But when I made a move, she got weird and ghosted and avoided, and made the situation really uncomfortable.
When girls do that, do they feel self-conscious and scared? Or does it give them a narcissistic feeling of power?
I have no idea why girls do that, but it may be because it’s her way of making you chase her. She seems interested by flirting, it gets your attention, she stops, you wonder what happened and then you chase her, making her feel in power. It isn’t necessary a bad thing because If you do chase her (texting first etc) it’s a sign that you like her back, however if she shows clear sings that she’s not interested then don’t even bother
She gave clear signs of interest AND she ghosted and avoided me. If I persisted, I would've felt like a stalker or creeper. I'm just wondering if that behavior gives women a narcissistic sense of power. She was really introverted and reserved though, but that's still pretty rude behavior.
I don’t think it makes us feel empowered I think girls do that when they’re unsure about how the guy feels, however she might enjoy the games so be careful
I don’t think so. Being hot and cold and making you worry about your chances with her gives some girls a feeling of power, but she has to stay in the picture for that. Cutting all contact seems like she just isn’t interested anymore and wants you to give up on her.
It doesn't quite add up. Losing interest is usually a process that happens over time. She was highly introverted and seemed pretty sensitive, and kept a lot of space between her and other people, but developed a connection with me over time. Pouring one's energy into a romance and the chase, then suddenly fleeing, sounds like there's emotional baggage or issues she hasn't worked out.
The other possibility is that your move was not very good.
I was sort of nervous and it wasn't the smoothest, but it was respectful. I had always treated her respectfully. I didn't make an over-the-top display of passion. Just that I wanted to talk more. It wasn't anything that warranted her avoiding me and never talking to me again.
She ghost me too man. I feel like shit. Almost suicidal.
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