Dealing with an overly flirty neighbor?

[Anonymous]

I have this new neighbor that I've noticed has taken an interest in my boyfriend. Whenever he goes outside, she always goes outside too and makes sure to draw attention to herself in some way. She will stay bent over, pretending to do yard work while glancing back at him. She will seriously position herself on the ground in doggystyle position, raising her butt up in the air. If he's not looking at her she will make a point to loudly say hi to him. If I come outside she goes back in her house. She doesn't ever say hi or anything to me. Before this started I had said hi to her once when we were both outside taking out the trash. She just stared at the ground the whole time and walked away. Recently she was seemed to be getting more desperate by wearing sports bras and short shorts whenever she's outside. The final straw is when she pulled her slutty behavior with wearing a sports bra and sheer white shorts and purposely flashed her whole backside while bent over, while one of my children was outside with my boyfriend. She went back in her house after that incident because I came outside. I was ready to go over there and tear her a new one because I'm fed up with her slutty behavior and now she took it too far with exposing my child to that crap. She has been hiding in her house since. I don't like drama but I feel like I need to confront her next time I see her because her behavior is unacceptable. What would you do in this situation?

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+1 y

I'm going to guess somewhere around mid to late 30s.

[nolabels]

Call the police. Tell them the story. If there's anything that the police can address with her, they will. Disturbing The Peace, Indecent Exposure, maybe something else.
I had a similar situation that lasted for about three years. In my case, the woman didn't do anything that the police could cite her for. They did tell her that I wanted to be left alone. She thought that was funny and continued bothering me. She finally gave up, but it was annoying.

[Asker]

That's awful. I'm sorry. What finally worked to get her to give up?

[nolabels]

I have no idea. She finally just stopped doing all the weird stuff she was doing. Long love letters once a week, toys on my doorstep about once a month, yes, toys. Standing at my fence smiling at me, talking to me as if I were paying attention to her, which I clearly wasn't.
It started when I was single and moved into my new house. She lived behind me in the farmhouse that was left from the farm that my subdivision was built on. I politely said a neighborly hello to her one day shortly after I moved in when we were each in our own backyards. A few weeks later, the weird stuff started, and continued even after I got a girlfriend and then got married. I told her numerous times myself that I was not available, and had the police talk to her a few times, but it continued for about three years. Then it just stopped.
She was pretty all-around weird from the beginning. I think she may have been socially isolated and didn't really know how to act around people. I actually felt kind of sorry for her. I don't live in that house anymore, so who knows what she's up to now.

[thatsafact]

Sounds like she is interested in ur dude. better make sure he is happy and has no reason to give into temptation.

[Browneye57]

You're silly. Just ignore her.
Don't be surprised when you find out your boyfriend is shtooping her. LOL

[Twenty2]

How old is she?

[Twenty2]

How does your husband react to it?