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Funniest thing a guy and girl were walking together and he wasn't looking when he's crossing so abruptly stopped and he collided with her arm as he outstretched it to stop her. Normally you'd apologize and everything's cool, no she complained "im not okay you "hit" my arm and now it hurts" 😂 ✓
Not me lol hell I did that the other day, me and my mate were drinking and she started to walk across the road and I stopped her by reaching out and sort of by slamming my arm across her stomach
@19magic I dunno but experience tells me girls feel pain more than guys probably because your bones are softer so need more more sensitive nerves to react. I remember in a club once, I was holding a friend girls wrist to guide her out because she was way super out of it and it was closing time, she said "you're hurting me" so I let go in shock. And I tend to see little bruises on a girls body where she's slammed her self into a table of something 🤣
Omg those brusies are real walk into a table door handle etc and a big black or blue one appears
@19magic 😭😂😂😂 bless
Women vent because it’s more efficient to just complain about things until someone else fixes your problem. Men fix problems because venting won’t and women won’t.
When I solve a problem, I don’t have to deal with it anymore. Women’s approach is seemingly to complain then just re-expose themselves to the problem, until it goes away. Then I guess hook up with a problem solver to make their lives easier.
Hahah yah fkin idiotic women logic just keep bitching about a problem with zero interesting in wanting any solution. Hahaha
It's something spiritual. Men's masculine (active) energy is turned toward the material world while Women's active energy is turned toward the energy world. Even if the Women has more masculine energy than a Man, the way she uses it is a bit different and the powerholders are perverting it by dividing people from each other and are using that cleavage to their own advantage. They have knowledge that is withheld from Society. I'm still not 100% sure if it's necessary though.
Men, stick to the facts not the emotions. SIMPLE as that. Give us the problem we will find or if we got to we will make a solution.
Men tend to be more logical than emotional with their way of thinking. So we rationalize and take care of the problem. Not all people are the same so take this with a grain of salt.
Because men think logically and logically if the problem gets solved you should stop bitching. But more often then not you don't care about the problem being solved you care about the other person validating your feelings.
Because...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/-4EDhdAHrOg"An example is the gender bias in medical research/STEM"
Can you provide any evidence of this ^?
Go search it up yourself. It's been researched and documented for over a decade sarcastic one.
I have actually researched it thoroughly and found no reliable evidence that such a bias exists today, just a bunch of unsubstantiated claims by biased special interest groups. That's why I asked you to provide solid evidence, because I know you can't.
Yeah you're definitely lying. Just say you're not interested in the problem. Most men aren't generally interested in women's health issues unless they're planning to conceive. I'll believe you than claiming you weren't able to find legitimate sources with evidence to back it up. PCOS receives trash funding and research. That's just one of the examples of female endocrine disorders. I don't even work in biomedical research so this isn't my sole responsibility. The whole point was female scientists and endocrinologists aren't doing shit to navigate the problem. They're not interested and are complacent. That's why all they do is complain.
I asked you to provide evidence to support your claim and you have utterly failed at that. Instead, you call me a liar. I'm not a liar, and I am in fact very interested in this issue. But unlike you, I have actually done the due diligence. The fact you are incapable of providing anything to support your claims strongly suggests you are just parroting rhetoric from biased sources rather than thinking for yourself and educating yourself using unbiased facts. I'll help you out by giving you a few facts as a starting point.
At the federal level, The National Cancer Institute spends $500 million per year on breast cancer research and an additional $177 million on uterine, ovarian, and cervical cancers. The budget for fighting prostate cancer, the third leading cause of cancer death in the U. S., is only $250 million. Similar disparities exist within the National Institutes of Health. $700 million for breast cancer; $250 million for prostate cancer. All of this despite the fact that men die from cancer at a higher rate than women.
www.cancer.gov/.../research-funding
report.nih.gov/funding/categorical-spending#/
If you look at the whole picture, there is no gender bias against women in medical research (arguably the bias is against men today), but it's easy to convince yourself there is one if you cherry pick your issues, or more likely in your case, "educate" yourself using biased special interest sources.
