Have you ever used being pretty as an advantage?

[Anonymous]

I’m a junior in highschool. I’ve realized that being pretty can get you a long way in school especially with passing your classes. I’m aware I’m pretty and sometimes if I don’t want to do work, I missed a class, don’t understand the work etc I’ll be really nice to usually a guy (sometimes a nerdy girl too but most of the time a guy), I’ll be like yeah I don’t understand it or I was busy so I didn’t get to finish it and majority of the time they’ll offer the answers or do the work for me. It works and I use it to get my way like when I want to sit in a certain seat someone’s already sitting at or when I went someone to get something or put something away from me in school etc. all I have to do is be really nice and friendly all of a sudden and they’ll do it bc I’m pretty. Yes I’m aware I’m using people. But does anyone else do this?

[jazminburchell03]

Of course it's a tool that is indescribably powerful it is THE power that is being a woman. Powerful enough to bring a full grown mass muscled man to the strength of a little girl but the problem with it is the ugliness it creates. This question shows me the ugliest woman I've ever met. The way you obviously get off on it is ugly. The way u talked about your fellow woman is ugly. This ugliness is the ugliness that destroys the value of the beauty you're speaking of. If you maintain this ugliness it will literally eat the beauty you speak of. God don't like ugly little girl. God gave us this power on purpose. To use when you have no other options but he gave us so much more so that we may have other options. Learn this now or He will teach you later. Ugliness inside seeps out and time gets us all. You came here looking for validation that what you say about people you think you're better than is normal and that you're not so bad but you won't get it from me and I'm a beautiful fully grown woman AND it turns out I'm not too bad to look at either. I'm disgusted by you and your arrogance but I'm trying to remind myself you are a child. Humble yourself child. You are better than no person and as physically beautiful you may be there will always be someone prettier. Allow yourself to have more value than that. A thing of lust.

[Gods_Gift]

Very very well said! Best comment I've read here so far.

[kim45456]

It is their fault if they are shallow bithes

[jazminburchell03]

Kim don't deflect and don't encourage this child to live a life with this terrible hateful ugly poisonous mindset. It has destroyed much better than her and took the lives of many women through either playing with the devil and playing with the wrong dudes emotions or by driving her female peers to suicide because of the disgusting way she's been allowed to believe she's better than them I saw further down where she responded to someone saying that after she's had her way she will become rude to these same people and her words do have power another power that this child has yet to discover. There are unfortunately men in this world that will not play this game with her and there are plenty of stories of girls just like her being raped tortured murdered and dumped somewhere I'm positive many of them more physically beautiful than she is and there are plenty of stories of young girls hearing the heartbreaking and crushing things she says about them or directly to them and have taken their lives. Besides just that even with that put to the side the ugliness u put in this world sticks to you for all your life and will suck any physical beauty you have right off of your person and when it does all you have left is a terribly fragile ego and a old profile picture you havnt changed in 12 years holding on desperately to the only thing you made valuable about yourself.

[jazminburchell03]

Everyone has problems with being shallow but not everyone is on this app seeking validation for being a terrible person to others. From what I've read here this girl is not even close to as confident in herself as she acts. Her defensiveness is clear and a sure sign of a fragile ego which can NEVER be built solid on such a weak foundation of soley physical beauty. Kim you sound like you could take a page from this sermon yourself. The reason why all your relationships are toxic my dear young girl is because you are toxic. You reap what you sew in life but some people only want to hear what they want to hear. But either way I know I hit something with my words the truth hits hard but it hits so much harder when you have to learn the hard way. Heed my advice now child or don't you will find out one way or another. Be blessed

[Asker]

Lmao sis idc if there’s females “prettier” than me all I know is I’m myself and i wouldn’t want to be anybody else bc ima bomb ass person period and ain’t no other female got it like me 😌 also it’s gross to compare yourself to other females that’s some insecure shit but I’m just saying idc if someone’s “prettier” than me ion compare myself to other females

[kim45456]

