Why Do "SOME" Women Seem To Get So Petty And Jealous Of Other Women?

[BigSis]

I've been a victim of this a lot. I think it's a behavior rooted in stupidity, and doubled-down with the desire to keep thinking in a wrong and stupid way. If a woman gets off on something like this and it doesn't harm her perceivably (even though it does eventually limit career potential, etc), she's not going to care enough to fix the behavior.

It starts with the premise that someone's life is similar to their own life. So, if the bully is upper-middle-class, the target's life is as hard as an upper-middle-class person's. If the bully has a supportive family, the victim must as well. Etc.

Then, the woman sees what you have going for you. Your career success, your beauty, your friendships, etc. They feel like in order to be "fair," you need to "share" some of this, as a family would share a meal. Essentially, their brain had an error along the line and learned the wrong lesson about sharing.

For example, you don't share your effort or money with this adult child so that everything is "equal". If they don't work, they don't get paid. If their work isn't helpful, they don't get appreciated. That is real life. If they "can't understand why" other people are doing better, it's because they're stupid.

Finally, they expect an equal share of "the pie" (that you made), if and only if they haven't struggled in some way. Because if they got a divorce, it deducts points from you and what you deserve. Or if they had a bad day, they should be given something of yours to compensate. Etc.

Because they'll never understand what someone else might have to go through and don't actually care. It gives them ADD just thinking about other people, how boring.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I've often wondered this myself.

I think it is because there are a lot of women who tend to have very competitive personalities, and I think this could be in part due to human nature. Humans have always competed to be the most appealing to the opposite sex so that they can attract the best partner, for example. Humans are also greedy by nature, so some do not take it well when someone else has something they don't.

To be honest, a lot of my female friendships have been strained by jealousy, mostly over them thinking I was prettier than them (which is ironic, considering I felt the opposite) or over the fact that they thought I was getting male attention they weren't (news to me, lol).

[Pulseofsulfur]

Probably because they probably have something that some other women don't have that spews hatred and jealousy

[BadBoiJon]

1. lol memes
2. Because the other women are probably prettier or smarter than them lol

[bobbydelight5]

Because of the fear that they have of a guy liking them more

[mrgspoter]

It's breed into life to be wanting and needing always someone with more than you got

[RandomLoser]

What makes you think that woman in the first pic is jealous and not just sexually aroused by the big tits? Studies show virtually all "straight" women are more sexually attracted to other women than they are by men.

[Joe1956]

this picture doesn't seem to me that she is jealous... but rather envious... or desirous... like she might like to see them up close and personal

[Liam_Hayden]

Human nature, amplified by a consumerist society.

[LEADFOOTboi]

cuz womens is PETYYYYYYY

[OddBeMe]

Lack of self confidence.

[Anonymous]

Because th other woman is pretty, taller and naturally smooth legs

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Big Boobs thata it that's the answer

[jasco]

Jealousy can break up a lot of things

[Tjsmoove]

it's female nature and women's inherent insecurity

[Nayyr]

@Joker_ is an expert on women

[DCSTVT]

It’s their personality I guess.

[Jltakk]

They want attention, simple as.

[Tim-loves-it]

No idea, but also dont care.

[robocop666]

fucked in the head. simple

[CubanLove]

Lack of confidence

[El_Dorado]

They need help asap

[Gwenhwyfar]

Insecurity?

[Anonymous]

It's something you have experienced?

[Posterboy56]

Oh sis... it's not "some." It's all.

[WowwGirl]

Insecurities

[jimmy2]

Damn they do

[Dave31989]

Why not