I wish women wouldn't hide what they want. For crying out loud, tell us what you want. If it's close to normal and legal we have no problem doing it. This goes for dinner, where you want to go after, what you want to do on a given day or night and the bedroom. Just tell us what the hell you want and we will do it. Adding the mind reading component is just torture to us. We are trying to make you happy most of the time and if we don't have the info, we cannot do it. So we end up disappointing you. Just tells us what you want. Flowers? check. You want chicken for dinner? check. You want to see 'that' movie? check. You want us to do more with our fingers and tongues? check. Tell us what you want and we will do it.
It should be the simplest thing in the world, but it's ironically one of the most contentious.
I wish they wouldn't hide what they truly mean with their words. That is one of if not the most frustrating thing about women.
They are never direct with their words or feelings and it is up to the man to have to "know". I hate that. I really fucking hate that. I don't understand why it is so hard to be upfront with women and you have to navigate multiple indirect answers until you finally figure out what they are saying, then the trick being you can't solve or give and answer to what they are saying because it is mostly then just wanting to be heard.
That or they TOO direct and bitchy with their communication (pointing out that obvious about something) They really struggled to balance in comparison to men.
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Their wishes and desires. The should just say what they want. Men understand directness.
For instance there are the cliches about a man sensing a problem and asking his partner what's wrong, and she says "Nothing." Or says that he is going golfing or something and she answers "Fine." In both cases, it's clear by her attitude and body language that that there IS something wrong.
A woman might want help in the kitchen and start banging things around in frustration instead of simply asking her clueless partner for help.
Women also tend to be indirect. If you're driving along, she might ask "Are you hungry?" An unperceptive man who isn't familiar with womanspeak might say "No", instead of realizing that she really meant that she's hungry and would like to stop for something to eat.
I think a lot of woman have useful advice or intelligent views but do not share them because they do not care enough to be honest or because they are afraid of offending people so I think honesty helps.
I had one friend who had really good taste in clothes and was good at getting guys to like her but she would not give me dating advice because she did not think I deserved it - I had a cousin who was very good at writing resumes but would not help me with mine because she did not love me enough to help - I had another cousin who was good at cooking but would not help me learn how to cook because she thought I was unworthy of her kindness - And I had a friend who was good in school but would not join me for group study sessions where we help each other because she viewed me as her competition in school.
Some of them are, I went to a competitive school and come from a high pressure family where almost everyone obsesses over status. I’m the black sheep in my family for being mellow than everybody else.
I can't speak for all women, we'll actually in this instance I probably can because I have never known a woman yet who does NOT do this.
You're having a conversation, and when you think it's over you're walking away. WHY do they wait for you to get just out of range to make out what they are saying, so you have to walk back and ask what it was they said.. Only for them to say, 'Oh it doesn't matter now?'
Then comes the killer blow. Can you do this or that whilst you're here?
So what do I wish women wouldn't hide? Nothing exactly, I just wish they wouldn't do THAT ^^^ Bless 'em.
Uhm. I can't talk about all women, but I can talk about the women in my life - my wife, cooperative girl, my mother and my sisters, etc.
Regarding them, I wish that in some cases they wouldn't hide the truth from me. I understand they do it mostly for my benefit more than their gain, but in the end I always find out and that hurts a lot more.
I do my best to be honest and trustworthy and I'd like to get the same in return.
Wait- you're married now?
@Jamie05rhs yes, for over a month now! We did a little civil ceremony with little publicity, so now we can focus entirely on serving the community united - she in her role as a nurse, me in my political role as candidate and then mayor!
I wish women would just cut the BS. I can’t stand girls talking to 50 dudes and when a guy likes her and wants to ask her out she’s completely hesitant or seems disinterested but doesn’t say anything. What I’m saying is, girls, be straight up. It saves us guys times if you want to reject us so we can move on.
Honestly, just intentions, desires, likes, dislikes... Just communicate clearly. I should never get to a point in life when it's better for me to assume that the person I'm talking to is lying to me, but that's where I'm at and I've been there for a long time.
¹Our intelligence for fear of being questioned on it or dismissed summarily.
