Do you think most women find most men unattractive and gross?

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Sometimes i wonder how the world end up with 8 billion people. Attracting girls and having sex became impossible. There are billions of single men out there. Most women find most men disgusting and unattractive sexually. I have decent looking 6' tall and fit at least 6 or 7/10 looking friends they even have very hard time to attract girls. Girls don't desire guys anymore. A guy has to be rich, extremely good looking and extremely confident and funny to attract girls in this age. Does that kind of guy even exist? Things girls care about are money, instagram followers and likes and shopping. That's it. No males. Because studies show most men are extremely unattractive to girls.

Barbaric · Accepted Answer

You're hugely exaggerating here. There are plenty of average dudes who have girlfriends, who are married, who get laid. You don't have to be 6'+, rich, or extremely good looking. I'm none of those things and I've done just fine. If what you're saying were true there wouldn't be billions of people here. What I wonder is whether you and other guys who genuinely think these things ever leave your bedrooms or your houses.

The problem today for most guys is stunted social skills and lack of confidence. Those tall good looking guys you know who don't get laid, that's probably the reason. That's because the younger you are, the more likely it is that you've grown up using the internet and socialising on the internet. Less so in "real life". A good looking woman can get away with being a bit socially awkward, guys will still try to pull her anyway. But a woman won't be attracted to a guy who lacks confidence most of the time.

Along with that is the fact that the dating game has changed, and a lot of guys haven't yet adapted to those changes the way most women have. They're stuck in the old order way of thinking. I'd even say that most conventional dating advice, especially advice from women, encourages those guys to follow the old order. They're naive.

I actually think that the online stuff has made a lot of guys kind of autistic. They're not actually autistic but obviously autism is a lack of social skill/empathy/ability to read social situations They become overly obsessed with numbers and statistics - in order to get a girl you've got to be 6 feet, you've got to make this much money, 80%, 20% etc. As if sex, dating and attraction is all about maths.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

YES!  Blame modern-feminism for raising a generation of sh*tty horrendous c*nts for women, and soy boys for enabling their awful behavior. This is what happens when you put pussy on a pedestal. Most women aren't worth the time or energy and us as men spend our entire lives chasing an illusion, thinking the first woman we find who accepts us will be our goddess and make us 'whole and complete.' Not to say guys get off the hook or anything, but modern Millennial women are f*cking AWFUL. No wonder MGTOW is actually a thing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. And the thing is, since women don’t need a partner anymore (as it’s not a social stigma to be single, they make their own money, have their own friends/family/pets, their own house/apartment, can have kids on their own by adopting or using a sperm donor or with a gay man or whatever, a friends with benefits or one night stand whenever she wants) men are not only competing against men, they’re competing against the single life. A lot of women (more women than man) enjoy being single and have no issues with it. So. For her to decide to date a guy or be in a relationship he must be worth it. Being with him and putting down all that effort and gicing up lots of her freedom he needs to provide something that adds to her life, something that’s worth more than being single and not having to deal with some man. That could be love, attraction and passion, it could be money, it could be starus or something else (or usually a combination of different things). Otherwise it’s not worth it and she’s just rather stay single. Some average looking man with some kind of boring personality and does nothing around the house but still expect her to work and pay half the bills, is selfish in bed, don’t want to get married or have kids etc he peovides nothing of value to her life so why would she be with him? Nah. Most women just won’t and so lots of men end up involuntarily single or having difficulties finding a partner (because fewer men than women enjoy being single, they want to date and have a partner and they’re also in general way more desperate for sex than women are).

Yads_Is_Back · Accepted Answer

This is yet ANOTHER male’s attempt to demonstrate women’s desire for men based on looks and money or a few given factors. No wonder you can’t figure it out; you guys keep asking the same thing and assuming your own same answer stubbornly and therefore can’t get the right answer. Yeah, that’s what tends to happen when you keep repeating the same mistake.

Do you think most women find most men unattractive and gross?

We obviously find men attractive; that’s where the 8 billion people comes from. Otherwise everybody would be lesbians, and females can’t reproduce with themselves. Biology cuts that out.

I disagree with your statement that a man has to be those four things to attract women because that kind of depends on each individual woman’s taste, but yes those men do exist. I wouldn’t date a guy who tries to be funny though, so here’s your first exception to that one.
Do I have A LOT of factors that determine a man’s attractiveness to me? Yeah. And you’re gonna say that perfect man can’t exist, right? Well, the existence of my partner is 100% counter evidence against that.

I - and I’ll say most but can’t really speak for them - don’t find most men unattractive, but I don’t find them ridiculously sexy either. Usually I have to get to know them to determine whether they’re attractive because looks don’t mean much in the face of the whole thing, and really neither does money. Finding a guy appealing is a lot more than that. I’m not gonna jump on a guy just because he looks good or has money.

Cherokeehp · Answer

I don’t think most men are ugly, I just think most people are average looking in general. Truly natural beautiful people are rare. Women try harder. Those of us who aren’t born naturally beautiful attempt to compensate with wigs, makeup, body shapers, etc. Some average looking men choose to bulk up or grow a beard, but most of the time they just accept the fact that they’re average looking and continue to be average. There’s nothing wrong with being average looking, but it’s not like eye catching. It doesn’t make me want to fling myself at a guy. Average doesn’t really pique my interest, and on top of that most women are taught to be cautious around men. A significant amount of men are creeps, and so most women aren’t very eager to go approaching strange men. I have approached men I thought were attractive before, but most dudes in my opinion just aren’t worth the risk and the effort.

mistixs · Answer

Most guys are unattractive because unlike women, most men don't put any effort into their physical appearance. I was shocked to learn most men don't even put a comb through their hair.

If women put as little effort into their physical appearance as most men do, you wouldn't find them attractive either

jabberwocky00 · Answer

“most”? Wtf. You made up everything and expect a real answer for your wacky question. Men are handsome, cute , sexy and amazing, STOP HATING.

FackThePackers21 · Answer

Girls don't care about looks in men as much as guys do about girls. It's all about PER-SO-NA-LI-TAY BABY!

MiamiMadness · Answer

Survival of the fittest my friend, it's not supposed to be fair

Liam_Hayden · Answer

So you think your failures are indicative of everyone's reality?

Anonymous · Answer

honestly I do. but when it comes to chicks, there's more hot girls than there are men period to be honest lol

slatyb · Answer

They don’t, just you.

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