Do white girls prefer black guys or white guys?

[hughmathews]

I've seen a lot of white girls on tiktok and stuff be very open about their preference for black guys. im a white guy, but i honestly support more white girls being with black guys. they look incredible together, the contrast is so beautiful. so hopefully white girls are starting to prefer black guys more now

[virtue2332]

Relationships should have more than how good people look together. It doesn't matter and shouldn't matter what color or contrast they are. That would be incredibly shallow. I'm dark I have a daughter with a white girl but It never crossed my mind that I preferred her because the color of her skin or her think that. It didn't work out so I married a Hispanic girl and have two girls from her. To confuse you even more the Hispanic girl is a lighter complexion than the tan white girl. Either way both relationships didn't work out because guess what? I can be an asshole. That I assure you has nothing to do with my color or mixed heritage. But hey if you want to go around talking white girls into ethnic guys I'm all for it. It's shallow as fuck but to each their own.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Those white girls that are open about it probably has a strong fetish for black guys. I'm so sick of people viewing my race as a fetish.

Any person genuinely looking for love will not make race an issue.

[hughmathews]

i see your point. some are more hardcore than others, but id say in general these girls just have a passing affection for black men the most. just about everything about the human body is fetishized tho, feet, hands, ass, tits, and adding to that, skin color. i dont think its an issue outright if the person doesn't let their fetish get in the way of seeing people as people

[CallmeTheKnight]

It's nothing wrong with having a kink, but when it's your main reason for wanting people, then there's a big problem. Last year there was a woman I was talking to for 8 months and called it off with her, because she came out and told me she's never been with the black guy and wants to know if the myth is true. I know for a fact that a lot of white people who haven't been around black people growing up or frequently will have those weird desires or fetishes because of what they heard or from what they seen in porn possibly.

I prefer to be with my own race, but I'm not against interracial relationships at all. However I do have concerns when a white woman is interested in me. Now she doesn't speak on it that's different that's completely different, but if it keeps being mentioned as a complete fetish then I know that's a problem.

[hughmathews]

i can agree with you there. its definitely bad if the only reason you're seeking a type of person out is because it falls within your fetish. on your point about them having weird desires because of porn and not really being around people of that group, you can't entirely blame them. especially if they live in a rather prejudiced area, theyre not going to have the best perception of others like black people. its a part of why interracial friendship and love needs to be encouraged, otherwise those kinds of myths and stereotypes will persist. thank you for your reply!

[CallmeTheKnight]

You can give them the benefit of the doubt but still whether they grew up in a majority or all white or prejudice area growing up, they should still know how to approach someone not based on a stereotype or what they grew up seeing. I grew up in a majority black neighborhood and community overall, her at the same time I just don't go up to white people or white women at that and say some derogatory or disregarding words based on how I sing white women carry themselves on TV movies or the stereotypes that are spoken of and joked about amongst black people or even in porn. At the end of the day we're responsible for what we say to people

[Mnh11]

I like white guys better, i dated black guys during uni but that's my general preference w/ thick black hair, average body (not muscular), average height (not shorter than me or much taller), black eyes, thin lips, no facial hair and not a lot of body hair either.

[hughmathews]

i see. interesting preferences, especially thin lips. feel like most girls like thicker lips. were the other white girls in your uni all dating black men or was there variety there?

[Mia-Wallace]

[hughmathews]

haha always feels good to make someone laugh! i wish youd elaborate more what you think tho!

[livfox]

Some white girls do, most probably prefer white guys though.

[hughmathews]

for now, probably. but it feels like the desire to be with black men for white women has gone up really fast in the last couple decades. makes me wonder if eventually a good portion of them will only want black guys, maybe even the majority

[scott04sa22]

@livfox not true more while girl are more into black guys now because I had lots of white girls who told me they only sleep or dates black guys

[allaboutyou2]

Skin color or ethnic background shouldn't make a difference, why when everyone is talking about ending racism do they still keep focusing on race. Let's judge everyone as an individual and by their character and personality and make race irrelevant.

[hughmathews]

i agree, but i think a part of ending racism is encouraging interracial couples. racism has lost a lot of power, but its still present, so celebrating those who date outside their race should be something done more often

[allaboutyou2]

The main cause of racism is focusing primarily on ones race or skin color, by still focusing on race and skin color promotes racism not ends it. The only way to end racism is to make the color of a persons skin irrelevant to our opinions about them. A persons worth is not determined by their skin color, lets encourage all loving relationships. Focus not on our differences but on our similarities.