" There are unfortunately men in this world that will not play this game with her and there are plenty of stories of girls just like her being raped tortured murdered and dumped somewhere I'm positive many of them more physically beautiful than she is and there are plenty of stories of young girls hearing the heartbreaking and crushing things she says about them or directly to them and have taken their lives." So it is her faul if she gets raped, murdered? And how is that using someone? I mean she said she is being nice. Nobody force you to help someone. If you do help someone because of her/his looks you are not better. What you said about her that she is rude, i agree that is not ok but otherwise it is other peoples fault if they help just because she is pretty

[Asker]

And when I was saying I’ll usually ignore them or be rude after I was saying that if they try getting at me. I’m a nice person in general if you’re nice back. And right she was basically saying it’s my fault if I get raped or murdered she's the same type of person who victim shamed.

[jazminburchell03]

I'm not your sis and regardless you don't sound so bomb to me you sound like a child that needs someone to teach you about the powers you have and their repercussions on yourself and others. I'm not comparing myself to you or anyone else idc how bomb u think you are you are no comparison I'm trying to teach you something because I love my fellow woman rather than allowing u to continue on with your life the ugly way you are will affect my life in no way at all but I took my time to think out my words to you because they mean something child. You do what you will with it. I'm not trying to tear you down im trying to build you into a woman you have no idea you can without any doubt be. Stop the ugliness. Just stop it. You know what I'm saying to you. I only say it because I'm sure you're a pretty girl but you can be so much more than pretty. Please let yourself be that woman.

[jazminburchell03]

No I'm not saying it's her fault I'm saying that it happens. These people are awful terrible people and I hope no harm comes to you or any other person but baby this isn't a perfect world. Stop playing with people. Please stop trying to argue with me about it it's a terrible world out here for a woman. I only say something because I care. Please hear me. I'm not telling you any of this to help me in any way. Please be the best person you can be. Do your own school work. Do your own work work. You can never get anywhere off of the mind of other people so unleash the beast that is inside of your own. She's a beautiful terrifyingly powerful beast in there. Let her flourish. I'll not be responding after this. After this what u take from it is what you want to.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I used to all the time. Back in high school I was really pretty, and really confident, and I have this cool tomboyish laid back personality so guys would fall for me left and right. There were so many guys chasing after me that my friends called them the raptor squad because I had to keep them at bay like Chris Pratt in the Jurassic Park movie. I had guys who would give me money, food, clothes, and more on a regular basis. I had guys who would drive me wherever I needed to guy. I had guys who I used for my own sexual needs so I just let them give me head (I never returned the favor or had sex with any of them). There was even one guy who had two dozen red roses sent to school for me. When I got to college my skin started breaking out and I gained weight so I lost a lot of confidence and I’m not as pretty any more. I also got into a relationship and so I had to cut off all the other guys. But even now when I’m struggling in classes I just cry and my professors will give me extra credit or let me retake tests or just boost my grade. I don’t feel bad about using any of these guys. I never told them that I wanted to date them or sleep with them. I never made any promises. Most of the time I didn’t even ask them for the things they did for me, they just volunteered. They wanted me to use them and so I did.

[DorkVader]

I, merely cute and not pretty, have used a big smile and charisma to get my way. I also realize that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and been told no as well. I let rejection keep me humble because pretty will only get you so far in life. The prettiest woman I've ever seen (irl) has had nothing but bad relationships because people only ever valued her looks, not who she is as a person.

[Gods_Gift]

Well said DorkVader.

[DorkVader]

Thanks! I try 😉

[Asker]

I’ve only ever had toxic relationships (romantic ones not friendships lmao) too

[VIVANT]

Big smile and charisma.. wish the world ran on that more 💜🌟🌟

[DorkVader]

I mean... time to prioritize personality over looks? Eh, do it when you get older. Being young is for having your heart broken.

