There is a much deeper meaning behind this.. I don't understand how many people don't understsnd this, but they do. Therefore, it's an excellent question. I will leave a video at the end whoch explains the primal evolutionary drive to save me writing about it. However; we USUALLY are quick to judge this without understanding the reasons and significance.
The self-valued traits below BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE. Sepf Confidence is the SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT thing required for attraction. And guys... comon... we do it just as much! We just don't see it because we are programmed to focus on tits and ass... Ever heard the expression "Clothes make the man"? Yeah.. exactly!
Self-valued Traits (Men and Women may have equality, but they are NOT the same!
Traits:
1. MEN have Strength, (which also shows their sexuality), and is fundamental to building self confidence to a Man. Men dress to show strength. There is a reason that every suit jacket has shoulder pads built in...
2. WOMEN have vanity, (which shows their sexuality), and is fundamental to building self confidence to a Woman. There is a reason for inventions designed to make boobs apear firm and perky and accentuate the rump, making their body look more symmetrical, (and of course hiding those pesky panty lines.. sorry Ladies 😆).
How does this build confidence?
Men: We feel strong, being looked at, smiled at and it drives our ego up. We feel we've been noticed and therefore promotes our ascension in the social hierarchy. Women are attracted to your strength, not your weakness! And you know it!
Women: Women feel BEAUTIFUL. They start turning heads, causing car accidents 😏, being complimented and their friends start upping their game to compete. Women help each other out by preening, (a primal phenomenon rooted in their DNA). Their confidence soars and they ascend in their social hierarchy! Men are attracted to their beauty, (and smell)! They know it! What they don't know is that we are also attracted through scent but to something we can't actually smell.. but our brain does, as shown in the first video.
Smell
Why the social hierarchy... Like.. Wut? Human Instinct. That's why.
Here endeth my rant. 😊🙄😊
Women project feminine eroticism (sexualize is an excessive attribution) for various different reasons. Some do it cynically as a means of manipulation and control of men, who they know are wired to be easily moved by it. This is done quite a lot by middle class white women who are infected with Feminist Derangement Syndrome and who will turn on a dime once some objective, such as marrying rich, has been accomplished. They will drop their knickers to get ahead but they are not feminine women. Note that none of them are smiling. The girl on the right is fetching but she will already have the number of her lawyer in the contacts of her phone. This kind of woman will be blatant, humorless and confrontational about it. And men, brainwashed by the media and porn think it's real. This goes all the way back to Lucy, Charlie Brown and the football.
But then there are women who project feminine eroticism as a cheerful, confident celebration of classic femininity. This is often associated with Mediterranean, Latino and Filipino women. Although the word is rarely used, it it the female version of "macho"... "marimacho". They don't do it to "feel empowered". Classic femininity IS empowerment. They don't do it cynically. They do it just as athletic/sports guys act "macho". Celebrating what The Creator has blessed them with and what they work hard to maintain. And they bring it home to their men and unashamedly pass it on to daughters.
Newsflash. Its why there is an undercurrent of men recruiting life partners in Latin America and the Philippines. We got tired of being conned yet again by Lucy. I did exactly that.
Feminism did that. That has nothing to do with being sexualized, everybody is sexualized. Were sexual beings. But objectification has to do with lust/Eros, not love. And is not nothing to do with sexuality or just how you choose to present yourself. But the intentions behind it. Many women know as it's genetic for us to know to get make attention (meaning to pay attention to/get him to look or desire) is to play up the role of a wan who likes sex or the idea of it if their a virgin in order to attract a mate. Sadly since it's hard to find men who does so differently. Sex sells because this is a man's world. And men desire for sex is often higher than women. So no matter how smart, dumb, attractive, unattractive, morally good or morally bad, or her personality, mentality, financial stability, upbringing, community, religion, faith, or whatever she has. if she is unable to have sex ler alone have children, in any ancient society befote our own has shown us that, she is a useless/ not a woman at all in the minds of men. People have sadly forgotten that were human. With feelings and emotions and thoughts of our own. That behind that body you want so much to get sexual with is a human soul that deserves your respect and love (nonsexual). Every body deserves that much.