[hughmathews]

i guess i see your point, but i still enjoy seeing a black man and white woman together. or an Asian man and a black man, etc. thank you for your opinion tho, always nice to hear different sides of things!

[allaboutyou2]

When I see a couple, a man and a woman, two men or two women, it doesn't matter the dynamics, all I see is a couple and I am happy that they have found love.

[hellacray]

I honestly don't care lol.

A lot of white girls have white girl problems, plus most are overweight. So... Yeah if black men want to deal with that I say go ahead.

[hughmathews]

lol hey, a lotta thicker girls are hotter than you realize. but the skinny white girls are going after em too. like i said, i really dont mind. i honestly think black men and white women are a pretty sexy match in my opinion, and im a white guy lol

[hellacray]

Ugh... No fat white women are not hot. Well fat anything is not hot.

And they have white girl problems so yeah let them deal with it.

[hughmathews]

matter of preference, but you're missing out lol. what do you mean by white girl problems?

[hellacray]

Trust me I'm not missing out. Guys just have low standards.

Being a Karen, being an activist, blaming things on mental illness rather than being responsible, etc...

[loves2learn]

I don’t prefer one over the other. Personality and attraction are what matter.

[Anonymous]

I had lots of white girls who told me they only sleep or date black guys but I had a very nice chubby black girl who want her ass fuck by a handsome man 😎

[Jack9949]

@notarobberyet This man has a cuckold fetish. I openly saw him state in a reply to another user that he caught his girlfriend in bed with a black man.

[NotARobberYet]

To be fair, I'm sure that @hughmathews is a perv Indian guy, that type who asks for pics of "bobs n vagene." These guys watch too much porn and it fucks their minds up.

[Anonymous]

White girls like the looks of the white guy but love the cock of the black dude, generally speaking. You can dance around it all you want and deny it but at the end of the day, this is what it comes down to

[In_Trance]

How exactly do you support it? What is it that you do?

[hughmathews]

nothing really, beyond just being supportive of it. even "non"-racists in families can have problems with members of family dating outside of their race, so id like that to eventually dissipate. im just throwing my word out there that i think its a good thing!

[Vivaldi]

Isn't it forbidden to use words like white or black?

I asked a question if I was white or not. It was removed.

[emilyturnage]

I used to like black guys more but now I don’t even care to be honest

[hughmathews]

gotchu. have you dated black guys?

[emilyturnage]

I haven’t. I’ve only dated one guy and he was white

[hughmathews]

gotcha. i hear once you go black you never go back, so definitely give em a shot and see how you feel about em

[JesseJayNeak]

I think they still like white guys better. Interracial couples happen often but still they like white boys better

[Chthou95]

I really don't give a shit. People just need to make sure they're dating someone for the right reasons

[NotARobberYet]

Ugh, another autistic, obese guy witth a racist fetish and no life. Fetishizing black bodies is not okay, Mr. Racist.

[hughmathews]

autistic, slightly yeah, not that thats a bad thing. skinny as hell actually, and a very fulfilling life to be honest. i play basketball, i have friends i hang out with about every weekend, etc. i dont know why you have to be an asshole. im not fetishizing anything, and im the complete opposite of a racist.

[NotARobberYet]

You're definitely a racist. Fetishizing black bodies is a form of racism.

[hughmathews]

now you're just being repetitive, ok. think of me how ever you want i guess

[NotARobberYet]

You're not only a creepy racist who see black bodies as cheap entertainment, you also got a terrible taste in women... C'mon, white women? They're bland as fuck, nigga.

[hughmathews]

lmao man i like black, latina, white, indian, any type of woman, i dont have a preference, my only point is that i think black men and white women should be with each other more, had nothing to do with my preference with women lol

[NotARobberYet]

" i think black men and white women should be with each other more"

Just because it gets your little, autistic peepee a bit harder?

People don't owe you anything. White women can date whomever they want, they don't need to date black boys just to appease racist losers like you.

[hughmathews]

i never said i was owed anything? a desire and feeling owed are very different things. white people and black people can date whoever they want, thats fine by me

[NotARobberYet]

"white people and black people can date whoever they want, thats fine by me"

No, Mr. Autism, you definitely have an issue with white women who aren't dating blackbois. Why? Do you think you can dictate whom they must date or not?

[hughmathews]

for someone who claims i have no life, you seem to really enjoy bringing others down for no reason. touch grass man

[NotARobberYet]

I'm asking you a legitimate question: Do you think you can dictate whom white women must date or not?

