Many factors. One is that its a taboo to criticize women. Arrogant women dont exist in the popular mind, thats a personality attributed to evil kings and rulers. We only started forming archtypal representations of women in recent times. Our collective consciousness can't percieve such a thing as an arrogant woman because there's no resemblence through our mythologies that teach us what it is. Women are a few things, witches, bitches, whores, emotional, and vain. Thats really small considering actual people are a infinite amount of things but thats all we have from our mythological understandings. So married women can be more arrogant because no one points it out and survives. No one points it out because disney, which is one of our primary children educators hasn't demonstrated an arrogant woman past a few archtypes and those usualky escape our purveiw anyways.
She doesn't need to put on a facade of being agreeable, because she has already secured a partner. It's the same reason many women stop sticking to stick diets after marriage; they lose their appetites when attracting a partner, then let go once they have one - they aren't changing, you're just getting the real, unfettered version of them.
Arrogance comes from thinking you're better than someone else; if you think getting married and having kids is the goal in life.. Well, that could be your answer.
They have what they want in life and dont care as much about other peoples opinions.
I'm not married but I have a boyfriend, and I definitely behave arrogantly around men. It's a way to make yourself less attractive hopefully. People dont want to date bitches. At least that's why I do it. I'm not drop dead gorgeous but I'm attractive enough to get some attention so instead of putting up with it I behave unattractively around men.
That's unessesary and is disrepresenting yourself. Jealousy is a #1 killer of relationships and a reputation thereforeward that also kills ones character reference for others to unjustly judge. He might enjoy your adoration with out bursting behaviours such as yours , although, later it's on your shoulders.
I'm not behaving in a jealous way? I'm pushing away other men that I dont want to talk to because I already have a man. I dont want to adore any men other than my own, and I frankly dont give a fuck how he feels about me not wanting to be hit on! He can find a single lady to do all that with. My reputation with strangers is also something I dont care one bit about. I will behave wonderfully for and around the people I want to be nice to.
I'm generally nice to strangers up until they decide it's okay to flirt. I'm not okay with flirting.
Hhues... I was only being civil. But if you want to be arrogant and an an assshole about it and approach myself or others disrrspectivly , be careful. I dont talk or flirt at all with any women outside my own wife. And I wouldn't hesitate to knock someone's teeth right the f... out. Your choice...
@Djaay I wasn't being disrespectful, just explaining myself. That is how I feel.
Your comment didn't even make sense, it took about 5 read-throughs to even gather some sort of idea of what you were saying. Frankly, I agreed with interstellar. I don't understand how your response contributed to or argued with my opinion. I sounded like you were attacking me for not wanting to talk to other men, so that's the stance I took on it.
My comment makes a lot of sense. And is straight to the point. ( Interstellar ) thinks it's stupid , and you agree with him. There isn't anything more stupid than treating others arrogantly and with jealous envy. I'm married myself and my wife and I never need to show anyone arrogance jealous aptitude to fend others off. But your comment does lend its self of your true character.
Okay cool. Thanks. Maybe try phrasing things differently next time or try not to use so many words that only further complicate the message rather than being direct.
I don't think I act arrogantly, I don't believe I have anything to be arrogant about, sorry if I do. I know quite a few married women like up and down the pay scale, I've never noticed any difference in the way any of them act no matter where they are on the economic ladder. So it appears that your oppinion isn't based on fact. Sexism, maybe! If it weren't you probably wouldn't have to hide behind an anonymous.
women can "be themselves" easier when they aren't looking for a relationship. If you think that seems arrogant, then it only means you are used to women who are looking for a relationship behaving relatively submissively.
We don't know what's happening behind closed doors. Maybe she is going through so much at the same time and it's unfair to judge someone without knowing the story behind why they act the way they do...
This I've noticed is without doubt an American , European , Australian and Canidian cultural issue more than anything else. Dont see it prevelantly anywhere else outside of the four mentioned. How sad.
@Ioso29640 i thought he was the first one to attack. How would you respond If I asked why most men become so condescending after they were married? How would you react? Why is it alright for men to say disparaging things about women but it's not alright to for women to say disparaging things about men? All that being said, you are correct and I apologize.
How is asking a question a form of attack? Maybe it's his personal experience that most married women he meets are arrogant therefore his question does have a purpose. If you have experienced a similar thing then you are well within your right to ask. His question was about a very specific group of people yet yours seems to target a whole gender. Let's educate people instead of shaming them.
oh, no i was talking more, like, during the day. of course she's not going to be horny if you're not doing foreplay. what woman wants sex, with no foreplay. that's just, well, difficult to do. but, i was talking like, when is she NOT IN THE MOOD
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