Besides it's not empowering at all. It's a trick. And it's shaming the female gender and sex. It's a bottle fed lie. Isn't made a difference between having confidence in loving your body versus parading your body for the whole world to see. Especially one who is not your spouse. And it's something YOU just want to do. Not what the world thinks you should do. Because you might as well marry and have sex with the world.
Well said đ
I voted B.
I wonder why some of the most simplify concepts are extremely hard to understand. If people stop trying to make things deeper than what it is.
No one bothers to look to the past for history. Many people of all types have been told you can't you can't you can't. At the end of the day we are all still child like. When somethings are told we are not allowed to do, it only human nature to do the opposite. Or is that explanation too hard to understand for most?
If you think about it people of all kind that was opress in some way will do what most people claim not allow. Seriously it ever where even on this board with man and Thier whining how women are spawns of evil. (Note how they don't just swear off women though) Also women just like men go through phases of finding them selves. That a person right and journey. Who knows why of anything.
But I do know when I take all of things in account ( history, times ECT) it not hard to understand.
Also many those who voted and probably didn't speak because I don't think most the people on here can get over thier own super complex of thinking they find the secret of some "complex" problem to even bother to to take anything in account. They refuse to believe or look deeper. Be a waste of breath with most.
I vote B. But mostly because I think either gender. Can dress what ever going to get them through this bleak dark thing call life before we die.
Because we know and men have told us countless of times how visual they are. Unfortunately, a lot women think that by showing a lot of skin will attract a man and sorry to say... but it's true. Let's just get real here, and I'm not trying to shame. I want the men to answer my question: When you decide to look at porn/masturbate do you try to find women with the most clothes on or do you try to find women with the least amount of clothing or wearing something sexy/skimpy? Do you really think guys are spanking it to women dressed like this online:
Or do you think they are searching for women like this:
And girls who are at bars/clubs dressed like this tend to get more attention and asked if the
guy can buy them a drink or talk to them:
That's not saying men don't approach fully clothed women or women who dress down and earthy. We know a woman can be very sexy looking with casual clothes on but we also know that showing some skin boost are chances even more.
Some do. But I do agree with you. Women who do sexualize themselves should not complain if they find men who are the same as them who also sexualize women. You attract what you give. You cannot ho around and act trashy and then want a man who is the opposite. Get what you give. Morals and values are gone for a lot of people nowadays and then they wonder why they have the sorta problems they do. You can be empowered just as much by having good morals and values 😊
@TITAN-IDC how does religion have anything to do with this
@TITAN-IDC morality is subjective but religious morality isn't and that's why most people call religious morals backwards.
@abe884 Tell that to the jury the next time you commit a crime!. Lol.. Morals are based on reducing Harm. When reducing harm is the standard all that people have to adhere to, then your appealing to a universal moral standard. You are appealing to something outside of yourself, which contradicts I can do what i want, subjective morality.
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I'll try to explain this as clearly as I can, because I do believe there is a very specific underlying cause to it.
When we think of power, what do we think? Fame, influence, wealth, and even beauty. We think of someone on top of hierarchy and socio-economic class.
How many women in the world have achieved all of those above from doing anything other than leaking sex tapes and getting under the knife? We live in a world where women are convinced that they have to sexualize themselves to gain everything that we associate with power! And you know what? I don't need to gain the power that only comes from sexualizing myself. I respect myself enough to know that this power is not worth my self-respect. And it takes some time, growth and experience to realize that for most women.
On the good side though, the internet has given many women the opportunity to start their own business at home while and earn money sitting in their home while they can also look after their children and not have to work outside if they don't want to do it.
Female entrepreneurs are rising and I certainly believe there are many more options to empower women in the recent time than the obvious route.
This is my speculation, but I think it could be a strange macrocasm of female sexuality. They sexually desire men with greater power than they have, if not the most power available in whatever way power manifests. I don't think that this is necessarily socially constructed, but biological. Companies notice that we respond better to female faces and voices for whatever reason. We seem to be innately preferential to women. So maybe it's less of an arbitrarily engineered social condition, and more of a credit to the biology of how often females seek power through sexuality in nature.
@Lightning8 what
I'm saying while common school of thought may be that women choose to visibly exude sexuality due to societal repression, we could instead be looking at a more nature based behavior than a nurture based one.
Or rather we could be underestimating the role nature plays
@Lightning8 good point. Our nature is to learn from how we are nurtured. đ So yeah
But, I...
