Guy doesn't think I like him. Lost interest?

[Anonymous]

This shy guy didn't think I liked him because I guess he thought I wasn't interested in him (I never rejected him though) now he Doesn't show up where I used to see him, he didn't look at me even he was in the area, and he passed right in front me and kept his head down and didn't say hi.

How can I get his interest back when I finally do see him?

How do I know if I still have a chance?

[Jaleel]

well if he's a shy guy, then he was assuming that you don't like him, probably because he wasn't feeling a connection from you, because to be honest I'm the same way. and I felt like I needed to forget about that person and move on, so I stopped coming around and started doin my own thing.

[Jaleel]

if you have any questions ask away since I'm a professional in this sub ;)

[Anonymous]

Did you ignore him or not try to talk to him/act indifferent toward him? I find that most shy guys are very "fragile" and if you do one small move, not matter how small, you'll end up making him not want to try to go after you.

[Asker]

So if I gave off that vibe (that I'm indifferent to him) what would he think of me? How could I get his interest back? I really like him but I still haven't seen him around.

[Opinion Owner]

Just talk to him. I like a girl atm but she's ignoring me. I'm not sure if she's shy because I've seen her get hit on and I've seen her talk to other guys. Now take that into account with your situation. He probably thinks you're just being nice, and is just backing off so that he won't get hurt. You don't need to hit on him, just say something along the lines of: "Hey what';s up" or ask him about something related to work/school. :) Good Luck I hope you make this lucky bastard happy :).

[Asker]

Aww thank you so much!

I hope he still likes me.

[MrJ3000]

What makes you think he lost interest, he may still be interested in you but just trying to hide it

[Asker]

I haven't seen him in months and even when he did see me (we didn't make eye contact) he didn't say hi. He's not even trying to look at me and find me.

[MrJ3000]

For whatever reason shy people do that I don't know why but we just do

[Asker]

Okay so should I just tell him I'm interested or ask for his number (he never asked for mine) when I see him again?

[MrJ3000]

How well do you know him and how well do you he know you because you didn't give much info on that

[Asker]

We barely know each other.

I talked to him a couple times before.

I see him around the college.

[MrJ3000]

K so maybe next time you see him you can ask if he remembers you, if he says yes then you can say oh because we haven't talked in a while or something like that and he'll say something then you can be like we should hang out together sometime

[MrJ3000]

If he's shy your going to have to talk to him

[Asker]

If I do go up to talk to him do I just tell him I'm into him or what that just be dumb since he already lost interest?

[Anonymous]

Talk to him, tell him how you feel.

[Asker]

Tell him how I feel - that I'm interest in him?

Wouldn't that be too much since I haven't seen him in months and make it seem like I'm desperate? I'm not, guys hit on me all the time but he doesn't know that.

[Anonymous]

Say hi when, you see him.