i don't know maybe it's just me.
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my girlfriend had a thing going on with this other guy before. She kinda liked him but "supposingly" never saw him as boyfriend material. So then we met. At first I was just a friend. I don't go looking for love, I think it just happens, THATS JUST ME. Any who so than as we began to hang more and more, She began to hang less in less with this guy friend or hers.
As I began getting feelings for her I began to drastically take things slow. Like we had a thing yes, but I wasn't sure if she still had feelings for this other man. And when we hanged she'd sometimes (SOMETIMES) be texting this other guy.
This other guy began disliking me, deleted me off facebook(didn't tell her cause I didn't want her to get furious over something stupid, because I could care less), walks past me regardless of if I say hi. He doesn't even look at his friend (the girl).
So finally the day came after 3 months of true actual courting(wheeling, hanging out out kind of dealiyo). I asked her out. Things went well, and everything we were a loud, funny, debatable, outgoing couple XD. Like to me we were perfect upon every degree and angle.
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Recently she's been depressed and crying (2 months into our relationship and just this week). She misses this "guy friend" which she had a thing. And recently I've not been the best boyfriend. I mean I've given sas for about 2 seconds cause I've been having things going on in my life
-marks
-family
-annoying friends...
-stress of looking for a job as a 17yr old.
(university around the corner and all)
Anywho. it makes me think she's double thinking. I mean do you think she just misses her friend? or it's something more?. Also not to mention she didn't really want to tell me this but I think it was one of those "you know where you say you don't want to tell...but you really want to say something" kinda things.
ANYWHO ask some questions...it's a long one I'm sorry.
it's just do you think I'm losing her/losing intrest?
She sends texts of <3's, IMY, and I<3U's but I mean yea...
am I possibly losing her? or it's just she misses her friend all of a sudden?
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my girlfriend had a thing going on with this other guy before. She kinda liked him but "supposingly" never saw him as boyfriend material. So then we met. At first I was just a friend. I don't go looking for love, I think it just happens, THATS JUST ME. Any who so than as we began to hang more and more, She began to hang less in less with this guy friend or hers.
As I began getting feelings for her I began to drastically take things slow. Like we had a thing yes, but I wasn't sure if she still had feelings for this other man. And when we hanged she'd sometimes (SOMETIMES) be texting this other guy.
This other guy began disliking me, deleted me off facebook(didn't tell her cause I didn't want her to get furious over something stupid, because I could care less), walks past me regardless of if I say hi. He doesn't even look at his friend (the girl).
So finally the day came after 3 months of true actual courting(wheeling, hanging out out kind of dealiyo). I asked her out. Things went well, and everything we were a loud, funny, debatable, outgoing couple XD. Like to me we were perfect upon every degree and angle.
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Recently she's been depressed and crying (2 months into our relationship and just this week). She misses this "guy friend" which she had a thing. And recently I've not been the best boyfriend. I mean I've given sas for about 2 seconds cause I've been having things going on in my life
-marks
-family
-annoying friends...
-stress of looking for a job as a 17yr old.
(university around the corner and all)
Anywho. it makes me think she's double thinking. I mean do you think she just misses her friend? or it's something more?. Also not to mention she didn't really want to tell me this but I think it was one of those "you know where you say you don't want to tell...but you really want to say something" kinda things.
ANYWHO ask some questions...it's a long one I'm sorry.
it's just do you think I'm losing her/losing intrest?
She sends texts of <3's, IMY, and I<3U's but I mean yea...
am I possibly losing her? or it's just she misses her friend all of a sudden?
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