[DorkVader]

@VIVANT Thanks! I get further with honey than humor, and I'm pretty funny 🤷🏿‍♀️

[DorkVader]

Thanks for MHO

[Anonymous]

No you are not using them. They are shallow bitches who let them used themself by you

[Asker]

I mean technically I am using them by only talking to them or being nice just so they’ll do something for me and I’m not afraid for admit that lmao

[Opinion Owner]

They are not better? They help you because you are pretty. It is their fault

[Asker]

You’re honestly right bc I know for a fact if I weren’t pretty they wouldn’t be so willing to help me

[Rundown]

I wouldn't help her, regardless

[Chevy990]

I don't know if is the same thing since I am a man, but a lot of people think I'm handsome, even though I didn't think that, but I get girls to buy me things, sometimes just by chatting with them I get special treatment that others don't, I can talk to them in a mean way (not really, but telling some thing like you're so dumb or something like that), and I got really out of my hands, I tried to stop it, but it has became natural to me, now I feel bad about it, but I've also learned to roll with it, it's a kind a privilege that shouldn't exist but it does and there nothing you can do about it.

[uglyboi]

Self control...

[Chevy990]

I live among the creatures of the night

[uglyboi]

Live in the dark, die in the light...

[uglyboi]

Die a good man, or live long enough to see yourself become a cruel one.

[Chevy990]

Lol those quotes are not from songs... Batman, SCP?

[uglyboi]

Prophecy...

As my father would say " you aren't the man you show the world, you are the man you show yourself.,"

If you choose to be a mean sucker, life will reward you thusly.

[Chevy990]

Oh shoot, reading what I wrote again I do sound like a dick lol, but no one really thinks that, actually most of people tell me that I'm the nicest guy they've met, and that's what piss me off, can you see that I do these bad things, I am not an angel!!!, anyway I've come here and tried to help someone and I got help instead, thanks man!!, you're very cool guy

[uglyboi]

Thanks mane, means a lot.

[Gedaria]

Girls do, if I was in their shoes I would do the same...

[Asker]

perioddd

[Gedaria]

Specially when they want something done. But I love it...

[Kimmmm1]

I don't know if I'm pretty my confidence is practically non existent but I've definitely used being a girl over guys to get what I want. The most memorable time was when I had my IT teacher take my multiple choice IT exam 😂. I just sat there saying sir I don't understand it pleeeease help and he kept coming over and just pointing at which answer to click, in the end he sat next to me and would say whether the answer was option 1 2 3 or 4. I passed 😊.

[curiousnorway]

I wouldn't say I'm pretty, but I'm slim and in a good shape. I've not used it as an advantage socially, but I've in other ways. I can for example get comfortable on the buses and planes because of I takes little place as a slim, but short person. When it's crowded, I can also easily get from one place to another one without bumping too much into them because of I'm slim. People would be bothered if you're tall and big, but not that much if you're small. I stand out from the average Norwegian because of I've not gained as much weight as many others have.

[ShyKI]

Yes. Not for anything specific like money or for someone to buy me something.. moreover whenever I do dumb/bold shit that pisses my guy or girlfriends off. I just hug all on em and beg for forgiveness like the cute idiotic peasant I can be..

They usually say something like, "you're lucky you're adorable" or "you're like an adorably stupid puppy ughhh" or my favorite "I can't stay mad at a face like that"

I'm just like "thanks bisshh" or "I love youuuus" 🥺😝

[latinabutterfly96]

The short (and sad) answer is Yes. People are superficial and assume things about you if you're pretty. They think you're automatically better somehow. But these days, anyone can be pretty. Put the effort to be that person only if it makes YOU happy. If not, then don't even bother, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

[Capnjaques]

I like to think I'm a good looking guy, but I've got a lot of points in charisma and generally get along with everyone.

You know what works for me? Showing up, working hard, and being open and honest with my intentions. You'd be surprised how far you can get with that.

[BreakingSound]

It’s all fun and games until the wrong guy gets the wrong idea.

I can’t help how people treat me, but I try to avoid taking advantage of people, period.

[Asker]

Basically all guys get the wrong idea and think just bc I let them help me means they can get at me that’s why I’ll just ignore them or be rude after 😭

[BreakingSound]

Yeah, see. That’s a bigger pain in the ass than just handling shit myself. Pass.

