Is enjoying attention and validation such a bad thing? (Page 2)

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I saw this comment on one of my questions, and I had two questions really. "Its so pathetic when married women or women in relationships come here with these obvious attention-seeking posts. Like its lame enough when single girls do it but wtf... " Firstly, why is it that some guys are so upset by the fact that some women like attention? (It's almost like some of them take it as a personal insult, I don't get it) Secondly, even if a person is attention seeking or looking for some sort of validation, why not just move along if it's not something you like? ( Seriously there is a whole category here for that specifically lol)

Chthou95 · Answer

You can look for attention. But just be honest about it. Don't bullshit & say something that's disingenuous when the clear intention is to get attention

Explorer91 · Answer

Men like attention and validation too. They just often can’t obtain it as well. it is said out of jealousy.

Anonymous · Answer

The issue is “bait and switch”. Women use sexuality to get your attention but never follow through. This is known as being a “PT”. And that doesn’t stand for “physical therapist”

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Yes, and the more successful someone is at garnering it the more they depend on it, the worse off they’re going to be when that attention inevitably wanes.

exitseven · Answer

I agree with you. I get turned off my women that seek attention all the time but I wouldn't call them out on it. It doesn't matter if they are single or not either.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Well, you know what they say about people who feel the need to criticize others...

StraightAsArrow · Answer

@Subarugirl @karaspara  Scrolling your profile Sub. Bingo! This post if about attention and validation. That's why you post pics and that ok with me. Nothing wrong with it.

jerdanro · Answer

No. Not as long as no one is hurt in the prsuit of it. For example, hurting your partner or leading someone on.

Paul09 · Answer

Um yes? No body likes or respects selfish people.. You'd think that's basic knowledge. Those people only care about themselves and nothing else. Who wants that?

raw_is_war99 · Answer

Yes, because it makes someone narcissistic and manipulative.

Juxtapose · Answer

Nobody likes somebody who's loyalty is flimsy and fickle.

Raj4655 · Answer

Yes it's okay but Don't rely on it and become insecure...

007kingifrit · Answer

yes it can be. healthy adults don't seek the validation of others it means they are fragile and in need of reassurance constantly which makes them easy to manipulate and unhappy.

Lynx122 · Answer

They're mad because women can get attention a lot easier than guys.

TheFlak38 · Answer

I cannot even imagine how miserable it must be for a woman to seek her attention drugs like a true junkie on a daily basis.

Blistersonmybrain · Answer

Inherently, no. In the context that most guys are scolded for bragging, seeking attention and validation through speaking of actual accomplishments of theirs, yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Eh, if lyou need male attention and validation to get through your day that's on you, but its no different than the mindset of thots posting pics of themselves in bikini on their social media

Hanrej · Answer

I suppose it depends on the lengths one is willing to go to recieve it.

StrikeJam · Answer

Those people just jelous )) every one wants attention and etc. because we are all social beings)

Anonymous · Answer

Would you be happy with your guy talking and flirting with other women online?

Youdumbeotch · Answer

Not if you’re superficial and narcissistic. Nothing wrong with those traits, most of us are just too ugly or average to be such a way and get away with it

nickaboy · Answer

Yes , I am that kind of guy Girls use for attention. Got me suïcidal. Cause not being wanted and then also being drained from your positive energy you Just stop wanting to exist.

Asianguy123 · Answer

I think that’s kind of childish. And getting an attention really works for hungry boys. If you want attention from nice rich guy you can’t fool around. You have to be loyal and discreet

Dvchill · Answer

Answer to first question is some people are just jelly they are a bowl of crap. And luv and let live should b the basic tenet of civil society

AydenHazor · Answer

There's nothing wrong with enjoying attention and validation. You're a beautiful woman and it's ok to enjoy the attention you receive for it

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

Vanity is horrible (so, the narcissism depicted in the photo - autosexuality) Validation is not the same thing. Are you vein or insecure?

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Because of the fact that attention can spoil a person, it can be clear why some people think that

Barbra98 · Answer

I don’t think it’s bad thing your still working on yourself you don’t get complacent. Plus flirting is fun. Though I’m single atm. Plus flirting keeps your skills sharp for your partner.

Anonymous · Answer

I am married. I still love getting attention from guys other than my husband. It's not a matter of validation, it's a matter of having fun and fulfilling sexual desires. I love giving blowjobs too. Does that make me evil?

genericname85 · Answer

no. the question is just: what do you do, to get it? cause that can certainly be quite bad.

Wise4myage · Answer

I don't have a problem with that, but it can be overdone.

zagor · Answer

Enjoying it is one thing, needing/craving it another.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I mean fishing for compliments and seeking attention is annoying

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No its not a bad thing it's how far some people are willing to go to get it is what's bad!

Hanmakev · Answer

It’s makes you a hoe by definition a hoe is a person who just wants attention

NYlatefun · Answer

People are jealous because you’re hot, ignore them.

postaldudePL123 · Answer

Nah! but it reveals your insecurities and narcissism. And I avoid people who're narcissist.

Hathor · Answer

Guys are just jealous lol

Anonymous · Answer

Men with experiences know attention is like oxygen to them also it worth cash

Sarahr123 · Answer

It shows the woman is insecure and has issues

Anonymous · Answer

it will go to your head just like it did with me  the person has to get over themselves

es20490446e · Answer

It depends on why do you want that attention.

Sugar_7 · Answer

Yes, it is bad when it turns to obsession

sarasubmis · Answer

Nothing wrong with it

Shy_Steve · Answer

Just like anything, Too much of it is bad for you.

he-takes-a-part · Answer

You are most affected amongst all.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

No. NEEDING it is.

Vivaldi · Answer

Your feet look like male feet.

MrCapricorn1995 · Answer

Lol I just ignore girls like that

Babygirl_S · Answer

It is narcissistic.

Rawkman · Answer

No, It's perfectly fine.

vanhan · Answer

Aren't you one of them, ma"am?

krin_m · Answer

Not at all!

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Sin of pride

JohnGarcia · Answer

For me, it’s not.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

I enjoy such posts

TwinFace · Answer

Hay im single

Hulk30 · Answer

i agree

Diya010 · Answer

It's not bad

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