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How is it “liberating” for women to be sexually promiscuous, engage in hookups, one night stands, etc. Do you think my viewpoint is correct? (Page 2)
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Liberating? Sure. Sluts & whores like the skank at the medical clinic last week who had pretty much very disease you can think of (from AIDS to syphilis). If you think that's liberation I've a spot on the sun I can sell you. Prime real estate, you can walk barefoot.
Most of the women you describe are NOT after liberation they're sheep. They follow stupid trends because they're desperate to belong. They sleep around because they're desperate for attention. They post half to naked images because they're desperate. Desperate, desperate, desperate. They're "slaves" to their weak self image, low self-esteem & little to no self-respect.
Liberation is a STRONG woman who doesn't give a fuck about such things. She doesn't need anyone to pat her on the back.
While I agree with you that a decent proportion of promiscuous women are that way because they are sheep, the same goes for a huge proportion of non-promiscuous women - who are also sheep, just following a different 'shepherd' of conditioning. Truly strong women can be promiscuous or not at all - what defines their strength is not their behavior, but whether what drives their behavior is in integrity with their deepest essence.
@NicoletteXO ROFL. Are you STUPID? You dumb cunt. Truly strong women have self respect which means they are not desperate little whores that dress like the local prostitute but forget to charge everyone they fuck. Promiscuous women aren't strong, they're weak & pathetic.
It's interesting that you spend so much time ragging on other women, when your foul language shows you have significantly less class than any of those you seek to denounce.
It is liberating because they are free to act upon their emotions, impulses and such. Howver, if children were let to do that without boundaries, they would eat candy, wouldn't be clean, bed would be a mess, etc.. Some adults as well. The best trained are those in the military that adhere to specific rules of behavior which is good for them, but not fun. Disciplne is how athletes succed, students succeed.
The problem, biblically, would be wounded emotions (the fall of mankind) where the person does things to harm theselves and that's the problem with men or women. The solution is guidance and limitations that better ensure success, finding mate, producing offspring, avoiding trauma and hurting oneself.
Why is this really a question, they have always done this where I live.
the entire social scene is fairly equal, girls chat up girls and guys chat up girls.
if a girl fancies some sex, she picks a guy, tells him it’s just sex and fucks him.
that was a thing when I was 16 - 18 and drinking in Newcastle.
I always find it weird when guys go on about girls doing what guys can do.
It’s nothing new, maybe to some cultures their women are actually being allowed some freedom.
I don’t see how It’s socially acceptable for men can run around and be man whores , share no responsibility over their own children , get stds, pump and dump. YET, if a woman does this , it’s immediately wrong.
Sounds like you’re a sexist. Double standards
Yeah if something is wrong. It must be wrong for both sides. Or if it is rica ight it must be right for both sides too. Because this is mutual thing. Men think that they must have the privilige and choices to do that but their girlfriends or wifes have not wtf.
Just cuz we do that doesn’t mean you can
@Pepsiman23 okay do it with men lmao
No what I mean is two wrongs don’t make a right. Women want to be guys now like now you don’t. Mainstream media controlled by elitists are making you think that to cause disorientation within our genders to cease reproduction
@Pepsiman23
it’s not like sleeping around is like murdering people or robbing stores. Let people run their own lives. It has nothing to do with you
It has to do with men. It’s hurtful to us
Absolutely it is nobodys business if people are single. They can do whatever they want.
@Pepsiman23 you also have to remember that if a man whore decides to have sex , it’s always gonna be with a woman who is also doing casual sex. so you can’t only blame the woman for sleeping around. It takes two to tangle. If men sleep around , there is always a woman who is willing to have sex with him
@Pepsiman23
It takes two to tango.
@Pepsiman23 it is hurtful for women too what are u talkin about
@Lifelive96 I don’t see it as hurtful. I don’t think sexists hold any credibility just like racists. I just don’t believe or put any trust into what they say
@nella965 i think being cheated on by the man i love is hurtful i want to emphasize this
@Lifelive96 anyone can get cheated on. This is a risk you should be aware that you’re taking on in any relationship.