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I think women feel empowered doing this because historically society has made women hide their sexuality and those that displayed it too openly were shamed / called slutty.
So I guess it's empowering in that sense - but other than that I don't think there anything really that "empowering" about showing off your sexuality. It's something we all have - you can choose to flaunt it or not. But I do think both women and men that go above and beyond to flaunt their sexuality are a bit shallow. As a women, I'm not into a man who puts up tons of shirtless pics and tries to get girls / get attention just based on his looks. Same goes for women.
You are more than welcome to wear whatever you want... but don't b**ch about it if men are looking at your breasts or cooch versus your face. It's not like you buy that skimpy shirt so we can look at your shoes. That's like telling girls, don't notice that rich guy driving that lambo, instead look at his heart. Most women won't hesitate to approach him.
Wow realest comment ever
Hell yes!
Intellectually, it gives them a competitive edge.
Hot girls make men temporarily less intelligent.
www.sciencedirect.com/.../S0022103109001164
"... menâs (but not womenâs) cognitive performance declined following a mixed-sex encounter. In line with our theoretical reasoning, this effect occurred more strongly to the extent that the opposite-sex other was perceived as more attractive (Study 1), and to the extent that participants reported higher levels of impression management motivation (Study 2)."
Haha, nah I don't think this is why most women dress sexy.
Though maybe it should be, if it works...
Very interesting insights
@gypsydream Thanks!
Found a free "before-editing manuscript" hal.archives-ouvertes.fr/hal-00697237/document
The sample sizes are a bit smaller than I'd like (below 60 people per gender group in each test) and the ethical debates that may come about if such an effect was universal to men (and not women) would get downright wacky.
In the mean time, it's pretty entertaining.
Lol "muh female empowerment"...
Silly little girls who are grasping ahold of any attention they can get, foolishly thinking it makes them wahmen. The only power insecure girls have are over the beta male cucked simps, who are the male equivalent of them.
I'd wager that women feel far less "empowered" now than what they did before women's "liberation". And is all the slutty behaviour is, is a cry out for any last vestiges of true masculinity to put them back in their place, and have them shown some true authority...
Only the crying shame is that sluts are not worthy of feeling truly "empowered"...
For the longest time it was dictated what value a woman had and whether or not she even had the right to feel confident or beautiful. Try and lie to yourself by saying the bulk of value you find in women is in how she looks.
Or bodies have been policed, restricted and contorted to favor the likes of men.
This is the 21st century of of course it sounds dumb but have this much power with out bodies to express and uplift ourselves, define ourselves and claim our bodies as our own is liberating.
I know for a FACT youâll just down arrow this as you aimed to attack women. âShockerâ
But if that bigoted brain of yours catches anything remember that we ainât far from a time when women were considered property.
Let that sink in.
That is entirely incorrect. Women policied women's bodies, not men. That's an absurd notion. How can you claim that men had the control when women where the ones who chose their mates, women where the ones who raised the men, women where the ones who made the rules for dating (seriously, your going to tell me it was men who demanded monogamy for himself and the expectation of giving everything he earned over to her (currently 80% of domestic spending is done by women despite them only generating about 30% of income i. e. she spends her money and also most of his) and being expected to fight to the death for a woman, even if the only thing that happened was an insult? That's insane, men didn't set up those rules women did. Women sexualize themselves because reproduction is her power, she can manipulate a man into doing what she wants with sex, she can also make people do what she wants by playing a victim which is why so many women will either play a victim or hyper sexualize themselves because with those two combinations she can get away with anything and get what ever she wants.
It depends, I have never flashed my body much but I can somehow see a bit of their perspective and reasoning.
I personally, find nude photoshoots (private) very empowering, showing the womans beautiful curves and things, artsy kind of stuff no sexual aspect just more pure nature womans body kind of shoot, me and my boyfriend did It and got it printed. So It's more like a boudair shoot.
On the daily, wearing skimpy clothes I do not understand. I think It's to show how confident some women are, and love their bodies (Yes you do not have to wear skimpy clothes to be confident) but it's one of the many ways I believe.
It's like embracing your natural body, and the fact you're a woman especially when you do the Boudair shoots.
So I'd say It's more embracing rather then sexualising themselves.
I think sexualising would be more, slutting around having loads of sex, and cheating.