²Our fear or discomfort when being harrassed. I get why it happens, but I wish it were easier to call out and not need to hide for fear of retaliation.
³Our real thoughts about people, especially other women. Again, I understand why this happens, but omg I hate passive aggressive cattiness.
Their honest opinion, so many times they'll try and sweeten things up instead of just saying things the way they see it, or go gossip later on about it.
I'd rather have em say they just dislike me and stay respectfull then sweettalking a smile and later gag trough the memory of our convo. <-bit extremeem, but i believe it's a good example?
(Might also, just be highschool experience still clouding my opinion too tough).
I wish the communication was more open and talkative, I've talked to a girl age 24 and she would leave me on with emails and text messages but also she lived on the West Coast of the US and I'm on the East Coast of the US so distance is an issue and there are times she would text message me and just say "Hey" and that is it like why on emails she would ask me questions that I never said to her I do believe she was talking to other guys or may be involved with her family who knows If someone talks on email lets just get the story straight gee
I mean, you said don't talk about sex, but let's be real here, a lot of women are shamed for showing their pervert desires, so we're taught early that "women don't like sex", and that's not true, that might be harmful to women's sexuality in my opinion, so they should not hide this side of them :)
They should not hide behind the bushes expecting for a man to ask them out, they should take more initiative :P
Were taught that because thats the womans Nuclear arsenal for her defense, offense, espionage. If we "knew" they wanted it as much or more, it would take away much of the power that resides in connection. Its a misconception to think they hide, their always playing offense but from the shadows and still disguising the little they out in the light. Woman want to be noticed, they want attention. By making the guy be the one to ask initiate, it proves to them how much he's interested in her, feeds into out primal instincts of a hunt. Dont be fooled, woman are very well aware of the power they have and best ways of use it (majority of the time)
Next time a woman says, "Is that all you ever think about it sex, is it that important." Dont respond, wait a few days and come home late, stop by a store and spray some ladies perfume on yourself. I have no doubt she will notice it, whether she brings it up tho... If not then casually talk about your day and leading up to your being home late, inform her its because you had sex with someone before you came home..
After she stops long enough for you to speak, look her dead in the face and say but baby, Im here with you, I give you support, my energy, time thats what you want right? You said sex wasn't important to you, then why are you so upset? Weve built a solid relationship, sex isn't needed for that remember. Are you going to get mad every-time I take time for whats important to me?
she's in checkmate, in no defense could she prove you were wrong. At that point she has a few options, sex more frequently, allow it outside, or leave.
@AmandaYVR haha, you know whats funny, women have been the ones that have caused me to see them the way I do, not a Man. Now, if you think that my view is so fucked up, then maybe try and offer some intelligent thoughts from the opposite side to prove my reasoning wrong. Basically, down to its core definition, most women would fit into the that category you tell me I should hire. If and when they use sex as means of rewards then that is prostitution is it not? I've endured the rash attempts that meant to destroy the image and memories of my father. Then watched her try to sweeten up her honey pot (really though, it remained the salty bitterness its always been) to him when she when she wanted them. Years after being divorced she continued to do this, while married to another unaware victim. After experiencing the thing, but now in the role as the father, I have seen and fet the effects of what trauma that my child has been subjected too, his mom trying to erase the past and prevent new memories from forming. She in all aspects like s TV sitcom, removed me and Hired a new actor, doing everything in her power that no one question or remember the one she replaced. One roof to another. Thats when I dubbed her a "Roof Ratchet". Oh yeah now that is they are no longer together, she trying to sweeten that salty bitterness that is really was.
Face it women use sex as means to get what they are after even if their not employed as prostitutes. That is where the belief that consummating is rewarding the Man with sex, because sex before marriage is a sin... Load em up, lock em in, keep control...
@kmg9150 I'm not going to put the energy into this. It would be an endless debate I'm sure. You don't want anything but to vent and be bitter.
You want to know where I stand on things, then read. I'm all over here. Tons of mytakes. I'm probably not as pollyanna as you think. I'm pissed off about a lot of things too.
But I'm not doing this with you.