@nella965 unfortunately. So i think women can do whatever they want and have that choice without slutshaming is the liberation not doing the thing. Men don’t have any priviliges on anything.
Lol it's way more common among women
Alright so you want to label racists and sexists? You’re a slut if you hook up with a lot of men
@Pepsiman23
If men can be sluts then why can’t women be sluts?
@Hallo626262
It’s the least common with you. You’re so ugly you would be lucky if an obese girl Even looks at you
@nella965 they live in a patriarchal system 🤮
@Lifelive96
society is not patriarchal anymore. Trust me hookup culture is HUGE in the US. It’s only that this website is full of misogynists obsessed with oppressing women as if it’s the 1950s
@nella965 i know i am happy for you. In my country it is not like that. We are trying to change this. Being under pressure is the hardest thing. If something is not forbidden it is not attractive this much. I mean everyone must have the choice whatever they do. They can do or not.
@nella965 cutie you don't know how I look like. You might have schizophrenia.
@Hallo626262 well if you were able to sleep around , we wouldn’t see you so bitter on GAG
Just cuz tides might be turning doesn’t mean they should. Society with us humans are meant to be tied to patriarchy. Women’s loyalty is very important to us men. That’s the number one weapon a woman has on a man and men are being attacked with it. Woman are so much more attractive when they aren’t sluts
@Pepsiman23
Being unfair to someone simply due to gender will never ever be morally correct. Same Thing with racism
@Pepsiman23
In our society , a woman doesn’t have to be loyal to a man anymore. Why do you think women initiate 80% of divorces?
@nella965 you are just regurgitating what the mainstream media says. How many times have you said that line to people
@nella965 what i read from this man is just ignorance. Please don’t try to convince this. They are narrow minded and wants everything for his benefits. But Word is changing sorry for them. Being slut is just the this mentality. I’m sorry for him.
World*
@Pepsiman23 you can not do anything that you don’t to be done to you. That’s it. Whatever you say is just gross.
You don’t want to be done to you.*
@Pepsiman23
Patriarchy is slowly fading away.
@Lifelive96
Do you really think anyone truly believes way he says?
@nella965 yeah Taliban 😹
@Lifelive96
Haha yea he thinks we still live under Taliban
@nella965 im sorry for these people. Whatever we say is not beneficial for them. So they can live in their narrow minded world. So i will not tire by explaining things to him. I advise for you too. We are in 2021 man…. 😂😂
Good. Be grossed out. That’s just what you feel from hearing a dominant man’s opinion. If you were to listen to some puss boy feminist you’d feel validated. You ain’t gettin none of that over here. Women can stop trying to be men
But this is not dominance this is insecurity. 🤦🏻♀️ Sorry for you. This is my last sentence to you.
@Pepsiman23
Not all dominant men oppress women or rape women or force women to do things they don’t wanna do. This is not called being dominant , it’s called being abusive and disrespectful
@Pepsiman23 and I can promise you that if you have this mindset , you won’t be getting a girlfriend anytime soon
@Lifelive96 you’re insecure about your own femininity. Your own submissiveness and you’re trying to be like us men
@Pepsiman23
Why do you think you’re stuck on this website full of miserable Simps complaining instead of going out on actual dates? cus no woman wants you
@nella965 every girl nowadays dates a girly guy. Girls don’t go for guys who bench 315 pounds if you even know what that is. Girls like weak submissive men so they can do whatever they want with them
@Pepsiman23 this is not about being a man. This is womens sexual rights. Like mens. You don’t have right to speak about it. You are insecure about yourself. That’s it. It is not being man it is doing whatever we want without consulting others. Your mantality is too old. But you live with it. We can not change your mentality.
It is so tiring and inconclusive arguing with ignorant people.
