I listened to this YouTube video on men respecting "bitches" and read the book "why men marry bitches" and couldn't help but realize its true. But why men? Explain to the ladies
Often times I see guys with the chicks aka "bitch" that does what she wants, who she wants, and when she wants. They are always the ones frequently sought after.
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Let me rephrase it. So when I read ," why men marry bitches" and watched the YouTube video where a man said "bitches" get respect is not referring to the bitch as a "bad girl". The term "bitch" Is used to describe the assertive no nonsense chick. In society this woman is often referred to as "bitch".
Why do "Bitches" tend to get more respect from men instead of "nice girls"?
Based on your update, they probably get more respect because they know if someone crosses them, they'll f*** them up lol. Because they are assertive and confident in themselves about what they do, who they do it with, and how they do it with their "no games" attitude, it's probably intriguing to know that she "has it allfigured out" and could wreck your life if she wanted to. I guess it's all a "strength" test. For nice girls, they sometimes can be seen as naive and easy to get over, whereas a b**** isn't and is seen as stronger and very sure of themselves. I'm a mix of both I guess lol, so some days when I'm out an I'm humble and nice, I get respect and compliments and everything, but not as much as when I'm in my "mode", which is more sassy, confident, with a "no games" attitude. I also think it's because a "b****" gives off the impression that she doesn't need man, so they'll chase her more, whereas the "nice girl" gives off the impression that she's looking for the right man to come along lol. I don't know lol, guys are weird.
In the sense you seem to be going for (assertive, knows what she wants), assertiveness is often associated with confidence, and that's a desirable trait.
Otherwise, as far as bitches who take advantage or are inconsiderate of their partner's feelings, I guess it's the same as with women who are with men like that; they either think they can change them, have low self esteem and believe that's the best they can do or that they deserve poor treatment (honestly, I used to be guilty of this), or are so blinded by love that they can't see the reality of the situation and are in denial.
I don't know anytime I or any guy I know described a woman as a bitch, it was supposed to immediately imply we would never want to fuck them and that they were rude/nasty.
I've definitely seen bitch woman get guys but a lot of those types of guys in my experience were kinda pushover or had mental problems just as bad as the girl they were dating.
I don't know I think being a bitch is unattractive as all hell. Being confident and independent and whatever, those are attractive traits but being rude and short with people... I mean if that's attractive to you whatever floats your boat bro.
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I must not be a man then, because I hate bitches to hell. I dated one and it ended with her cheating on me, then me beating her and kicking her out of my house. I only dated her because she was the one who chased me, not the other way around. And she genuinely seemed like a nice, caring person when we first met. I'm very attracted and melt over nice, feminine, polite and caring women. it just turns out bitches are good at pretending they're nice on the first dates, and when you realize it, it's already too late. You're already in love
I think some men see some of those type of women as being independent or straightforward which men like. But I feel like the few decent men actually see women who act that way as disgusting and hard to deal with and immediately cut them loose. I wouldn’t want to deal with that in a long term relationship
Because bitches carry a very expensive attitude and they mostly give a damn to anyone. This is the interesting thing that attracts a man. Now, nice girl be it shy, simple and normal doesn't carry such an attitude and very down to earth, guys get attracted but quite less than to the bitches.
Maybe because if you are nice some people will think it's ok to walk all over you then for their gains and stuff. They will take it as weakness etc. Who cares what those types think tho because real friends wouldn't really expect anything from you and won't care about that sort of things. Someone you can feel comfortable around, comfortable being yourself without fear of getting judged. Or saying or doing the wrong thing and have them leave.
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Because most self-proclaimed "nice girls" are no different from most self-proclaimed "nice guys", and most of the chicks who they proclaim to be "bitches" are no different from the dudes who the "nice guys" proclaim to be "chads". So much saltiness...
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The key difference is that the self-proclaimed "nice girls/guys" just wallow in self-pity, bitterness and resentment, waiting for the guy/girl of their dreams to spontaneously fall from the sky into their covetous arms, whilst boiling over with internalized, impotent toxic rage at the "bitches/chads" who actually had the good fortune/initiative to find partners and be in relationships. "Why doesn't anyone respect ME- how come THEY have G/BFs, and I DON'T, even though I'm clearly better and nicer and superior in every way? They don't DESERVE it- I DO! I'm the nicest girl/guy in the world- they should all be falling over themselves for me! But I can't magically charm guys/girls like they seem to- I know! It's because they're BITCHES/CHADS, and they're FAKES! NASTY, EVIL people who only care about sex! Not like ME- I'm the nicest, kindest, most virtuous girl/guy in the world! I know I am! Which must mean that they hate niceness, kindness, virtue, 'cause they all hate ME! And that guys/girls love nasty, bad, evil bitches/chads, because they all love people who're nothing like me!"
"They are always the ones frequently sought after."
This is total bullshit. Low value men with low self respect will tolerate bitches, but they sure as hell don't prefer them. High value men who know their worth will always kick bitches to the curb where they belong.
That's totally false, if you said the amount of shit they say about them you wouldn't think they respect them anymore. More innocent / demure girls are more respected but that doesn't mean they marry them more it depend on the guys personality.
No they're not, lol. They're the ones who get cheated on and taken advantage of.. name one song where a man is singing about a "innocent " girl? most songs are dedicated to the baddie or the chick they can't get or who has broke their heaft
Here's an idea dress or look like a sexy B*tch heels semi skanky clothes etc. but just be yourself. Also there is a incorrect belief among men that the crazier or b*tchy a women is more fun in bed which can sometimes be true , or sometimes not.
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