Is it normal to be rejected by at least 100 girls?

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ZackBan · Accepted Answer

It depends in how many you were acceoted by.
If you have game you should be able to pull at least 1 out of 7 girls so for each 6 rejection at least one shouldn't be.
If you got 100 rejections and zero success then, it's not that it's abnormal, but means you need to work on yourself. See what's missing and fix it, maybe the look, maybe the way you speak or what you say, maybe the place where you are meeting these women.
But above all remember that the most successful player in the world gets blown out time and time again, it's just how it is so don't be discouraged and keep improving your game.

SunnyFlorida · Accepted Answer

Was this online dating? If so, then it's fine. There are a lot of fake profiles and women get overly picking online because there appears to be an endless supply of men online. Ration of men to women online also favors women.

If this was in person... it depends. Were you asking women who were available? You need to qualify them before asking them out. Work on your technique. Talk to a woman for at least two minutes before asking for her phone number. Get to know here. Let her get comfortable with you, then say casually, "would you like to keep in touch?"

pleasestopthis · Accepted Answer

It seems you're doing something wrong, if 100 women are the 100% of women you've asked out. If you are being rejected always and keep using the same technique then you can't expect a different outcome

Mollynotgemma · Accepted Answer

If you think about it… it’s been more than 100! Every girl who has walked past you and not even said hello is essentially not seeing you and therefore unknowingly to both you and her rejecting you.

Nospecialname · Answer

y'all complaining about being rejected a 100 times? And think it's bad? Really? I'm 37. fukin years old, and have gotten rejected by every woman in life... that far exceeds 100. I've tried online , off line, ones I thought were friends, etc... I couldn't even pick up a prostitute, been rejected by them 2... no one has the tine for that"" friends first bullshit, so friends first and say a few years go by and she found sunone else un that time, more time. wasted... at 37. I'm still lukin for my. first time... some times. you'll always be rejected and never get any where with women... women are just absolutely horrible and evil people. Their main objective in life is to waste your years as much as possible, get as much outa someone as they can, etc. There just despicable humans that have no worth in this world really.

Adam1978 · Answer

Yes because I bet you ask complete strangers since you get the number so high and if a girl see you ask out another girl just before her you will be rejected. So you have a bad tactics. You don't ask them out straight away. You start talking and give them time, when the chat is over and you should part ways you can ask them out. If you still feel like she is good enough.

rjroy3 · Answer

I actually know a guy who was rejected by 100 girls in one 3 month timeframe lmao. He talked to something like 350+ girls or something insane and counted the attempts. Just an absurd amount of rejections.

I'm not even hating on him. Respect the effort. He's trying to get better with girls. But the number of rejections was just staggering. Like that has to effect you emotionally at a certain point.

I'm not sure that's normal, but it's certainly not common 😂

DWornock · Answer

That wouldn't be unusual, if, like many guys, you are asking girls out of your league. For example if every Friday and Saturday night you go to club where people dance and each night you ask girls to dance and are turned down by one or more of the girls in 52 weeks that is more than 100 and that doesn't include girls you may have met and asked during the week.

Black-a-knese · Answer

Yes, woman hold themselves to higher standards that most can't meet. So the only go after toxic guys. But eventually you'll get the last laugh when the woman you chased is pregnant now looking for any decent guy

InferiorElegy · Answer

This used to be up until about 6 years ago, before that I was getting rejected like that every year since I was 12-13 years old and some years that number was a lot higher than 100, especially if you include online dating. How did I stop it from happening? I gave up trying to date and now I don't get rejected as much and when I do it's because the female misreads things.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How many girls didn't reject you?

If you are 100 rejections, and no acceptances, that is very bad.
If you are 100 rejections and 100 acceptances, so what?
If you are 100 rejections and 200 acceptances, you should be giving lessons.

Peuples_Francs · Answer

That means what, you ask about two girls to be your girlfriend each week for a year? You should learn a little about them before shooting your shot and moving onto the next.

JackSmy · Answer

100, in a year? Yeah, that's kind of a lot!! I was thinking 20 a year, but at 100, you kind of have to stop and ask: "Is it ME, or the ones I am choosing, and they are soooooooo far out of my league?"

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. If anything, that's a low number for any man shorter than six feet or earning less than six figures. I've been rejected by 14,000 women... This month.

LavenderLuna · Answer

Obviously there’s something wrong with your tactics, my friend. Why would you ask out 100 girls in a year? That’s like one girl every 3-4 days.

Anonymous · Answer

depends on your approach.. like if you just ask girls out directly (online or in person) without establishing any sort of relation before.. then I think it is pretty normal.

RawIronhide · Answer

Probably, I'm not at 100 I don't think but it's very common as a guy, try not to take it personally, they don't even really know you.

hellacray · Answer

You kept count?  I mean by now you should be pretty much fearless when approaching any girl.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Over what period?  over a year, about right yeah.

Blackcupcake · Answer

Is it normal to pursue at least 100 girls in one year?

Pj1981 · Answer

Depends on how you are acting with these girls prior to being rejected and unfortunately you have to ask yourself the question "am I trying women out of my league"

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Well, depending on how many you have approached it can be quite normal.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Yeah, I know a guy who got rejected by 300 before his 22nd Birthday.

ChocoBat · Answer

I bet you ask them "do you wanna be my girlfriend" haaah

ToastyOats · Answer

Try thousands in your lifetime. Which really makes ya think. 🤔 With women Its not about value or anything concrete, its about perceived compatibility.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Well, it depends on several factors: Is it happening online or in person? What are you saying to them as you approach them? Are you using the same tired chat up lines? Simples...

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

I don't know if it'd be normal to like at least 100 girls in a year.

McKellar · Answer

Oh hell! Because of that,... I quit talking to women a long time ago. Getting the same rejected results continuously just gives you emotional baggage & it just gets tiresome.

humanearth · Answer

That is normal, now when you get to 1000 then its you

zagor · Answer

Do you start with a little casual conversation, or do you just walk up and ask them to go out with you?

Medhat-M · Answer

How do you even approach 100 girls? That's freaking a lot

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Hahaha look at all the women absolutely gobsmacked. This is the reality for the average dude and you'll probably still have 0 empathy

Anonymous · Answer

it's actually not normal to ask out 100 girls. you sound extremely desperate...

Wise4myage · Answer

Id say that's not normal, but it could be your approach that needs work.

Mangospacho · Answer

If you get rejected by 100 girls per year, you would make an excellent salesman.

SamFromFL · Answer

Yes, if you actually try and not sit there you will run into some rejection.

prakhindev92 · Answer

No , that is a something serious you need to look up on

Chthou95 · Answer

At this point it takes a lot of courage to continue. Ill give you that much

Anonymous · Answer

It depends. Did you ask out 100 girls or 200 girls in that time?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I am not normal. But I have probably been rejected by 20,000 women, at least.

Avicenna · Answer

Yes, if you keep making the same mistakes

exitseven · Answer

It is normal for me and probably others.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Upgrade yourself dude.

genericname85 · Answer

yeah dude. we're all in the same boat.

karaspara · Answer

Depends on many factors

moviedude714 · Answer

Very completely normal

Twalli · Answer

Depends on how many girls you ask out

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Nowadays yes!

TonyV · Answer

Yes.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

As a guy? Probably.

Diya010 · Answer

Not normal

Iron_Man · Answer

No it’s not

In_Trance · Answer

Lol... oh boy

Sketti2021 · Answer

Idunno

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Switch up your game

Joker_ · Answer

Yeah if you're you

Fuentes · Answer

Depends

Seppel · Answer

Yes that's normal

joker143 · Answer

Not normal

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