I see what you're saying, but when I think female empowerment I think of girls taking martial arts, working out or feeling like a force that can accomplish something. I have seen girls say they feel "empowered and sexy" when salsa dancing. Likely meaning she felt like she could do anything on the dance floor. It's usually more about actually doing something.
Maybe some girls feel like they can do whatever they want when they are sexualized. Which in reality, good looking girls get better treatment. They get away with things and commonly act a certain way because of that. So when a girl feels hot she feels empowered.
Itâs about autonomy. Itâs like saying âThis is my body and my sexuality, and I decide when to show it, who to show it to, and how much to show.â Some women feel empowered when they are open about their sexuality and feel confident expressing it publicly. Some women feel empowered when they are more reserved about their sexuality and only express it their boyfriends or husbands.
NO, it's saying I don't have anything else to offer therefore I am exposing the one thing I am good for.
It isn't empowering to show that you are a glorified series of fuck holes. But in a child like mentality it likely makes sense, just like when children dress in ridiculous clothes and think they good.
Dignity is a much more attractive feature in a female of worth. Females who dress like whores generally act like them as well and males will usually see them that way.
It may be a fun time but it isn't worth keeping.
@LogicBomber Women can wear revealing clothes and still be talented, intelligent, caring people. It doesnât have to be one or the other.
Nah. The more the marrier (More clothes = More brains)
The whole thing is naturally stems from gender approval. Their feminine existence is often seen from a sexual perspective meaning that a woman self-satisfaction is feeding from what men think of her. In fact since the early ages a woman with wide hips and large breasts is considered the perfect wife material and upon this assumption women started to wear dresses that give more emphasis for both these traits.
What you see today is just the same thing but it's culturally shaped through globalisation and media
Women can add a deeper meaning all they want. They're still sexualizing themselves and are making excuses to be naked and push boundaries.
I think it is FAR more empowering for a woman to not have to do that in order to feel good and be empowered. As time goes on, it is becoming more common for a woman to show skin in public. Cropped tops, yoga pants so tight you can see every curve... etc. So, for a woman to go against that and say "hey, I don't need to be like you and show all my bits... I feel good covered."
THAT is empowering.
It's about owning your sexuality and body. Men sexualize us constantly - i've had 50+ men check me out openly when I wear shorts or a skirt since I was 11 years old, yet it's a shocker when we decide to see ourselves as sexual beings and own that part of ourselves. We should be able to wear what we want like men do. Fat, ugly men go topless in the summer like that is something anybody wants to see and attractive men with good bodies go shirtless too but god forbid if a woman does because she has different nips than men do!!! Oh no! I personally don't like showing off skin but I admire women who do. It's empowering both for us especially when women with imperfections show those off comfortably and it normalizes the female body, leading to it hopefully being less sexualized one day.
It's about attention, status... it's "nature" in a way.
Whether we like it or not, we still act a lot based on out natural instincts and desires. It doesn't matter if it's the 21st century, we're still animals looking to reproduce, and how do women show their value and that they'll be a good mate? By displaying their bodies. If a man is wants to reproduce with a woman, he wants the one with the best genes, the most feminine one, and women know this, hence why they sexualize themselves.
Men do the same thing, just differently. Women want a powerful man to reproduce with, and that's why men always try to one up each other, and show who's the most confident, most successful, stronger...
It has nothing to do with empowerment because it's the 21st century and now they're free from the chains of men blah blah bullshit. We're still slaves to our desires and nature.
As a female who is all about empowerment and self love. I honestly think that the girls that are naked all the time on Instagram are just looking for attention and validation. Iâm my opinion they are not really doing it because they feel liberated or empowered by showing there body. But they say it empowers them because they think itâs a valid excuse for their thot-ish behavior. Now Iâm not saying all women who like to show skin are like this, itâs just the ones with no self respect or morals.
Its easy really, women know it all boils down to one important fact : Does the man she has her eyes on finds her hot enough or not.
regardless of her degrees, job, family or intellect, if a woman can't catch a mans attention with her looks she loses and 90% of women know this , some dont and these get seriosuly confused at some point.
womens most important asset is their looks, and most know it, they groom, dress sexy and do their best to attract the attention of men, whether they like it or not if they want what men can offer them , these men must find them worthy enough to give it to them, and looks are the main thing men look for in a woman.
