to feel better about my looks from the words of strangers? My confidence is strong enough for me to feel great and sexy without that. I dont need strangers to tell me I look good.
You may disagree - but from what I have noticed in my life by looking through social media:
Everyone that does this (even my personal good friends) have issues with confidence deep down. - +1 y
OR OR OR. They love their looks - thats fine. But when you talk to them, they have nothing else to offer (and therefore nothing else to flaunt). So they really try to bring attention to their looks.
Keep in mind. I am using this debate in general for both genders. Guys that use their ab picture (or worse a picture of their boner ew) as their profile picture are literally in this very same boat. (Personally I stay away from guys like that). This isn't a gender thing in my opinion. Its about looks and presentation.
You can continue to debate. I dont mind. But there's no changing my mind lol. This is basic psychology and sociology.
To the asker: Honey. You really just do you. Post whatever you wanna post. Good or bad, people will talk or judge you - might as well post whatever the heck you want. If people dont respect you, welp, you dont need their respect. As long as you love and respect yourself, dont bother what others think.
Because girls like that clearly have a montive behind posting pictures like that to get males attention and improvel and it just shows desperation, vanity and insecurities in themselves. There's nothing innocent about it and she knows what she's doing. I couldn't really care to be honest, I haven't got time to hate on people but I do find it funny and make fun of my friends for doing it and used to imitate their poses and post them online in their comments, then they usually realised how stupid they looked and laugh at themselves now their older.
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Girls should want guy to like them for their personality not their bodies. It always seems the people who do this are always the ones who complain about dating selfish, jerks and say no one takes them seriously. Who do the expect to attract when they draw that type of attention to themselves
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There's nothing wrong with posting slutty pics or -hell, even being a slut, in general. There is no evidence to suggest there is a negative outcome from sleeping with a stranger or multiple people you know, while practicing safe sex. It just sounds disgusting to people, so they assume it to be disgusting in general, which is rather unfair. In essence, they believe their subjective views to be objective. This perspective, in turn, transfers to all things regarded as "slutty", such as taking slutty pics.
These subjective ideas generally come from that which cannot be proven to be true, such as religion or traditional family values. And because none of these ideas can be analyzed or proven, then we should have no reason to believe it is wrong to do. I'm sure you already know, but you are not deserving of any hate, whatsoever.33 Reply- +1 y
There's a dumb myth that if a woman has sex with multiple partners her genitals will become mutilated. Yet, sex with the same partner repeatedly does not result in mutilated genitals.
I've even heard from a woman that sleeping with different partners will result in a messed up brain, but sleeping with the same partner doesn't?
There's also a fear that if a woman is experienced, the male cannot compete with previous lovers, and they feel insecure or uncertain about that.
There's also an idea that if a woman comes off experienced, that man cannot take "ownership" of her. And that inability to "own" a woman is not "romantic" to some men.
There's a pervasive ignorance about sex that persists in our culture, passed down from generation but never questioned. - +1 y
@SomeOtherGuy it's kinda like how, SUPPOSEDLY, if you get soaked from being caught in the rain, you'll catch a cold or even die of pneumonia, but, if you'd just been swimming and decided to just let the wind and sun dry you off gradually, you'd be perfectly fine!! If being wet from the rain can make you sick, how come being wet from an ocean, creek, stream, lake, river, pond, pool or shower doesn't matter at all?
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@FunkyMonkee Cognitive dissonance is very real, and very common.
It shows a lack of self respect because you're doing so to attract sexual attention. Most of the men you get attention from with those pictures don't give a fuck about you as a person, they only see you as a sex object, a piece of meat, a slut. They don't respect you at all. Why would you be okay with that if you had self-respect?
