Why are men known for solving problems while women vent? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

Men are stronger mentality and use logic over emotion

[Asker]

You guys also feel emotions. You're just raised to suppress them in fear of appearing emasculate. As a result, women focusing more in listening skills is why none have actively made a solution in the things they vent about : lack of awareness and research in female endocrine disorders. They'll vent endlessly online. But when you suggest ways to start fixing it (even just gradually) they either get offended or do nothing at all.

[Opinion Owner]

it’s not that were raised to suppress them, that idea is some dumb female mindset.

just because somebody’s told not show emotions doesn’t mean we just do it... if we told women every single day not to show their emotions you know for a fact that you still whine and bitch and moan and cry you can’t just turn it off because someone tells you to.

we are better at handling emotions we are better at dealing with how we feel we don’t need to push them to the outside and have everyone around us help us deal with them...
it comes from an evolutionary background where we couldn’t just cry about dumb shit we had to survive.
women on the other hand were usually in the pack of other females waiting for the men to come back so they had all the opportunity to whine and complain to each other without the fear of dying.

[Asker]

With all due respect, you guys aren't better at handling your emotions. From experiences with guy friends, family members, and exes, I learned the hard way. I've had many admit the stigma that is placed on you guys to appear strong by suppressing your emotions. Not showing the slightest bit of it to prevent appearing less masculine. Us women are given more "luxury" in this regard. But it has it's own disadvantages. Which is why I made my original post. We're generally more focused on venting and empathy than active problem solving. I've grown to dislike this as I've gotten older.

[tigressmistress]

Who says we don't problem solve? I am biased but I believe women are better problem-solvers.

[Asianguy123]

cuz woman are bitch and men are assholes. they bite and poop

[Anonymous]

All men create is war, BUT aside from that, a lot of inventions are made from men

[Starwitch23]

That's how men and women are wired to do that.

[Asker]

I'm the same age as you and I highly disagree. It's due to how we're raised and socially conditioned. It's a very problematic way of thinking.

[Inbox]

@Asker Read the book "The Female Brain" by Louann Brizendine. She was a feminist until she started getting deep into neuroscience :)

[Gwenhwyfar]

I do both depending on the situation and my mood

[es20490446e]

Problem solved is a problem that causes no stress.

[Anonymous]

Because men are expected to

[Waldoe]

left brained vs. right brained...

[krin_m]

Not sure that that is always the case.

[EaterPeter]

Women solves problem by talking it out.

[dolemite89]

cuz that’s usually what happens 🤷‍♂️

[staybehind2]

female ejaculation 🤔🤔

[Anonymous]

Then I am a woman, I guess

[humanearth]

Your right

[ewok737]

Hormones.

[Sketti2021]

Both do both