Why girls lie about that they don't care about men's looks?

[Anonymous]

Women say they care about personality a lot.

But women call ugly or short men creepy and they don't want attention from them generally.

In order to not get called creepy by women you have to be at least 5'8 feet tall, have good body and also have at least decent looking face like 10/5 or 6. If your height is shorter than 5'8, if your face is lesser than 10/5, if your body doesn't look good enough then most women won't find you attractive and won't care about your personality.

So we know 20% of men are shorter than 5`8, 15% of men are highly obese, 20% of men are probably have too ugly face so then it's mostly about looks.

Women care about looks a lot they also care about personality beside looks but if the guy looks good enough. If it doesn't they don't care about personality.

So 80% of attraction is all about personality so why do women say things like we don't care about looks then? Why not tell the truth?

[NoSweetClue]

Frankly, I don't this is true for most women. I don't think my boyfriend meets your criteria, but I haven't really given his appearance a second thought since I like him for who he is. A guy who cares about me and can make me smile is really what I look for. If you can make me happy, I don't care what you look like.

I think any instant attraction is due to looks, but is temporary appreciation. I tend not to act on it - once in a while I think, "Wow, that guy's hot" and I always just walk past them. Personality attraction is slow and takes time since we have to get to know you, but it's the kind of attraction I act on - so it's the only kind worth mentioning for me.

[LB33777]

Whenever a women expresses standards or qualities she wants in a partner she's often meet with scrutiny form men and women. I've meet women who practically walk on egg shells when they describe their version of a "perfect partner".

More women need to be taught that it's okay to say they like certain attributes in a partner instead of there usual catch phrase "Yeah I'm just interested in a guy who is nice to me." Okay girrrrl and what else? What other standard do you have? OKAY he's nice to you... but how does he treat your family or your friends? What's his education? His Religion? His goals? Etc.

[Asker]

I hate that saying. I just want nice guy. Like 90% of all mem are nice. And then they friendzone every nice guy they encounter. It's just silly.

[TheFlak38]

Women are natural liars. Dont expect truth and honesty from them.