It's also damaging to your reputation. Most people will look down on you for it. It says to the world that the only value you have and the only thing you have to offer is sex. A self-respecting person would rather be admired for their character, their achievements - admiration from people who look up to and respect them.61 Reply- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
Imagine having a daughter and seeing her post a slutty photo for attention and fake affirmation of love/confidence because she didn't get it from you. Posting it for all kids and adults and elderly alike to take their cocks out and masturbate to the thought of her.
Sound good?
(Also I assure you, if guys whipped out their dicks and post it publicly to social media for attention, they would be getting hate too. But they don't. Cause they seem to realise the fake-approval is actually just masturbation to the thought of them.)70 Reply 515 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Simple
U need other to. know and agree that you are beautiful for you to agree that you are...
This is the validation feedback.
Secondly you are posting sluty picture and u want people to respect you.
Ask urself why they should respect you when u are doing nothing to gain that respect. Just cuz you are a female do not automatically means you need to be respected.
You are what you do, not what you say or will do...
That common sense.
Just like the queen diamond, it is never exposed to the public... so u value ur body to the level of diamond or just a newpapers.
Up to you
Wisdom is not taught but found32 Reply- +1 y
I love this comment made , Its so true and so sad that they all think it's ok to show off bits of there body's on video's for goodness sack. Its only thing to wear a tank top n public cause its "cooler" and complain about getting "catcalled" Its like they don't want a man attention at all. I wonder what the world of women would think if all men would stop posting "you look amazing" you look perfect. If they stopped looking at a women period. and just went on with there day. How long before they realized "HEY" why are your paying attention to me
Jealousy and envy from less confident women.
Moral judgment from the self righteous.
Some guys who lack confidence might resort to shade rather than expose their vulnerabilities to say, "Can I touch you?"
This last one is tricky. It's a two sides of the same coin type deal. Some people, usually grown folks and conservatives, associate women exposing themselves sexually with sin and sexual violence. Depending on your cultural perspective, you'll view this ideology as 1) misogyny, as in women shouldn't have the autonomy to take such risks, or 2) infantilization, as in we need to protect you until you know better and/or can demonstrate the ability to protect yourself from men who are all inherently rapists and murderers.10 Reply- +1 y
It's not that you can't, its really that you could lend your mind to more intellectual, creative or important things. Plus, it sort of shows that you are ready to engage in sexual activity at any time. If you post on social media what you have in you GAG pic and so. eone knows it's you on the street, who's to say they won't just try to get with you right there in the park, or on the street at night, kidnap you or whatever er else. They could drug you at a party they could force themselves on you. It shows that you are comfortable and probably willing to have sex. Plus guys and probably lesbians wouldn't want to share you with anybody. And it's not like you are a professional model in an underwear ad.
20 Reply No matter what you post, someone, somewhere, isn't going to agree with it. I personally think posting pictures where you're barely covered isn't really necessary, or appropriate, and some things are better left off the internet. But I'm not going to hate on them, just keep strolling.
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The more important question is, why would any girl want to post pictures like that? It's not necessary and if all they get is hate, then they don't really gain anything from it. So, really what's the point? Obviously, they post pictures like that for a reason and most of the time the reason is attention but it's not good attention, it's bad attention. When a woman posts overtly sexual pictures, then they get people who see them as sex objects and I don't know why anyone would want that.
So, it's not that you can't post pictures like that. It's a free country, you can do whatever you want. However, I don't recommend it. Also, if you do post pictures like that you can't be surprised if you get hate because you get what you give.10 Reply 1. "men are shalloooooow"
*proceeds to post naked pics on social media to seek mens attention and confirmation"
2. "DONT OBJECTIFY US"
*Proceeds to promote herself like a sex object on social media*
3. "OH LOOK HOW HOT I AM BECAUSE IT JUST HAPPENED RANDOMLY LOL"
(you have no influence on your looks, its genetics)
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Also there are a lot of other ways to changed your looks. Getting braces or invisalign, dying your hair, getting a suitable hair cut for your face shape, skin are, shaping/threading your eyebrows, waist trainers, earrings, colored contacts, wearing flattering clothes to your body type. Also natural/minimal makeup can make someone look better without looking fake (mascara, lipstick/lip balm, eyeshadow and blush natural, light colors..)
- Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
Female equality, in three simple steps
1) "Treat us as more than just sex objects, and baby factories. We have brains and personalities, too"
2) *Post half naked picture, advertising yourself as a sex object*
3) "Why aren't you loving me for my mind, or my personality?"
Try posting pictures of your doctoral thesis, and then I'll be impressed94 Reply- +1 y
I... I don't see how being sexually desirable and human is mutually exclusive.
Like... why can't you be both sexually desirable and still a human being... ?
842 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I feel as though most do it for attention though, I mean if you're genuinely making those poses and thinking it's just for fun when most of their subscribers are males... I mean doesn't that raise some eyebrows? Of course I'm not going to slut shame anyone, but it's so blatantly obvious at times where you sit back and ask yourself "Gee I wonder why she's getting hate?"
I dunno, just my 2 cents on the topic. I've posted normal pics of me then a few at the beach in a bathing suit, which got more likes and follows?
It's simple, guys like what they see. Guys who shame women for this aren't necessarily wrong, but it's rude for sure.10 Reply413 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Well they can. They are usually called models.
But I think for many they campaign about women’s rights and “don’t look at my body you’re objecting me!” And then wear next to nothing and get upset if men don’t look... and then insulted if they do.
I have a crazy idea for the world. Stop getting insulted over everything.50 ReplyBecause guys are always getting accused of sexual harassment but yet when women do shit like this no one ever questions whether the sexual harassment was provoked or encouraged by the victim and the sexual misconduct goes to far and why men think women are teases. Women need to make up their minds if they want men to come on to them or not if not then dont post slutty pictures or dress or act slutty then men won't continuously be accused of sexual harassment which women provoke or instigate such altercations from taking place. Both parties need to take responsibility for their actions. As for women side they get jealous of other women who are better looking than them seeing them as competition. But in the end women need to make up their minds how they want to be viewed and treated as not give off dozens of mixed messages
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you put it like its not a big deal to share your almost naked body, then people gets you objectified, and then you got pissed of for bein objectified.. what is the logic?
and what u call hatred or slut shaming, its a normal reaction of society, similar to the immune system of the human body, it has various rational reasons to be so, basically for the general good (healthy society). what is unnatural is forcing the few people remaining having morals to shut up and force them to cheris under the egis of "freedom" through the insane state of laws of today.30 Reply - +1 y
Because there are far too many hateful people on social media Ms Barbie.
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Petty jealousy and envy!
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If everyone walked around completely naked, we wouldn't have to worry about looking slutty.
Most men have a predatory point of view over these women. And it’s caused by the expectation that if a girl dresses that way then she has lack of respect and she’s “easy.” But this isn’t the case, in my opinion lots of guys just want to feel superior and want to control females behavior and manipulate them in order to make them feel guilty for showing off their body. Of course they’ll claim that they like “hoes” but that’s just another way of manipulation that men have, in order to get the woman “in her place”.
All of this is purely cultural / societal10 ReplyIt's attention seeking. I'm pretty sure you don't need to get your tits out to make a point. Employers can now look at most social media profiles of you, so unless you're after a job at hooters, they can say no on the basis of slutty pictures. It just promotes a desperate persona that you need other people to justify your body. A lot of intellectual people don't feel the need to flash some skin for attention, so it's also got an attachment for "she's a dumb slut".
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Because sluts don't get respect. If someone does not respect themselves and body. By letting everyone almost see you naked its something guys like to see but they won't respect you as a good girl. They would just use you and not take you seriously
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Why would I respect a narcissistic imbecile that gets pleasure from posting her/his naked body online for everyone to see? These kinds of girls post millions of selfies per day on their accounts and are the most boring individuals with no lives.
