Is feminine energy passive? ?

[nelly83]

Every time I’ve ever been with a man, he’s always been the leader of our relationship. He’s always the one initiating the first kiss, asking me to be his girlfriend, usually he is also the one who decides where to go for our dates (sometimes it could also be me maybe 30% of the time)

It’s not something that I consciously think about. It just occurs naturally. In relationships , I don’t have the innate capability to lead. But it might be different at work.

[Anonymous]

Yes, feminine energy is passive. Women tend to prefer being submissive and men being dominant in male-female relationships. Not always, because there are exceptions. But in general that is just the dynamic between masculinity and femininity. It's just nature.

It seems there is a trend among women these days to try to redefine femininity and masculinity, but those things cannot be redefined. They are coded in our DNA. Women have always expected men to pursue women, make the first move, initiate kissing, sex, and just be the leaders in general. But that thought is offensive to many women now so they try to deny it or characterize it as something else. But a rose by any other name is still a rose, and the fact is it is just another manifestation of the masculine-feminine dynamic. It is what it is, and will ever be, no matter whether we like it or not.

[TemptedTerry]

I would say you are naturally drawn to more dominant men. And that reflects in your relationship, and your conclusions regarding men and women in relationships.

While most women like their man to be a leader, someone they can not only respect, but makes them feel safe. That does not apply to all women.

And the general submissive nature of women is on a large spectrum. While many will only want the respect/safe aspects, some will want more. And that can turn into like D/a relationships.

I prefer my women to be sexually submissive too. If you get that far in your thinking, it could be a world changing event for you! And as you are curious with the seemingly apparent power imbalance, perhaps you should look into it.

[Petra150]

Find an other kind of guy, you properly seem to be attracted to them cavemen types , the He man type, because you yourself face difficulty making decisions yourself. In my relationship (with my old semi senile wheelchair user of a guy halfway to paradise... just joking ) we take most decisions as a pair

[asshole_]

Kinda. They want men to do everything, if they (women) act "feminine". Sort of "taught" that way, that women are passive and subs

[nelly83]

I was never taught it. It just happened naturally for me

[asshole_]

some women are taught it, some aren't

[mrgspoter]

I hate that is like a gals a robot or something