[Anonymous]

I do it all the time. I don't have a car now so when I want to go somewhere a little far and don't feel like paying for Uber I will use a guy to take me there and buy me stuff. I don't give anything in return but just by smiling and talking to them, many guys will offer to pay stuff, take me places and do things for me.
My mother always tell me to stop it thinking of the worst case coincidence but I don't want to because I know how much benefit I can get.

[bamesjond0069]

Im a handsome man and i use that all the time since most secretaries and such are women i ask them to waive fees and let me apply to things after the final date and stuff like that and it often works.

That being said id avoid using it as a crutch and instead use it to get further ahead. Ie dont be a shitty person assuming you can still get a man because you're hot. Instead still be a really good person and get a great man instead.

[Tyladron]

I sadly am not very good looking so I couldn't do this myself, and if someone were really good looking and attempted to use me like that I would instead lf just giving them what they need instead try to help them In say learning how to do what they missed, not just give answers, or help them out in a way that isn't just letting them get away with something they shouldn't get away with for free.

[Jooying]

People do tend to treat good looking people nicer. Easier to forgive, more patient to fix problems for them, and yes I do a lot even I don’t think I am really a "pretty" girl.

[VIVANT]

I suspect you are a guy trying to make a point. But I’m not sure.

I think going nice, goes a long way for most people.

[Asker]

Lmaooo what im a girl 🤣

[VIVANT]

I am sorry for suggesting you were a guy. You are not 😊

[Asker]

I’m aware I’m not 💀💀

[VIVANT]

I was meaning I take back what I said

It’s an apology

[uglyboi]

Asker post pics of yourself o. o

[Asker]

Lmaooo I replied to one of the people saying I wasn’t a girl bc I was anon then I showed them my real account then they accused me of being a catfish n then I had to prove to them I wasn’t n then after they were shocked I was only 16 lmao I don’t feel going through w it again if you want my account it’s @thotianaaa

[VIVANT]

I understand that must be super annoying

[VIVANT]

And I don't know why he is saying that right after I confirmed you’re not a guy 😂

[Asker]

Same ahahaha

[uglyboi]

Cuz I want to judge you duh 🙃

[VIVANT]

🤷‍♀️😁😁😊

[SamirahD22]

It's a man

[Asker]

Ur literally so pressed n can’t stop responding sis you look like a man just stop already wit yo bigass nose

[SamirahD22]

It's a man its thotiana

[SamirahD22]

I'll dm u the account

[SpiderManFan2002]

I don't really consider myself pretty. I'm more average, but people have called me pretty before- so I guess, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 🤷🏾

Anyway, I don't use looks to get me anywhere... I don't wanna objectify myself.

[VIVANT]

💜💜🌟

[VIVANT]

And you know I think you are beautiful — it’s the whole package together 🌹

[SpiderManFan2002]

@VIVANT Haha if you say so. :)

[VIVANT]

I do 😌

[zaharaa]

I guess you could say I've used this a couple times 🤪

[MzAsh]

I’ve been a model and pageant queen so I guess you could say I’ve used my looks for monetary gain but I don’t really look at it as a negative thing.

[Prettysammie]

Use whatever advantages you have. Some people are pretty, some smart, some rich and some athletic. We’re all different and should use whatever we can

[Smiley_face101]

I am not proud of if but I flirt with older (40ish) men at work (I am a waitress and need the money)

[Some_Goof]

I've seen if you're nice to people in general and are helpful, people in turn try to help you when you're down and are nice to you too no matter how you look.

[Anonymous]

Oh I’m sure a being an attractive girl/women can go along way. But if at your age that is what your counting on to get you by in life good fucking luck. Get good grades and a good career those are things you can count on. Your looks may not last and smart people don’t fall for that stupid shit

[FranLimonade]

Not by intention. I've asked for help and received it, but don't know if they really wanted to help me or did so because I'm pretty to them.

[LovelyFlower]

I don’t use being pretty as advantage. I’ll ask for answers & that has nothing to do with my face it just means they are willing to give me what I want because, I’m nice person.