Need some tips to conceal my cheating habits?

[Anonymous]

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and recently she has started to suspect that I might be cheating on her.
I am. But I like to keep the love and the sex part separate. I love my girlfriend but I like the sex with the other girls.
I need your help on how I can keep cheating without her ever finding out? What should I do , how should I do it and what should I tell her so that she trusts me

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+1 y

All my friends have tried and tried for years to convince me and they have quit. I am not going to be changed because of a few online comments about how I am a scum and I should die

I am an asshole but I love my girlfriend and she loves me as well , but I can't help having sex with other women. It's not like I don't like sex with my girlfriend and it's better than any other woman , but it's just that I want to have sex with new women every week

[MannMitAntworten]

If you have any women friends who have cheated, ask them. Women are amazing at concealing their cheating. So good, that nearly in every event men never know unless they are told by their girlfriend/wife that they are cheating or a friend sees her and rates her out. Men tend to be oblivious to women cheats as they tend to be quite sophisticated in their doing so - burner phones, paying in cash only, parking their cars elsewhere and even forwarding their calls to the burner phone so when called it appears they are where they claim to be in case she is being gos tracked. It is wild the things they do and so much more. Showers, changes of identical clothes... crazy.

If men ever suspect their women of cheating... tear apart their car for evidence and see if they have doubles of certain clothing.

[flowered017]

Interesting. Never thought of the double clothes thing.

[MannMitAntworten]

Like I said... you can learn a lot from women who cheat. Never done it myself.

[Asker]

you are the only one here with some real advice. All the others are just abusing and hating lol

[Anonymous]

Only women are good at hiding affairs because guys are delusional and always give them the benefit of the doubt.
Women are way too nosy and gossipy to hide anything from them.

[mehulsharma9596]

In a my personal opinion the thing u r doing right now is completely unacceptable.
U r in a real relationship with a girl for 4 years and in these 4 years ur bonds have be strongs enough u guys must have feelings for each other.
But just cheating on her cause u dont enjoys ex with her is not at all appreciable it will completly break her heart if she finds about it or if u tell her then also.

U must respect ur partner and never betray her and her feelings for u.

If u really dont like her in sex then best thing would be end ur relationship and confess her.

I would say u not to continue this if u really love her stay with her and if u can't control urself just do a mutual break up.

Because if u continue this it would harm ur emotions for her.

Thnks i hope it helps u

[Asker]

okay cool

[Joe__Exotic]

You have to start being consistently inconsistent. Never come home at the same time, never go to the same bar or restaurant twice. Never underestimate her desire to catch you.

[Asker]

thanks man

[karupin]

Easy, actually. Unless she approves of that habit, break up with her. She doesn't deserve you 😀

[Asker]

no I will not break up with her. I love her

[karupin]

You love her only when it's convenient for you

[Asker]

I love her only. There's no one else.
all the women I sleep with are just bodies , I don't even know that much about them

[Anonymous]

Ok here’s what you do. Next time you cheat, immediately take a shower, then go to the kitchen and grab a knife. Use that to chop off your worthless cock.

[Asker]

really? is that how you cut yours?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh totally. Nice German Shepherd pic by the way. App glitched and showed it lol

[MannMitAntworten]

I happen to be reading the other replies and saw your response... are you sure you didn’t confuse him with me? Further, I always respond with my ID and NEVER as anonymous. You can clearly see me response provided along with my ID which is that of my GSD.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably an app glitch because that’s the exact picture lol sorry!

[MannMitAntworten]

Probably. Especially since the photo was taken by my father of my GSD... unless it was ‘copied’, it is unique to me.

[AlexisSlim]

Do yourselves both a favor and break up with her.

[Asker]

no why would I?

[AlexisSlim]

You're obviously stressing over this situation. And all you're doing is wasting her time, time she could be spending with someone who would be faithful to her and when she finds out it'll break her heart.

[Asker]

That's very easy to say. Look I really love her and I connect with her emotionally , Sex with her is great but that's not enough to satisfy me. I have problems and I know it's fucked up but I really don't want to be tied down like that. I like to have sex with strangers but I love my girlfriend because I have been with her for years and do want something long term with her.

It's complex she wouldn't understand it. She will just be hurt if I told her

[Asker]

ignorance is bliss.
It is for the best she doesn't know anything like this ever happened

[AlexisSlim]

Instead of being selfish, you should get help to fix those problems. Accidents happen and and she'll probably be more angry than hurt if you give her an STD. If you love her let her go

[Shivvy123]

Just remember. Karma's a bitch.

[Asker]

okay cool