Sometimes yes. Like a lot of girls will allow a guy to hit on them and stick around as long as he doesn't overstep her value system right away, and it will be under the guise of "he's just talking to me" or "he just makes me laugh" or whatever the excuse may be. But will be upset if their guy does the same thing on the other end. Like I've had girls be mad that I had female friends in my life whom liked me before I got together with my girlfriend. I said, part of the reason I didn't get with that female friend is because I met my girlfriend. That I loved her and that I would never allow anything to happen. She got jealous about that whole ordeal and in some respects rightfully so.
When we broke up she got with a male friend of hers whom was attracted to her, that she kept around and hung out with while we were together. I was never insecure about that. Buuuuut it was literally the same thing lol. She chose me instead of him. But she kept him around because he wasn't "doing" anything. While being upset that I didn't kick my friend to the curb while she and I were together.
I think a lot of girls keep guys like that around knowingly or unknowingly as just a matter of course. Probably don't even cut ties until they get a ring on it. Just hypocritical, but guys tend to have our own thing too. Like it's more common for a guy to be upset with his girls sexual past, than vice versa.
I'm a woman and find many women to be hypocritical and entitled.
I've been called "traitor" for refusing to coddle a woman's emotions after she was an asshole to my friends, and I've been told I have "internalized misogyny" when I said I haven't felt discriminated against - because I tend to nip those thoughts and actions in the bud and establish clear boundaries at the get go.
Because I am not averse to conflict, unafraid to speak my mind, and believe strongly in egalitarianism, I am often labeled by other women as an "enemy".
And yet they're jealous I get to have amazing sex with my partner, that I get success at work (because I'm actually good at my job and take my licks without giving up), and because I have a handle on my emotions.
I believe many women today are extremely fragile. Those of us who aren't have a much better experience of life, but also cannot share that experience with most other women because they get all hate-y.
The feminists would love you!!! Good to see a woman with her head correctly screwed on , good post , my 13 yr old daughter is developing a similar mindset to yourself , which is all good !!
Hypocrisy is really the problem that every human has when it comes to our Perception of Self & others, applying identical standards for both so we appear Rational, in Control & Fair. The problem for us all, as I see it, is that our self-perception is significantly distorted by our Ego for the purposes of reconciling any behavioural traits that contradict how we perceive ourselves to be. Though we may do one thing and say another, are we even aware of our contradiction, or has our mind rationalised our behaviour to support what our mind sees ourselves as being.
Everybody has hypocrisy in them. The funny thing is there's NO difference between men and women as to their level of honesty in relationships - none, zero. Those who've been hurt by the opposite gender more than once will IMMEDIATELY jump to "all ________" are fucked up! Sorry you had it happen, but it doesn't change a thing. Neither gender holds the upper hand on "who is the bigger user of the other gender". Everyone uses anyone when it's convenient. Let's get over our own bullshit and face that fact.
I think what women attempt to do is turn guys into fathers. Meaning, her biology wants you, subconsciously, to take on certain traits which would be good for raising children.
So when a woman gets with a guy (in this scenario he isnāt a dad yet.) she tries to change him into father material. Cuz ya guys donāt worry and fret out lives away thinking about our future as raising children. But women are constantly thinking about kids and you see how women get. They get baby fever like a mother fucker.
They want to change us and make us into good dads I suppose. I think thatās the evolutionary aspect of it.
But of course we live in a world of cultures and beliefs. And those cultures and beliefs will twist and warp that biological drive into something else. Anything else, depends on the beliefs and the cultures each individual has.
Well, thatās all my own theory. I made this shit up but it makes sense to me.
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Men can be hypocrites too, but it seems to be more prevalent with women. Then when you point out the hypocrisy, they get mad.
I taught my girlfriend a lesson with this one time. I voiced early on in our relationship how I wasnāt comfortable with her having male friends. She said all the typical things āweāre just friends. They know weāre together. Why canāt you trust me?ā Blah blah blah.
Finally I gave up with talking and decided to hang out with my female friend who modeled in college, and is now a doctor. My girlfriend went NUTS. I pointed out the double standard, and she got mad, but realized I was right... and she hasnāt seen those male friends since lmao.
Here's one example, most women believe the lie of a wage Gap, so when I got my female friend a job at the same place I work and she turned out making a dollar more an hour than me my female friends thought it was BS since I have been working there longer and was the one who set her up with a job. They want me to make an uproar about it. But if it happened to someone they didn't know they would be on the woman's side.
Well think about it a girl can cheat on someone same as a boy can cheat on someone. See you make it harder when you start talking about sexualoty because there are so many but sometimes a woman could be a hypocrite and sometimes a man can be a hypocrite. You are just a hypocrite as soon as someone says something about you being a "hypocrite". I am almost certain we all have regretted doing something because none of us are perfect which in turn would make us all hypocrites. Except for me I am perfect. LOL
It's more of a social bias. She thinks the way she thinks. So naturally its difficult to draw a line. But I've seen women do it more in white communities were they have a bit more money than most. Not saying it's all bad. Cause it's not. Some are just clueless about it or they do it to enforce their ideals, not on others but on them selves like a reminder. At least that's how it was described to me by the people I'd ask.
yeah y'all are beyond hypocrites, and entitled beyond belief. I know lots of girls that are self aware of this yet continue to act in this manner. At least you'll publicly admit it XD but can you act with humility in a world that tells you you deserve all these things just for being a woman?
I could only read that he says "sometimes" instead of "somethings" and had my mind wondering if he wants someone that only changes her personality sometimes, like she had multiple personality disorder, as a way to make it exciting and feel like he's with more than one girl, or something like that 🤔
Definitely truth to it. But I will say it depends on the qualities they want changed. Are these changes going to better themselves? there's a difference between telling someone to get a job & telling them to stop hoeing around. there's a difference between wanted better communication & wanting your partner to dress a certain way.
No I think ur Beautiful and I thank God for all of you look when we get together with someone we are always going to come across something in our paths that we butt heads on it's how we work through it that makes us stronger and also more respectful of each other there's always 3 answers. Right wrong or compromise
Yep. Whether it be for their "preferences" and us being shallow for ours to the rampant criticism of men yet the refusal to accept responsibility for what they do wrong, women are hypocrits (they can get away with it better then men can because of our biological predispositions and how we reproduce so that's why (basically men will tolerate crazy hypocritical women far more then a woman would tolerate a crazy hypocritical man).
Depends on the person. I would say that many people are hypocritical. It comes from believing the best in yourself simply as a survival mechanism but being clearly able to see what you don't like in another person. Conversely, when some people constantly think they are awful, they will view others as better and not recognize faults with true consideration.
If a you possess inner strenght, not taking even the slightest bit of shit; if you are sharp, effortlessly exposing the truth of every matter; if you are independent, consistently aware that all happiness is found within; if you are knowledgeable, leaving no angles of attack; and if you are intense, dominating the environment with the pressure of your mere being...
Oh, definitely. It's not necessarily your fault. Everyone spoon fed you this bullshit since you were born, including your own parents, but you're still hypocrites and extremely entitled.
I think both genders are notorious for their own kinds of hypocrisy. Like how a lot of men say they wanna marry modest, loyal and virtuous women yet cheat on them with the same type of women that they call 'slutty'.
Women confuse sometimes self-confidence with being an unfair and arrogant bitch. Especially girls who have to compensate many deficits. Maybe guys with masochistic tendencies find this behavior tempting?
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