Guy looks at me A LOT but never talks to me..

[Anonymous]

There's this guy at my school and he always looks at me. Like, I'll be sitting there doing something, and when I look up he's staring at me. When he talks to his friends he glances at me while he's talking (me, his friends, me his friends, etc.). I know he's not talking to me since I can hear what he says. Other times were during practice and performances (both in band). When I was telling the lesser people in my section about a part (he sat right behind them) he would stare at me. When he would play he'd look at me, his music, then the teacher. It's not with a mean face either. It's kind of like a soft sort of look.

I know I don't look at him much since I don't like him and my friends notice this too. His good friend used to stare at me last year but he ended up just wanting to use me for...yeah.

And when I try to talk to him, he cuts the conversation short or just nods and looks down, so I kind of stopped talking to him altogether. Why does he always stare? I don't think he likes me but my friends insist that he does. :T

[haleybugslovesyou]

well he may be in awe of you. I mean if he is shy then he might have a hard time actually talking to the girl he idolizes. it sounds like he likes you. Guys don't waste their time staring at one girl when there are 20 unless they like you. My advice would be if you don't like him just ignore it. If you are interested, I would continue gentle conversations but if he is shy you don't want to dcare him off XD hope this helps! :)

[Asker]

It has, thanks. (:

He's kinda cute so I'll let him continue. xD

[haleybugslovesyou]

hahah good and yeah he sounds sweet - shy is often better than brazed <:

[Segagee]

I'm always in that situation as well sweetie, from all that staring and stuff I would probably say that he does like you but like most guys at school are, he's probs too scared of rejection and all..and maybe you shouldn't ask hima yes or no question? That way it would just be weird for him to just nod or look down? But then again, if you don't like him then just let him stare away :P ha ha :)

[Asker]

That's the thing..I don't really ask him questions. xD;;

I do. I kind of like the attention from him. lol