Girls, My story behind why I respected girls more? Do you think this was?

[Anonymous]

Growing up in a family with just brothers who were rough and tough, I never understood a girl's feelings or how different women are compared to guys. I just assumed guys/men who the superior bunch. I admit back in grade I would bother then and poke them or trip them (I know, I know) It wasn't nice. I didn't know the "disadvantage" guys at a young age. When I was 10, I tripped a girl and I stood over her and said BOYS RULE! Well she fell on the floor got mad pushed her leg forward and kicked me right in the balls. I fell down moaning and I thought girls had the same weakness. Eventually I learned the differences as I got older and I understood how to treat girls and women nicely all because of that incident. Do you think that was a good life lesson or do you feel I should have known prior.

[CoffeePossum]

Better late than never, sometimes kids don't learn from their households and they don't know any better

[Asker]

so do you think that was a good lesson as a young boy?

[Anonymous]

we all need to fall one in a while, to keep us grounded

[Asker]

yea but thats a really painful way as a guy to get the message across lol, i mean it doesn't bother me now.

[Opinion Owner]

the fall hurts, that's the point

[RileyP]

No worries. A lot of young guys think that way. It was a great life lesson for you. Now you know that girls have a way of keeping you in check. I've had to teach a few guys the same lesson. It's amazing how quickly a guy's attitude can change when he gets hit in the balls by a girl. Those guys discovered a newfound respect for me and definitely don't view girls as inferior anymore. They have never harassed me again because they're too afraid of getting kicked in the nuts.

[LisaAnn34]

Oh for sure, I think it's always an eye opener for young boys when they learn they have that being weakness between their legs lol.

[arabgoddess]

Something tells me that You're an amazing man 🤤 wish there were more like you walking the earth..

[Asker]

what makes you think im an amazing man? im not going to toot my own horn and say "yeah i am" lol i just wanna ask you why you think that?

[arabgoddess]

Because you learnt from your past experiences on how to be a better person. You could of learnt from being rough in your upbringing to be harsh and aggressive towards your girl.. But you didn't! The fact that you have a soft spot in you.. Plus being macho is a bonus!

[Asker]

A girl kicked me in the soft so for me to have a soft spot... never thought of it that way, OH THE IRONY!

[arabgoddess]

😂 😂 😂 😂 Don't change..
You're a keeper lol

[Asker]

what if i said i cook good food, girls find me funny and unique, i have a sense a fashion, decent looking, in shape and in grad school... yet im still single :-o

[arabgoddess]

Yep! You're a keeper!

[Asker]

Doesn't seem that way im still single.

[arabgoddess]

Well maybe you're just too good to be true. Show a little aggressiveness and they will come rolling in

[Anonymous]

Um, we do have the same “weakness.” I swear, guys are always trying to monopolize the concept of pain.