@Lifelive96 a woman can do whatever she wants. But just be prepared for no man to want you after you’ve been used up. Just know your sexuality is precious to us. And yea you can’t change it because a submissive woman cannot change what a man thinks is right in his heart. You’re free to do whatever but just know there are repercussions. Like you probably voted for Biden and now look what he caused. Disaster
@Lifelive96 it should be tiring cause my stamina is high just like at the gym
@Pepsiman23 hahaha who want narrow minded man 😂😂 live in your small world
@Lifelive96 live in your little satanic world princess
@Pepsiman23
[a woman can do whatever she wants. But just be prepared for no man to want you after you’ve been used up. Just know your sexuality is precious to us. And yea you can’t change it because a submissive woman cannot change what a man thinks is right in his heart. You’re free to do whatever but just know there are repercussions. Like you probably voted for Biden and now look what he caused. Disaster]
what makes you think a woman wants a used up man? its about time you wake up that women do not like man whores either. Its about time you wake up and realize that you age too and you won't have any young women attracted to you. Quit the double standards.
@nella965 i don't care about sleeping around and don't even need women for that. I hate women because they are sexist idiots. Not everyone but you for example.
@Hallo626262 if you hate women then keep it to yourself. Nobody wants your negativity
@nella965 nobody wants you
@Hallo626262 oh hell yea I’ve had lots of guys who wanted me. Nobody Will want you as you get older and uglier with age
It's actually due to birth control. If you didn't have it, any time a woman have sex then she could get pregnant and get stuck with the 18-years-of-debt that can stack multiple times.
My great grandma had like 16 kids. My great grandfather got 32 kids because he had 2 wives. That didn't count the bastards he hid somewhere with his mistresses. My grandfather had 11 kids. My dad had 4. My brother has 2. Birth control kicked in after my brother was born.
So it didn't really matter what women wanted or thought. Reality just pounded them to the ground. It wasn't until they got effective birth control that they got liberated.
Also due to war. That one was important too.
Na, more girls want the option, to do it with the guys they want, and not feel guilty/judged/or take any downside with it. Girls want to have sex. They just don't want negative ramifications that tend to be exclusive to them and not guys doing the same.
It's a real issue for girls to avoid the slut reputation. It has a lot of downside for her. And she wants to sleep with different guys but because of the downside she avoids it. Take away the downside. Then given the freedom they will more freely act on it.
Just have conversations with girls who know you genuinely will not judge them and you will hear some stories from girls you wouldn't have expected. Girls who try to have an innocent vibe to them. That's why I find it entertaining sometimes girls who say, "everyone thinks I'm cute and innocent but actually...". Like na, it's pretty evident. But there's no value pointing it out lol
Do you know what's liberating? Having a choice. And being able to choose to have sex or not, and being able to plan pregnancies is extremely liberating. If you don't like casual sex, the don't do it. No one is forcing you. If you disapprove of women who have casual sex, don't date them. You will both be happier.
But my guess is that you are just angry at people having more fun than you are.
I never gave the matter any thought tbh, so I never really looked at free will as liberating. I’ve never been promiscuous. I guess I’ve always known I could be part of the promiscuous hook-up crowd if I wanted, but it’s never been part of my life and never appealed to me. That saying “just because you can doesn’t mean you should” comes to mind. Applies to both women and men I think.
Women had no choice in the past. With no modern medical safeguards, such as medicine to cure STD's, birth control, condoms, etc. If they were promiscuous during the 1920's, the only had back ally abortions for help. That must have been terrifying for women back then.
I believe in liberty for people to what they want. But if you have freedom you also have RESPONSIBILITY.
If you cheat on your husband/boyfriend than you are just as culpable as a man who cheats on their girlfriend/wife. Absolute equivalent. No better. No worse.
What pisses me off is that some women want to be all promiscuous up to and including cheating and then when they get caught they play the “oh im a woman so I’m a victim. My emotions drove me to do it bullshit”. No a pos is a pos.
