Look at how slow she's going. Look at where she is in life too. Then sort out your priorities. If your at that point in life your dating her to marry her and she said she wants to take slow cause she just moved.. Just got promoted and takes maybe a few mnths to settle down and get right back to you after that.. I would say she likes you she just needs time. Similarly, if she's an independent lady who loves to work and her career is life. But she makes time for you meaning despite going slow she doesn't reject ur calls, she initates dates. I think you're fine too.
But if she's either one and prolongs not talking to you and not replying you. Declining ur date offers and not initiating anything. Talk to her about it ask her where does she sees it going cause u see it in a different. U have to Gauge for yourself if she's still the one u want to keep
If a girl takes it slow - she is more likely to stay faithful to you long term. A woman who acts without emotion won't take things slow and a woman who doesn't respect you will want to rush everything in the relationship.
“I really like her” “ should I drop her and find another girl”
Yeah man please do!!! You’re the worst kind of mate, and she deserves better than the douche, who “drops” a girl for wanting to pace a relationship so that hearts don’t get broken so easily on either end.
Don’t be a douche man!!!
Yes.
That's the kind of thing a girl says when they want to be emotional leeches.
Best to move on.
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It depends what she means by "taking it slow"
Does she show consistency in terms of communication? Does she still seem interested in you? - that's what you need to ask yourself.
You don't want to end up being strung along because when people use the term 'slow down' some times it means you are no longer a priority and could 'possibly' mean options too. So be careful
I'd say see how it goes with her and take step back.
But if things are starting to dissolve then it's best to move on.
Yep. It means she's been played by men before and she's paranoid you might do the same. Or she falls for guys too quickly. Either way she doesn't deserve your attention. She needs to be single until she can resolve her insecurities and not judge men based on past encounters.
Yep. Cause in most cases, girls who like you can’t move fast enough.
Ehhh at best keep her way, way on the back burner while you look for another girl or drop her. Depends on how receptive she is to you. 2 hrs away. Way to far for bf/gf. At best you got a chick you can bang twice a year.
No necessarily actually can be a good sign
It could mean she has been hurt in the past? For sure
But at the same time could mean she's really into you and by taking things slow she will clearly want to see how compatible you too are, if she keeps the interest, you could have a serious and healthy relationship and honestly I prefer that
That's how it should be
no, she might just need time to get used to things and wants to make sure it’s what each of y’all want.
She just wants to make sure you don't like her only for sex. if you are interested give her time. If you want only sex you will waste your time. find someone who wants sex
Taking things slow can mean a lot of things. It entirely depends on the girl. Some use it as a cop out. Others actually just want to know what they are dealing with before getting involved emotionally.
No. She just wants to take things easy before diving right in. You shouldn't hurry yourself. Awaited things are the most pleasurable.
You are childish for real. So she thinks you a sexual demon and you want to drop her and find another? Is that how much you love her. Bet it wasn't love from the start but big O Lust.
You probably Just wanted to sex her.
It’s actually a pretty good sign if you are truly interested in her
"If a woman wants to get with a man she'll break all the rules to get to him.
If she doesn't, she'll make up a new rule everyday why she can't."
__Browneye
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No. I needed a lot of time but now we are happy together with a healthy love life. So ask yourself what you really want from her. A commited long term relationship or simple sex and nothing more
Bit of both really, on one hand it could mean she's interested it doesn't want to rush it etc. However the flip side to it could be that she is a structured person, or may not be over an ex etc.
It means she takes love serious and don't want to date the wrong one. By dropping her you would have proven to her that you are the wrong one for her.
Dump her she just wants attention she doesn't want you she just want you to feed her ego she will string u along females use men in that way
It can mean anything, the most important thing is what is your gut saying?
Yeah I don't think she's very interested man. Sorry.
No if she wants to take it slow she probably wants a serious relationship
She want to know your only with her just fuck her and leave or you gonna be around for the long haul.
No she just doesn't want to rush it and that can usually be good
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