I think we both get nervous around each other.

[Anonymous]

There's this guy I like and we've started talking a bit whenever we bump into each other around campus but we still haven't exchanged numbers or anything. in fact, I think we're a long way off before that happens. the thing is I get so nervous around him I just freeze up! I can just do stupid small talk with him. I feel the same thing happens to me. the other day we were talking and he kept fidgeting with a piece of paper he had in his hands, I swear he was even shaking ...

i don't know what to do! I feel this is almost giong no where but I'm still so insecure of whether he might like me or not I'm afraid to make a move on him and make a fool of myself.

help?

[Anonymous]

I am in a similar position I like a guy and I get insanely awkward with him and freeze up. He also seems nervous. Finally it dawned on me that I liked him so much that I was trying to figure out how to be around him to make the best impression and I was second guessing everything just assuming I wasn't good enough since he seemed so far out of my league, which caused me to just lock up in his presence. So I decided to be myself and risk possible rejection but I could live with that over never even getting to have one honest to goodness conversation with him. I decided to just go it being natural and the last few conversations we've had went so much better, I talked about things I didn't think I would be able too and he really surprised me too. I learned quite a bit about him, we may still have a lot of getting to know each other to do before we get to phone calls and hanging out alone and maybe will never get there but if I can clearly relay my feelings I won't have regrets even if he does reject me. Good luck to you =)

[Rubzie]

Just be friendly. So take a deep breath, and just smile and be confident . When he see's that your OK with him being around then he will start to feel confident as well. It does seem like he likes you.