There are several possible reasons. 1) mother's don't teach their daughters that you don't have to dress slutty to get a man's attention. One of the pluses of men being visual is that some admire and respect women dressed modestly. I know, from personal experience. 2) some women want to fit in with what society says." Everyone on Instagram is doing it and I want to feel important and pretty too" anyone who "claims" they dress sexy for themselves is a liar. Unless they have no means of social media to post too and stay inside 24/7.
I don't understand why women who are dating or married want to dress revealing. You have a Significant other, if you're trying to keep his attention... dressing sexy won't do it forever. You're going to get old, whether you want to or not.
@Pejtu thanks đ
womenâs bodies are policed. Freeing the body is like sticking a finger to repression
Itâs not the most political act but I get it. And I think the fact it bothers so many people so much illustrates nicely why women might get satisfaction in figuratively saying fuck off
People feel empowered in their own way. For anyone to judge another based on what they wear/want's to wear is quite shallow, and not really any of your concern.
I personally like to wear more masculine clothes since my job is not suited for more feminine clothing
No, exposing your sexual parts for cheap attention is shallow. Women who show a lot have little else to offer.
And it is a concern because women shouldn't be exposing themselves around children, if men did what women did, there would be female rallies against the sexist pervert male and their need to expose themselves.
Shut the f up. Youâre the one whoâs delusional.
Because "mainstream" history, the human stories that have been carried out traditionally have portrait this idea and notion that out value is attached to how erotic, sexy and "vulnerable" we might be enhancing masculinity.
Imagine how modesty would be the "empowerment" or main trend of clothing if history and society place women value more in character, mindset and ways of contributing to society in ways that go beyond sexuality.
Women feel a sense of empowerment when people marvel at their appearance. I love it when a guy calls me hot. It makes me feel sexy and confident. Same for those women.
Ooorrrr on the other hand, some women do it because they are insecure and theyâve discovered that getting that attention from men is the only thing that makes her feel good about herself so she milks it.
Itâs sad really.
Their beauty IS their power. A woman's desire is to feel desired, but there is also a major social shift towards female independence. They feel like they need to entice men, but should never need them.
For women, the most empowering, the highest status thing they can possibly attain is to not only be sexually appealing to lots of men, but to have the intelligence and business savvy to be financially stable independent of those men.
I don't do that, so I can't speak for those women.
I empower myself as a young girl through other ways like writing. :)
I have never been one to dress sexily. But I have, from time to time, worn flattering clothes to parties in college, and, I'll be honest, it feels AMAZING to have attention like that from guys.
But I didn't need to dress like that to get in the good relationship I am in now, so ultimately, the good feels of guys coming after you over it aren't worth the satisfaction and love of a long-term relationship (that I hope will lead to marriage)!
Because they begin to do it for themselves without seeking the approval of others. Loving yourself and making your own feelings a priority is empowering. I get that others donât like the method in which they manifest... but the whole point is to not give a damn.
No. Itâs about going against their own insecurities and desperation.
I think people choose to sexualize themselves because they have dealt with the pressure of trying to please others (mostly men but not always) and feel valuable.
They learn that they completely neglect to consider their own feelings and their own sense of love and desire. So they turn that negative into a positive by being sexy for themselves. Loving who they are and expressing their sexuality without the concern of other people.
That's... interesting. I don't really understand how I could dress sexually and feel good about it as an act of self-love. I'm also not sure how I could dress sexually and get a compliment (I'd probably be called a pervert).
Maybe it's because I'm male, maybe it's just my experiences.
Oh! Is it perhaps because, regardless of how correct the "others" are, it takes away a sense of agency to follow their opinions over your own?
Sure thing! I appreciate the chance to clarify if needed.
In my experience, if someone tells me to do something I was going to do before they mentioned it, or repeatedly tells me to do something that I regularly like to do anyways, it bugs me because I feel like maybe what I think on the subject doesn't matter. If I "accept" orders because I want to do the thing anyway, it leaves me with a feeling that my opinions never get a chance to shine on their own.