As far as I know they just want the choice like you said. Then some will do it, some won't.
I think freedom of choice is something everyone should have, as long as it doesn't interfere with the freedom of others.
It's like you said, they couldn't, now they can. And that does feel empowering. At a point in time only men that could be drafted could vote. Think of what it felt like for the first man that wasn't eligible to the draft for whatever reason, to vote.
Anything that you wanted, couldn't do, and now can feels empowering.
It is just that they have choice. Nobody say a shit about promiscuos men except me. Hypocrisy? If you are going to slut-shame, then slutshame both. I am virgin and wait till marriage but i fully respect the choice of women does not want to be virgin till marriage and wants to enjoy her sexuality by being polygamous for example. It is her life, her body, and none of someone's business.
I get ridiculed because i want a virgin man non experienced men and men get cuckshamed for not minding dating/marrying non virgins/promiscuos girls. Just let people live their life. It is none of your business. Slutshaming women and virgin shaming/cuckshaming men are ridiculous and only people with no life do it.
If you want people to respect your traditional life, then respect their non traditional lifestyle and vica versa. It is so easy. I do it and get my respect by non traditional people
Exactly i think the same with you. People can not accept the fact that all people have their preferences and lifestyle. They are like, ‘’ If you don’t think like me, you are a slut or whatever. I see or hear different opinions and lifestyles than me but i just respect their opinions and go on. I some people are prejudiced and not mature enough to respect people. And why they clap the man who is promiscuous and insult the woman promiscuous these two are doing the same things. The patriarchal system even in 2021… it’s funny
Hi-it_is_me123 Well said! ❤️
Are you QAnon or Taliban... or ISIS-K?
Ask better questions, please.
Why does ANYBODY do things that are self-destructive? For example, why do so many dudes murder people? Why did idiot dudes beat people with Trump flags? Why do people believe in obvious lies? It's because people are idiots. :) OK?
I don't care what women want to do with their lives (whether I agree with it or not), but I can't take feminists seriously when they say that they don't want men treating women like sex objects (which psychologically speaking is impossible unless the men I question are psychopaths). All while at the same time say that sex work is real work, because it fights against the patriarchy apparently, while forgetting that once they do they will attract another group of psychopaths called the IRS. However I'm not expecting these people to be libertarians.
I wouldn't know🤷♀️ i do not do that. I am very free minded , however i pick and choose who I sleep with and when. But when I was younger most of the promiscuity was fueled by my anger. I was in love and the people I was in "love" with were players. Unfortunately. Now I am the one who is calm, collected and observant. Hence why most men and women who are just players give up after few tries. I am not intimidating they are intimidated by me 😁
Perfect answer and a perfect way to approach being intimate and independent at the same time. Good for you.
Of course everyone in this life must have the same rights while doing something. So if men can do it, women can do it too. It doesn’t mean they do that frequently to say promiscuous. But she can do whenever she wants and it is nobodys Business. But yeah when things are forbidden, they are wanted more.
oh man there are so many women, far more than men (even the top players) that are sleeping with more people by leaps and bounds. Women in the 60's-300's in terms of sexual partners and there are A LOT of them. In fact there was a whole thing about Instagram models being flown out to Saudi Arabia, Dubai, and other parts of the world getting $100K plus to get screwed by groups of men and even... camels and dogs... yes you read that right. These women with millions of followers flying all over the world? Red flag! Idc how pretty she is I'd never wife her up under any circumstances. Even IF she wasn't one of the ones doing this degenerate stuff she's still a narcissist for the IG crap.
@t-8900 i am Virgin so i prefer Virgin or Little experienced men so if i wasn’t Virgin i would prefer more experienced men. I think it depends on the person. For example if the man is promiscuous He can not say anything promiscuous women. But everyone has right to do whatever He or she wants i just don’t insult people whatever they choose. It is their life not mine.