The link isn't working. It says I have to have certain number of points to post pictures or direct links on this app. I initially didn't provide a source because you seemed sarcastic and rude with your question.
I'm mainly talking about the lack of research with some female endocrine disorders. I didn't mean to group all of them. The ones that tie into reproductive health but with doctors solely focusing on pregnancy. They consider it more of a fertility disorder when it's an endocrine imbalance. Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) is the one I'm talking about.
Unfortunately, I kind of agree with you. There's barely any good research on it. Which is what generally frustrates me with female scientists in the field. They're so eager to point out how women are pursuing STEM fields. But they still haven't actively done anything about this issue. It's like they're mostly focused on validation than actual hard work. They mainly vent about it on another website so it's hard for the public to be aware of what's going on. Anytime I've asked how to start since they have direct access in the field, everyone gets silent.
The video I posted was meant to be humorous. Sorry if it, or anything else I posted, came off as rude.
There is a common perception, and a false one at that, that women's health is still not taken as seriously as men's when it comes to research, funding and focus on areas of concern. The opposite is actually true today, and it is a pet peeve of mine that so many people are still willfully ignorant about that. I assumed you were one of them, so I apologize if I was wrong about that.
Thanks for the conversation.
Most people on here were just very rude in general. So I assumed the same from your reply. I always have my guard up online because incels and overly triggered people get offended by the smallest things. Can't handle differing opinions or perspectives. But can never take what they dish out when you fight back.
Women's symptoms are still generally not taken seriously with PCOS unless they're planning on having kids. That's problematic because not all women want children. Even if they do, physicians don't prioritize the woman's health prior to conceiving.
Yeah, I agree. That has been my experience too. I try not to be the people you describe, but I think we all are perceived that way at times by people who disagree with us.
I believe what you've said here about PCOS and I think it deserves more attention and funding. What I have a problem with are all the people who extrapolate things like that to mean women are generally victims of sexism when it comes to medical research and funding. That has not been the case for a lot of years.
I respectfully disagree with your last sentence regarding the research. lol
Just from personal experience and many other women's experiences. No but seriously, polite disagreements can get misinterpreted online and I don't want to start anything. I'm also not in the best mood. But I still understand your point. Some people do exaggerate sexism a lot.
If you come at me complaining I’m going to give solutions if you just want to vent I’m the wrong person and I’ll tell you flat out
If you understand the difference between estrogen and testosterone this is an easy one
Men are expected to hold back their emotions. We're supposed to be tough and emotionless, but sensitive.
You should also note by venting and dealing with their emotions properly women live longer than men.
I've always hated it. Both genders should freely express their emotions while finding solutions to fix the problem. I empathize with my guy friends all the time and I never make them feel less "masculine". In fact, they always appreciate me being able to help them find emotional support. But I know others aren't like this. They shame it. While rewarding us women for empathizing too much instead of finding other strategies to help.
I'll also say that not all women have the luxury to vent their issues. This mostly happens with those from abandoned and estranged families with no support system.
Because men are hunters, women are berry pickers.
We evolved with different mental firmware for solving different problems.
It's human nature which a lot of people will deny but if it's not true then why do humans automatically have this instinct?
Its nurture more than nature. Which is why some guys feel emasculated when a woman earns more than them. Or is shocked when she has more to offer than her youth and beauty. The average 18-25 year old girl isn't praised for her intellect and problem solving skills compared to the size and firmness of our ass. Anytime you point this out, SJWs start screaming seXisM.
Yeah these SJW are beyond strange i can't believe they wanna go against the grain of life and the way society is they will truly be the end of the world.
Women are known for everyone to feel bad for them whereas guys are expected to deal with it.
hmmm never really thought about it but guess i am more to stress and keep stuff inside
Because we've evolved to try not to be vulnerable because we were once hunters. It's a survival instinct.
Men just fucking be. Like fuck, the best thing a man to do is be a fucking orderly/ or a stubborn force of nature. Be her Psychotic problem solver.
These women do "empathy" in a really weird way for people who expect provisioning from their partners...
Nothing unusual. Men and women are different. It has always been that way.
Men = Logic
Women = Hysteria
Women + Logic = Lesbian
We men do solve things once, you women vent over and over again.