And P. S. Sounds like you're basing your entire view of women from one, or at best a handful of individuals. Which is what many people do. And it's ruining society.
@kmg9150 I think you're being unfair to the good women dude, I know them, and you probably know too, just choose to ignore.
But if you went through something shitty, I'm sorry, it must be awful, I suffered because of women also, it's not cool. But I would choose to not become bitter and to not close my heart, but that's me :)
@SupremeWarlord Im not being unfair at all. I see it with women and men I have known for years, seeing how they behave in response to "partner" relationships. Its noticeable, when the right scenario takes place, to people I've never met before. A good women is one that is less likely to carry out in action to the thoughts she is experience. Not saying that there are women who won't take action, but I highly disbelieve that their are an abundance of women who don't entertain the vision of what doing "better" would entail and the variants depending on the individual. Men are guilty of it too, I just feel that theirs is less due to how it can improve their perceived social status. I see men being more driven to achieve the "benefits" that are implied when a committed relationship is confirmed, like sex, help or their full effort to much of the things that have been aggressively proposed to template role, responsibility and expectations surrounding those Intimate, romantic, love, partner relationships.
Lets face it, since children the image of a mysteriously captivating heroine that excites with an adventurous life style and honorably defends from harm dates back to the earliest of fairy tales in books , children's media from Disney, etc. It also is a highly contributing factor to all expectations to a "perfect" wedding and it being "her" day... So in retrospect a woman's loyalty has much to do with the available options that would improve where she is currently and risk probability associated with longevity. Where as guy just dont want her to stop scrubbing floors and dishes and using sex a reward/punishment (half is figurative, the other literal).
Im not bitter, I don't go around despising woman nor do I have a predetermination that reflects what I've expressed. I simply choose to be more aware of my surroundings and from experience take caution when red flags are revealed.
You would or did choose? Mines not closed. Just protected, Im TF 4 💩 🕣s in life.
@AmandaYVR
The very action you claim to my participation in ruining society, You practiced initially and now. You make haste to claim my state of mind and conduct with women. Straight out the gate Direct assumption and insult.
Wow, couldnt even give me a handful of engagements before you chosen to be closed minded.
First, my direct experiences and indirect witnessing of my claims does not leave me with any resentment nor has it resulted in disrespectful conduct towards them whats so ever. I still even treat the ones that my experiences were shared in part with as much as try to any person. I dont dwell on the past, which is far off implication simply because I shared my experiences. Did I make insult, just for the sake of. Did I disgracefully direct shame to any woman here and pronounce they change their ways claiming their just like the Handful of cases I was blessed to have experienced? I didn't think so.
Fact is that I do still have respect for and towards women. I still forgive people for there behavior, but doesn't mean I would allow them the opportunity to discharge their negative waste and in my path.
Your disengagement in attempt of energy preservation is interesting. Aren't debates to provide insight on ones reasoning behind there thoughts. Why would endless be bad, my purpose is not to try and convince you to act in how I do. Its to be open minded to why someone does.
Amusing energy was wasted to judge my and insult my character rather than discrediting my response, with the hierarchy belief it was my responsibility to go all over and see where you stand, but unwillingly to learn more on my stand. You 👀 me inferior? support 👉🏼 with evidence, otherwise dismissed.
Must not hold value to your views when energy shifted for to prove you behaving the very way your condemning me for. Your first response is often the offensive/defense when unwilling too admit that there is truth to what I said.
That they stop hiding the fact if they like you or not , stop playing games and just be straightforward , we aren’t mind readers
Cheating
If she doesn't like something say it on my face and I will try to change it, but don't insult and spread it out in front of others.
Anything she feels wrong about me, then she can tell me about her feelings rather than going out and telling tale to others
I hate when women try and cover their belly in the bedroom and try to wear a tank top but just pull their breasts out or insist on cutting off the lights. Especially when they are hiding stretch marks. I think that's one thing they should not be ashamed of is bringing life onto this planet.