Does choosing to dress sexy at times when others aren't telling you to look sexy feel better than dressing sexy at times when they are telling you to?
probably because how they were raised and being around people who constantly judged womens bodies and sexual objects and made them cover themselves, so they are letting themselves out by breaking free and doing whatever the hell they want. it's the same way if you grow up in a shitty environment when you break free from it you just don't care and want to surround yourself with positive people and to be 100 yourself.
it is power, they've started wars with that stuff, intentional or not. ultimately, it's the ability to cause drug reactions in another being just by being present or speaking (words have power). It may be just for attention as well. they do like to be desired, when they want to be desired.
We are taught that men are sexual beings so of course if we feel sexual and attractive, then we feel empowered and valuable. Honestly, blame society. But there are plenty of women who were raised to not rely on their sexuality. But that's a new concept, itll take a while for it to really spread into our culture.
the naked part is because women for some reason have this crazy idea that the society ( patriarchy) is against women getting naked. so they can't wait to show their naked flat behinds to the whole world. but the main reason is because women are always after others approval. without other people telling them, women can never feel worthy. and the best way to get attention and approval from others, especially men, is by turning themselves into sex objects. if women try to do something impressive and worthwhile , they would have to compete with all the men if they want to be the best. but here is one thing that they get no male competition. they just choose the easy way
It depends from woman to woman.
A burqa may empower one while a bikini empowers another
Staying at home and taking care of kids empowers one while working empowers another
Actively dating empowers one while waiting for the right partner empowers another
Every woman has their own way of empowering herself
In the "West" it comes from the old chivalry crap. Women STILL consider sex a reward and men put up with it. Has anyone here (besides me) gotten sex or a nifty blowjob on a 1st date?
Good point and I do see this and that is what or maybe all they have and it is instinctive to them. So, now that we know let us ignore this artificial sexual manipulation to somehow extract blood out of us and stick it our backs when our dks distract us. Some of these that I have dealt with are about as evil as they come so you must keep your head on straight.
Women do whatever they think society will find acceptable
Right now harlotry is seen as virtuous. So women internalized the commands if the oligarchs who tell them "be a slut, don't repress your sexuality"
Sex is being used as a form of political control
Probably for attention and/or the money since posing for provocative pictures can be quite profitable for women.
But honestly, who cares why they do it. Just shut up and enjoy the view. If they weren't willing to do that then most men wouldn't have the opportunity to see women of that calibre naked.
Feminist logic
> dOnT ObJeCtIfY MeEEEEEeEeEe
> wears skimpy clothing and acts flirty for empowerment
Ok then?
yup!
A woman who have pride and value like myself will not dress or walk around naked or nude. That should simply be for one's husband not for society views or popularity.
tell that to the 16 year olds before they fuck their lives up, clearly their parents aren't doing their job
@No_Archons true no more waiting till marriage just as soon as they know the word sex they go and have it
Same here I don't go looking to attract all men in public
Behold for the truth follows...
It is a mans world and man want sec more than anything. Man will do anything to obtain sex. And women that act like this will have an edge on man. For the warfare version of women is seduction.
I know this sounds radical but itâs what I believe. The roles are changing though with man becoming more feminine.
Because it's essentially a cheat code in life. It's how they get advantages without doing the work. An average young woman is about as prefered in society as any doctor, firefighter, or military personell, you name it. So they use this to their advantage, especially in choosing a mate.
Sex is a woman's natural power. Women can manipulate and control certain men with it. WE men on the other hand can't use sex as a power. Male power comes from moving up the food chain of other males. Men need physical strength, social status and personality or else we are invisible.
Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Might as well dress however your comfortable, people will have an opinion either way.
iâve got it guys. iâve cracked it. itâs because itâs the 21st century and girls are allowed and SHOULD love and respect their bodies. grow up🙄 also, it ties in deeply with femininity and confidence and power and itâs just how us girls role baby. donât like it? move to mars then ig. lmao.
young slut fresh off the conveyor belt. Good luck out there kid, the world is gunna have fun with you
@No_Archons no actually, never did i once mention anything slutty. if you read my words correctly, i said that we should love and respect our bodies. do you know what respect means? i implied that feeling sexy is fine. thereâs absolutely nothing wrong with that. i never said we should all prance around naked now should we?
context is a thing... look up ^ to the title of this question
sexualizing your body is slut behavior. Women make themselves into sex objects, then you defend it by saying they should love their bodies and give bullshit reasons like 'its the current year' ffs you remind me of my prime minister.