@Lifelive96 i 100% agree with you on that. I've only had one sexual partner, instantly regretted it. The only reason I had sex with her was because I was pressured by peers really. I wanted to save it for marriage. I'm happy to know there are people out there who get it though. I dont like promiscuous women because I'm not promiscuous. I follow Scripture for relationships and I still feel guilty about what I did. Just because society normalizes degeneracy doesn't mean we have to fall into it ourselves.
@t-8900 okay so you can accept if your woman had sex with her love in the past too. Because you had that. I think these must be same. I don’t understand the men who are promiscuous and want Virgin women. I think they are hoes because of their thoughts. I have very high sexual drive everytime so it was hard for me to stay like this. However, i don’t insult other people they can do whatever they want.
I can understand a woman having 2-3 sex partners before me. But not MORE than that. Women can only pair bond with so many people. Each of her mates can imprint on her so she'll constantly compare one guy to the next and eventually she will not be satisfied and crave moving on. Also I agree men shouldn't be whoring around either. I had sex with one partner, ONE TIME, in my whole life. It was a mistake but I didn't repeat it. Can you say the same for most women or men?
Yeah i think like you too. Because i am not like that but those people can be together too. I don’t insult their preferences, I just don’t choose as a life partner. No i can not say that unfortunately.
@Lifelive96 it's okay to judge people, it's not okay to condemn them, revoke their humanity, etc. But Yes you need to be judging people's life choices, especially when you're looking to live with them the rest of your life and raise children.
@t-8900 i totally agree with you. It is nice to talk with you. Have a nice day ☺️
You would probably be surprised how well men don't really do it.
There is an old joke, if a woman tells you a body count, multiply by three, and if a man brags about a body count, divide by three.
@Qdbrown ya that's usually about right. Although multiple it by 3 in today's world might seriously undercut it. Its tragic what this world has become.
A woman's liberation is to justify her body her choice. Which incidently strives against GODS commanded commandments that she must spiritually follow the lord through her husband. She doesn't own her body , but she will ultimately as men will aslo , be judged according to our choices in life. Womens liberation is about denying and disobeying GOD and using his image to make men fall before GOD himself to put her on a petistal above the one GOD made in his image. To deny that she's actually made from a man and to detest that she's not deceptive.
I'm not sexually active yet (for cultural and age reasons), so I don't know whether some women actually enjoy the mentioned acts, or maybe they just want the freedom/choice.
I would probably not engage in those acts even with the freedom due to potential grave consequences such as STDs, unwanted/unplanned pregnancies, not knowing who the biological father is until birth and DNA test (which may impact the decision of whether to keep the baby), my kid not having a responsible father, etc.
Around the world there are all kinds of practices that are accepted or not accepted. You are talking about western values. And even then it’s onl a subset. Examine how it is like for women in Iran or Afghanistan.
Your very unscientific statement is based on your opinion and I don’t agree that how you describe “women” is universally accurate. You paint with too broad of a brush and you are focused only on a subset of western values.
Most women don’t engage in promiscuous behaviours because despite having the ‘freedom’ to do so, this freedom is limited. Or rather comes at the price of being slut shamed, socially/romantically/professionally ostracized, etc..
There’s still a lot to work towards in women achieving actual liberation. 👌🏻
Yes most women don’t engage in promiscuous behavior — which is why there are so many children born out of wedlock
…maybe in your neighborhood🤷🏼♀️
looool not just in his neighborhood. Go to any dating site lmao.
I met my boyfriend on tinder so I’m familiar with how many promiscuous men are online.
There are more single moms than partnered families either shacking or married. Many may have been married or committed when they did the deed, but that said, many divorced women tend to be far easier than single childless women.
…ok. What’s your point?
I'm gonna say female promiscuity basically fucked this world. There's really no way to sugar coat it. I'm not saying we should take women's rights away, it is what it is. But if this is really the peak of what the human race can dish out then honestly fuck the whole thing.
LOL alright, simmer down pal.