[hughmathews]

no, and i never stated i did? this seemed pretty obvious

[NotARobberYet]

Then why do you have a problem with white women who aren't dating black boys? You are supposed to respect their decision, right?

[hughmathews]

i dont? dude, i prefer water, but does that mean i hate tea? i prefer to see white women with black men, but i dont hate and i equally encourage couples of other races

[NotARobberYet]

"i prefer to see white women with black men"

It's not your business to prefer anything, you don't own their lives, you're not supposed to dictate whom white women should or not date.

Mind your fucking business, you racist, misogynistic incel.

[hughmathews]

touch some grass man. its gonna be ok

[NotARobberYet]

You cannot even insult like an adult... Jesus Christ, I wonder what kind of losers your parents are. They didn't teach you how to respect women and different races.

[NotARobberYet]

"Keep calm and date black guys"

Or what? Will you call the manager on white women who don't date black boys, Mr. Male Karen? 😆

[hughmathews]

i know it may not seem like it man, but i really hope you're living a fulfilling life

[NotARobberYet]

"Modt white women are not dating black boys, boo hooooo, it hurts my feefees and I'm going to throw a tantrum!!!"

What a happy life you have...

[hughmathews]

i really am failing to understand how youve come up with this caricature of my view. i really dont know why you're acting this aggressive

[NotARobberYet]

" i really dont know why you're acting this aggressive"

That's how people should treat autistic pervs, creeps and racist control freaks like you. You don't get to dictate whom women must or must not date.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I am white guy and I think they suit better with blacks because blacks are stronger by genes and they should breed white women well

[NotARobberYet]

Okay incel.

[elvitto]

Bullshit man. I am black. But i dont like your speech.
Most white women prefer white guys.
I prefer black girls but many white women are definitelly attractive.
You seem very insecure. And ood.

[Chthou95]

You've been watching too many pornos man

[elvitto]

Most probably.

[Avicenna]

Well, what do you see in daily life?

[hughmathews]

i live in a diverse area, so i dont take that into account as much because thats only a tiny slice of the world. but sites like tiktok are full of white women who really crave black men, its insane. like i said, im ok with it, i want more black men and white women to be together, there's something about a big black guy with a small white girl thats just, i dont know, sexy?

[Avicenna]

Well, who do you date?

[hughmathews]

I've only been with one girl, she was white. i actually caught her in my bed with a black guy, so maybe thats where i get my appreciation for black guys and white girls being together from lol

[Avicenna]

People on social media aren't necessarily representative of what goes on in the real world and most of them are seeking attention.

It sounds like your fascination with this might be hampering your ability to have a normal relationship with a woman.

[hughmathews]

those points could be true. i still have a lot of confidence in myself, but after i caught them, it gave me a different perspective on my strengths and weaknesses as a boyfriend. i think itd actually be a lot of fun to talk about the idea of seeing the next woman im serious with have a little fun with a black guy on the side. regardless, maybe the social media thing is overstated, but i think the white girls being into black men is becoming more prevalent than ever now

[Iron_Man]

White guys

[hughmathews]

maybe, I've just seen a lot of stuff lately that shows otherwise. again i dont mind, i like seeing black guys and white girls together. on a superficial level, theyre kinda the hottest kind of couple in my opinion

[Iron_Man]

what race are you?

[hughmathews]

white actually lol

[Iron_Man]

wow I don't understand that

[Iron_Man]

You must have a fetish

[hughmathews]

it might have to do with the fact that i caught my white ex girlfriend with a black guy in my own bed lol

[Iron_Man]

I'm sorry to hear that

[hughmathews]

thank you, its alright. it hurt a lot at first, but im happy it happened now. gave me a new outlook on life, and my capabilities as a boyfriend. the next woman i date, i might talk about having a black guy to see on the side if she wants lmao

[Iron_Man]

That's a bad way to look at things, that's not a good fetish my friend don't let that corrupt you. She has issues and was not the girl for you. Next time choose more wisely

[hughmathews]

i mean, i think its already corrupted me if that means anything. it stung like hell at first to catch them together, but now i just can't stop thinking about it, and i want to see something like that again. im happy with this, man, thank you for looking out tho!

[Iron_Man]

You probably need to get some type of counseling for this this is just going to end up bad in the future

[Anonymous]

Bitter black guy detected.

[hughmathews]

im actually a white guy lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Nah you're too easy.

[hughmathews]

what do you mean?

[Dnice1]

Any guy, I don't have a preference.

[ManHater]

The poster is some screwed up guy.