Yes two come to mind right away and sure it has happened in the past. Both these girls make plans when I see them don't follow through. Its frustrating and unkind. I'm always thinking why did I do something like that to them or someone they knew. It just doesn't make sense.
I don't have any respect for girls that do this. And really, they are just that... girls. People... all people, need to start treating others the way they want to be treated. When you screw with people with ill intent... you deserve your reward.
Fortunately it hasn't happened to me. The women who have rejected me have been up front.
To be honest, their kindness and compassion in rejecting me was sometimes more hurtful on the grounds it was showing me what wonderful people they were.
It is a punch to the stomach. Being a guy, i feel like finding opportunities with girls is more difficult so when one makes itself known... And turns out to be fake, it's hard to rebound from that...
When I was really young, my mother struck me as the type of woman who did that all the time. She eventually caved in and chose my father who, while I love him and otherwise makes a great father, never dared to stand up to her tantrums while she constantly took advantage of his good will. Sometimes I wonder if the only reason she is even treats me like a human being today is because I learned that bending over backwards for her will only encourage her.
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Cont: as a result, I ended up dating girls like her and fell for their traps as that was before I knew how to look for the red flags.
I want to see their lives destroyed 🤬 I’ve met such a girl before at a nightclub 3 years ago, and even now I haven’t forgiven her for ignoring my texts after our passionate interaction that one night 💔
It is your life that is receiving the destruction by holding on to this bitterness and anger.
This can even cause physical repercussions for you long term.
Let this go and move past it. We all make mistakes. If you can't forgive hers, how will the ones that you have made in your lifetime ever be forgiven by anyone Mr Stephen?
I think a younger me would have fallen for this easily
Now not so much. I see girls do it all the time break up but keep their ex on a string like a yoyo in case they need something,, friends,, with exs is a no for me it is OVER.
I don’t know. It’s happened before, but it’s usually when I’m talking to guys on dating sites, I’ve done this. I’m not proud of it. I’ve never done that in the real world.
pisces instead of communicating clearly will chose cryptic communication instead, pisces doesn't get angry, instead they disconnect and will write someone off depending on how they're treated, pisces while open with their feelings can also be quite inconsistent with them also,
They are trash. I'm not a you or part of a game. Of you're not interested, just say so. It will suck, but I'll be fine. What I do not simply get over is having my time wasted.
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Yes two come to mind right away and sure it has happened in the past. Both these girls make plans when I see them don't follow through. Its frustrating and unkind. I'm always thinking why did I do something like that to them or someone they knew. It just doesn't make sense.
I don't have any respect for girls that do this. And really, they are just that... girls. People... all people, need to start treating others the way they want to be treated. When you screw with people with ill intent... you deserve your reward.
Fortunately it hasn't happened to me. The women who have rejected me have been up front.
To be honest, their kindness and compassion in rejecting me was sometimes more hurtful on the grounds it was showing me what wonderful people they were.
It is a punch to the stomach. Being a guy, i feel like finding opportunities with girls is more difficult so when one makes itself known... And turns out to be fake, it's hard to rebound from that...
I think I've experienced nced that and I dont care for it.
I don't know maybe it was going well and I did something to make them loose interest but it sure feels like inwas being lead on
Don't really care anymore. No point in getting pissed off about something you can't control.
Its like getting angry over a baby pooping itself. The baby doesn't know any better.
... lol
When I was really young, my mother struck me as the type of woman who did that all the time. She eventually caved in and chose my father who, while I love him and otherwise makes a great father, never dared to stand up to her tantrums while she constantly took advantage of his good will. Sometimes I wonder if the only reason she is even treats me like a human being today is because I learned that bending over backwards for her will only encourage her.
Cont: as a result, I ended up dating girls like her and fell for their traps as that was before I knew how to look for the red flags.
I feel like this Laurie. 😥
Oh my! ... that doesn't look so well... I hope you get feeling better Mr C... lol
I am good now. My ex left me like that. But every little bit you talk to me helps. I like having a friend like you. You are cool. 😄💓🌹
You are sweet... thank you :)
Ghost a guy lol? That's so immature. Never do that. That just shows a man you're weak and can't control your emotions.
So true :)
I want to see their lives destroyed 🤬 I’ve met such a girl before at a nightclub 3 years ago, and even now I haven’t forgiven her for ignoring my texts after our passionate interaction that one night 💔
It is your life that is receiving the destruction by holding on to this bitterness and anger.
This can even cause physical repercussions for you long term.
Let this go and move past it. We all make mistakes. If you can't forgive hers, how will the ones that you have made in your lifetime ever be forgiven by anyone Mr Stephen?
I think a younger me would have fallen for this easily
Now not so much. I see girls do it all the time break up but keep their ex on a string like a yoyo in case they need something,, friends,, with exs is a no for me it is OVER.
If I had a nickel for EVERYTIME this happened to me,...
FRANKLY, its immature, rude and shows a COMPLETE LACK of the most basic R-E-S-P-E-C-T!
THIS is reason why 'nice' guys become 'badboys' and pr! cks!
A. They are the worst sort, but guys have to realize its time to move on when they sense they are getting played.
I think most girls do this to some extent. It's part of life.
I don’t know. It’s happened before, but it’s usually when I’m talking to guys on dating sites, I’ve done this. I’m not proud of it. I’ve never done that in the real world.
And this is why i wish telepathy/mind reading was a real power
It is :)
People who lead on for the attention are fucked up and I hope they know what they potentially lost
The same way a woman would feel if a man falsely leads you on. Teasing is mean and frustrating.
That is a truly nasty thing to do, and afterward I am grateful that I dodged a bullet, and that they have become somebody else's problem.
don't date a pisces then
@NatalieKeller95 why, they do that? Are you a Pisces?
Damn! What’s wrong with Pisces?
nah I'm a Sagittarius, brutally honest, and also very fun to be around we lead the charge in life, but also tend to be quite naive to a fault
pisces instead of communicating clearly will chose cryptic communication instead, pisces doesn't get angry, instead they disconnect and will write someone off depending on how they're treated, pisces while open with their feelings can also be quite inconsistent with them also,
@NatalieKeller95 I guess its a good thing I don't believe in astrology.
They are trash.
I'm not a you or part of a game. Of you're not interested, just say so. It will suck, but I'll be fine. What I do not simply get over is having my time wasted.