Direct communication about their intentions and feelings. That's all I could think about. I understand a lot of them are unsure or don't wanna make the first move, but hazy communication doesn't help. :)
Sometimes I wish that women would stop hiding their fears when it comes to relationships. I know it is scary and I used to be the worst offender but it is very unproductive and confusing.
Best piece of advise i can suggest to an woman is being as straight forward as possible thought it's hard for them , i know... But all relationship female psychologist suggest that... Like TEAL SWAN
I wish women wouldn't hide their natural beauty, We shouldn't be ashamed of what we look like or cover it up with filters or fake materials. But i understand why women and some men do it.
I have a simple answer for you.. I wish women wouldn't hide their flaws.
Who they really are. It's not much more complicated than that. I wish they were free, I wish they felt free, to be themselves
I hide nothing, love me or leave me alone ✌️
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Their truthful honest complete opinion on a person. Sometimes i just sense they are holding back things
Sorry i meant me not a person. Sometimes i think they’re holding back on me
When I screw up, go ahead and tell me—once. Masturbation is merely practice for the big game. Encourage it.
With an understanding of a woman's body and all that women go through. I wish women wouldn't hide thier body. I know women get self conscious about stretch marks and cellulite.. but the female form I think should be one of the wonders of the world.
Their face behind makeup.
I dunno. You seem to have answered your own question. It appears hair is the answer. Those pics are very nice.
I whish, in general, that crypto sexuality was almost not a thing in humans, and that's something overwhelmingly practiced by women.
Specially to themselves.
Crypto sexuality, it's in the name.
It's hidden/obfuscated sexual strategy. Like cuckoldry in a shit ton of bird species. (I don't mean cuckoos, at the point the female lays an egg on another's nest, it's not sex anymore.)
Can also be called "sexual obscurity", and encompass a lot of behaviors and phenotypes. (like estrus obfuscation, which humans display)
But I'm talking about behavioral aspects here, and not even all otherwise I'd be bother by the most classical lie "I'm fine". Which technically could be otherwise frequently classified as crypto-gamia.
You're conflating some contemporary meaning (2017) with the true origins, which only apply to
1. The animal kingdom, (biology) "hidden" sexual reproduction in a normally asexual organism, and
2. 'Coffee rust'
Even in this definition, which I presume you mean,
Cryptosexual is a sexuality in which one is puzzled by their orientation and as such, it cannot be discerned, described, or defined using our current English vocabulary or words. There is no pattern to how, when, or to whom one feels or doesn't feel attraction. Any time one attempts to think of a way to describe their orientation, they feel “lost”. Cryptosexual falls under the category of pomosexual, which is defined by the idea that one's orientation does not fit into any labels that currently exist.
https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Cryptosexual
Being puzzled is not obfuscation. They're very different.
Their sexual desire and their expectations with me.
Their true intentions.
What kinds of intentions do you think they hide?
The first thing that comes to mind when I think of males, is do they want a relationship or just quick sex and nothing more. That's probably the most common female question in regards to intentions.
So what is the female equivalent that males wonder about? Or do you just mean all intentions, in general?
I wish that I wouldn't have to hide my feelings, because whenever my feelings came out it was just a bad result.
You shouldn't have to feel that its necessary. Not sure on specifics or exactly what a bad result is to you, but can't go on hiding them forever. Like water in a cracked bowl. I can relate, if its occurring with one person, it affects everyone which you have a link too. Ultimately its holding back who you are, wasting energy on concerns can be dissolved. Best wishes!
Oh - this one is easy: What they truly want.
Likes. So many don't make the first move. It'd be easier if the guy knew
I wish they would stop hiding the fact that they only want douchey alpha Chads that treat them like human garbage
That they had cosmetic surgery
Their THOUGHTS!
@AmandaYVR I guess mostly their thoughts about me. I never know where I stand.
At least at work you get performance reviews. But with a woman you get nothing.
Their faces behind a mask?
Why they are disinterested
Their boundaries
What do you mean?
Ohh. Gotcha.
I never worry about a girl's boundaries, because I'm so conservative that I wouldn't come close to them anyway lol.
Their femininity.
The tv remote
Their Shyness.
Feelings
Their natural ugly
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