They can do whatever they Hell they want, sure, but they'll never get respect from me nor should they expect it from me. I only respect modest girls.60 Reply Slutty pictures like your ass and tits? For one, porn sites, cam girls, and instagram "models" already do that a lot. And if someone wanted, they could go there for some eye candy. Same way with a lot of posts of babies and food. Been there done that. Being proud of it too is another thing. Someone may have gotten cosmetic surgery that's only worth it if others can see it or it would all be in vain. Do people get something out of feeding someone more attention? Maybe suck ups looking to get laid, but overall nobody gives a shit and will react negatively for their time wasted.
00 ReplyI don't but the problem is when girls post slutty picture and get slutty responses they wanna act all offensive like that isn't a natural response it makes no sense what do expect when you dress half naked and act like a hoe bot saying that's you by the way but also not every guy is gonna just jump to the conclusion and treat you that way like i like to try and see the goid in most people and i don't treat them that way or try to but its just a basic response when that happens the same thing happens when guys do it i see thirty chicks go after a dude with his shirt of or whatever all the time but guys tend to like that or will sometimes just pay it no mind unless they see a girl who they like but yea that what I've got to say about it
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"Hatred" is a strong emotion that I don't feel towards those people, which is why I usually don't even care to comment.
At most I feel sorry for them because those pics are what they have of most precious in life. That's what gives them purpose and will keep them going until they're grannies.
It's the thought that many men drool over them even though someone else may have rejected them, makes them feel proud and superior to other girls, different, even though every girl can obtain the exact same results without much effort.
Pitiful, yeah. Someday they may or may not know better.00 Reply - +1 y
I feel your question and image is very provocative. You used the term "slutty" so people get your intention. I don't have a problem with people who post decent pictures of bodies they work hard for (through diet, exercise). But I think you know why you'll get hate for "slutty" pics. Nope, sluts are sluts. No respect here
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People are free to dress and post what they want online. The freedom to choose does not mean freedom from consequence, however.
Of course women have the right to wear as they choose and post what they want, but that does not mean they shouldn't face consequences for the decisions they make.
Posting lewd images online will only garnish negative attention. It's the same deal with men when they walk around wearing baggy clothes. Criticism is part of life, however unfair that may seem (life isn't fair).00 Reply - +1 y
It depends. Are they vulgar or nice artistic photos? I sometimes like to post pictures where I am wearing things to highlight my body. However, I don't pose in a way that makes me look trashy and I try to have nice backgrounds an dquality of photo in general.
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You should have more dignity and self-respect than to be exposing yourself on the internet for strangers.
Women who have a lot to show have little else to offer the world which is why they reduce themselves to cheap sexual attention.
If a female is so narcissistic and shallow that the only way she feels validated is by exposing herself on the internet, then she has many issues she needs to get fixed in her head.
Same goes for the skanky females who expose their bodies in public and around children. No one needs to see your labia hanging out of your shorts. No one needs to see your entire ass. ETC.20 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
why do i care? i don't but its sad to see it happen (because i see girls who dress like that as a means to an end, not as wife material which is what i want). I like it, its attractive, but i know what to expect from girls who dress like that.
no substance, their whole life is derived from their outward appearance and have a lacking of real interests / hobbies / goals. again, they're a means to an end and I'll treat it as such. i wouldn't say i respect pushing your boobs in my face every time i open my phone (esp if its just a blatant social media post and not directed solely for me), but i won't complain about it. I just look at you differently than girls who cover up and have some class.
that's not to say for example if my girlfriend were to send me slutty pictures to me - i wouldn't mind at all because its meant for me, not for attention from her peers who "like her for her intellect / brain / inner beauty / etc."00 Reply Because posting slutty pictures means lack of self respect and if you can't respect yourself, how do you expect others to?
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Posting slutty pics is no better than teasing. Like saying here is an ice cream sundae but you can't have a taste. Also posting such pics is like saying you need some validation.