@No_Archons look dude, you wonât believe what iâm about to say but any girl on the planet, and even some guys would agree with me. you are one of these guys who think that if a girl shows off her body in any way, she is giving you and other guys permission to do anything sexual. CLEARLY, that is what your statement âsexualizing your body is slut behaviourâ shows everyone. no bullshit. thatâs the type of person you are. think about it. and once again, never did i say we should go showing our bodies to each and every person.
Try again. I don't think that at all, I just won't date her dummy. Love how you immediately jump to calling me a rapist just cause i call slutty girls sluts. U think I want my dick anywhere near that shit? Think again
Fking stupid kid, just spouting the bullshit propaganda they taught u
All I'm saying is.. if it's empowering great.. but don't say shit when fat ass, ugly bubba or johnny stares are your body, and the women suddenly get uncomfortable and say men or pervs and shit.. if you are willing to dress a certain way, you get to deal with what comes. Obviously, I'm not talking about sexual assault or rape, but if ugly men stare at your body, you brought that on yourself
Theyâre not very bright. These are the same ones who complain why they canât find a good man. Because good men donât want sluts like you. They go for good girls who respect their body and dress in a respectable way.
@AJC997 because Iâve dated good men
Because that is the only unique thing about them. Screw personal development, talents, just expose your body until you start spoil like milk extremely quick and then drop off the sex market.
Perhaps 30 to 40 to 50 years later, there will be a old women's movement about how old women feel discriminated for showing their exposed body parts.
Because the one place they have any power is when it comes to sex. It's not a good idea for them though long term, because men obviously don't want to wife up a slut, but those women are young and stupid.
Itâs a form of body acceptance where women are otherwise told to loathe their bodies and processes.
@abe884 Next time your in court, tell that to a judge. 😀 "Morals are based on reducing Harm." When reducing harm is the standard all that people have to adhere to, then we are appealing to a universal moral standard. We are appealing to something outside of ourselfs, which contradicts your, I can do anything i want, subjective morality.
Options are vague just sayin
They do it for the same reason any of us would flaunt what weâve got: positive feedback feels great! In the unique case of women showing off their bodies, they get their share of negative feedback, too, which I bet is really annoying and sometimes escalating to downright scary!
Go ahead and dress like a slut. Then expect society to magically give you attention when you want and ignore you when you donât want it.
Iâve met a few girls over these years who had this âempowermentâ attitude. They all shared deep insecurity issues and felt like they would sacrifice anything for attention.
Simps (guys who always kiss womenâs azz & follow women instead of leading) give power to women who show lots of skin.
These women have nothing to offer besides their looks & they know it. In return they want a manâs soul.
I don't know why they all personally do it, but I think some do like attention. Tbh though it's probably the same reason loads of guys do, they love to walk around half naked too, like no top just shorts or something, there's no difference.
Empowerment is very subjective. Some carry a gun. Some wear a tie. Some put on lipstick. Everybody is a little different.
They just like it, it's basically an equivalent to a power high for them. The "coolness" you see in something masculine, action movies, music, games, sports, whatever. Sexy is a "cool factor" for a lot of women. In the same way men emulate things they find cool and masculine, so to do women emulate sexiness. Even when a female role model is depicted, ever notice how it's so common to for them to mention how "sexy" that 'empowered woman' is?
Itâs men who have sexualized attractive women, not women. As long as men put them on a pedestal and use their looks as the only qualification for choosing a partner.
And then they'll complain about some guy's comments or how something he did "made her uncomfortable" even though they want to walk around like the whore of Babylon.
Because sex always works and literally the only thing you have to âdoâ is bein born in the right sex and with decent looks.
Then, you can cultivate it, sure. But it's not like studying physics. It's everyday shit.
Well it is ofcourse empowering that you are confident of showing yourself off if you want
And there's nothing wrong in it at all
And by the way its not always the case that they do it for feeling empowered or something
Because women like the sexual attention of men. This isn't really rocket science. Men like the attention of women too. It gives you a sort of high. It makes you feel powerful even if only briefly.
Because they want to show the authority over their own sexuality.
It is really just that we think qe look good. If I'm dressed sexy I like what I see in the mirror.
I don't think they are looking for attention, rather they want to believe that 'empowering' is what they are doing
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