So few weeks back, when everything came back to normal, I matched with this girl. She is a bit older than me, in her early 40s but doesn't matter, we all know for what we use tinder.
We matched, and then met at a bar. That night we came over to my place, and and we did it. We both really liked this experience, and we both are not looking for relationship, that's why we continued this. It's almost 3 weeks, we are doing it.
But couple of days back, she invited me to her house. There I found out, she is married. She still lives with her husband, but her husband is usually living outside, that's why she did this.
I literally didn't knew, I helped her cheating her husband. Otherwise I wouldn't have done that. I told her, I can't do it any. ore, cuz she is married. She started crying and said I was using her for sex.
I felt so guilty that I agreed for it and we did it.
Seriously, I don't wanna continue this, I don't want her to cheat her husband. But like last time, if I ask to stop, she will again blame me for using her.
Please tell me what to do now?
We matched, and then met at a bar. That night we came over to my place, and and we did it. We both really liked this experience, and we both are not looking for relationship, that's why we continued this. It's almost 3 weeks, we are doing it.
But couple of days back, she invited me to her house. There I found out, she is married. She still lives with her husband, but her husband is usually living outside, that's why she did this.
I literally didn't knew, I helped her cheating her husband. Otherwise I wouldn't have done that. I told her, I can't do it any. ore, cuz she is married. She started crying and said I was using her for sex.
I felt so guilty that I agreed for it and we did it.
Seriously, I don't wanna continue this, I don't want her to cheat her husband. But like last time, if I ask to stop, she will again blame me for using her.
Please tell me what to do now?
What Girls Said
She’s gaslighting you bro, run. If you are just fucking with no intention to date, you ARE basically just using each other for sex. She is using YOU for sex just as much as “you are”. Only on your part, you feel immoral doing it and she doesn’t. Be the bigger person and leave/stop. If she tries to guilt you for again it you can either stand up for yourself and tell her that you both established this was only for sex and SHE is also using YOU by that logic OR just ignore and leave it bc it’s bullshit anyways. Either way, don’t fall for it. She’s being manipulative and cheating on her husband. That’s disgusting and you don’t want to be associated with that, I promise! Don’t fall for her guilt trip. Run!