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@Malik00 Exactly
Because girls are posting slutty pictures so that guys will look at them for attention. But the guys that hate don't like girls that need that to be satisfied.
To us guys there is no reason for girls to be doing such things besides attention (which isn't a good reason to us)
Of course there are also plenty of guys that will give infinite praise when something slutty though we look down on those.
If there are any other questions feel free to ask20 Reply- +1 y
Slutty pictures show a lack of self esteem and on some case perverse exhibitionism. But remember that people treat and think of you as you put yourself out there. At like a slut and expect to be thought of as a slut. It apparently does not matter to you but is it going top passed around when you least want it. I'm not convinced it is hate that you sense.
30 Reply Guys want girls to not be slutty, simple as that, in my eyes.
But i can't really understand it if its someone you dont know. I would care if it was my girlfriend or a girl i was interested in, but not some random on the internet. i couldnt care less.20 Reply- +1 y
People like to judge what they don't understand. Hell I've gotten hate just from posting pretty selfies of myself. Some would call me an attention whore. My response to that is... people are jealous because I'm not afraid to be myself despite their hate.
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If showing 90% of their breasts and most of their butts are out and you almost see the vagina is a chance to earn ''respect" so there is serious case where these kinda of people are delusional. I don't judge but at the same you are rubbing your delusional thoughts in my face on social media so you might get few harsh comments for it.
10 Reply Because most girls are just doing it to feed their ego and get attention. We get that you may be more attractive however that doesn't give you justifiable cause to put yourself above others. If you act like a whore you should expect to be treated as one.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. im with you on this one... i love looking at slutty pictures so have nothing but appreciation for the girls that let me look. to me they are to be respected... one because they are giving me pleasure by allowing me to look and two because they are strong, independant women who shun the notion that its not there choice what they do
00 ReplyWhen you post photos depicting a lack of clothes your basically trying to attract the low life males. Low life males are the guys that will hoot at you or try making sexual advances at you only because of your body and pretty face. Genuine males take into consideration who you are as a person and how they can bring you joy into your life while respecting you. So if you ask me why people hate on slutty photos its likey a lack of respect for the person who posted it.
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Because it shows a a complete lack of self respect.
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Look at Instagram and how women act vs men. Do some guys post flex pics? Every once in a while. But women create entire accounts with nothing but slutty pics because they want attention and to feel sexy. They go as far as putting their Instagram links on their dating profiles and telling guys to message and connect with them. Then they turn around and complain about guys cyberstalking and harrassing them.
A guy who posts tease pics (if he’s ripped) will be at best be looked at egotistical/vain and at worst be considered gay. Men aren’t allowed to do that without looking douchey.10 Reply - +1 y
Haters gonna hate i think.
Mmm... Girls are jealous and boys feel rejected by those pretty girls.
(I wish I can post those pictures but I am Ugly :( )31 Reply Lol you do whatever you want, just don't complain at the consequences. Cause being slutty has consequences. So own them.
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Do if you want. Just don't come to whine later if people think of you over your looks, not personality or other kind of things.
70 Reply Because people are gonna hate on you regardless of what you do. It doesn't even have to be a "slutty" pic. You can't please everybody and you're not here to do so anyway. People are gonna love you or hate you. Spend less time trying to figure out why people hate on you and focus on the ones that love you.
10 ReplyAnyone that badd mouths you
Block button will get them silent quick and move on
There is always someone that hates themselfs and they assult others to feel better.50 ReplyWell you should really think of how it could effect your future. Not trying to judge or anything. It's your life and body. As well if you put it out there for everyone to see people will comment. That's kind of just life. You don't have to care if it makes you happy.
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Well, they shouldn't get hate for it, but I hope it's only adults posting such pics,
70 Reply Stuck up people are everywhere. I get hate for posting shirtless pictures all the time, I just ignore it and enjoy my body 😋
You have a nice figure by the way.10 Reply- Show More (188)
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