Just so that you guys are aware, when a woman posts asking for opinions on hair styles like this one.It’s not attentions seeking.
She doesn’t want to hear about how sexy she is. She doesn’t want to hear about what you would want to do to her. She isn’t looking to be sexualized. If you wouldn’t say it to your daughter or mother, don’t say it to a stranger online.
Honestly i understand why so many girls keep saying you wouldn't say it to your mom/daughter/sister, but here's the problem with that statement. You aren't any of those, nor do the relationships and bonds that are their belong to you therefore why would he care about you the same way he would care for his family. Your not a part of it theirfore why does your opinion matter? Yea your right you didn't post a pic to be harrass but do you think they care about your or your thoughts/opinions? no they don't, why should they? You can't hurt them, you can call them names and threaten but you can't do anything or you go to jail and their seen as a hero because you attack first even if you felt harass. So yea
no of course not. Harassment is wrong regardless of where you are. but at the end of the day people no longer care what other people think anymore and theirfore no longer feel the need to be ashamed of any actions towards others/themselves
Well if I am being harassed I am going to say something about it, which for some reason seems to upset people more than the actual harassment. That boggles my mind.
PSA: Not ALL men look at women in a sexual way. If you are asking the population of GaG knowing that there are also men on here, then you are setting yourself up for every kind of response.
To assume that when a male GaG user says something like it "makes you look sexy." Does not necessarily mean that said guy is sexualizing your posed question. From my own personal experience, I speak from my heart and not my loins.
By drawing attention to this kind of shows me that you are the one who is 'Attention Seeking', to me by posing this sort of question is more or less trying to separate GaG users into the labels that you want to put them in.
Everything I write here I wouldn't have an issue saying to my mother or family member. So to clump all male GaG members into a question sets you up for getting some unwanted comments to your posting.
Im not, Im refereeing to the people who make comments like this. Also men aren't the only one guilty of this.
"Yhea she looks great in red but the brunette. Look is drop dead sexy as hell. Given a chance to meet and spend time with a lady as beautiful and sexy as she in that photo would bring on a desire to love on her with a deep deep passion of lovin' and tender touches and thanks yous that would creat a memory in her heart she would always long time experience again the rest of her life. Her beauty and sexyness. Would drive a passion in to please her and let her enjoy orgasms and passionate love for hours. "
Yes, this is self-evidently true. :) I just wish more people would understand that. By the way, you selected for this question the same picture that I selected as being the best hairstyle in that survey you did :)
Though I agree with your sentiment about this topic...
You do have to have my attention for me to answer in the first place. "looking for attention" always looks to have a bad connotation but could also be just as innocent as asking a simple question. That was my shower thought last week so I thought I'd just say it.
And the ugly dudes come out of the woodwork to tell you that you're wrong when you say you're not seeking attention with your picture... And yet they think the women are the problem 🤦♂️
I honestly just dont get how asking if a hair style looks nice is a sexual invitation... more people are upset about standing up against the harassment then the harasment it's self.. that's mind boggling.
And yet these same dudes that tell you you're a sexual object and deserve it, completely ignoring what you have to say, on a picture that is not sexual at all, are the ones to get upset when you call out guys for misogyny
The pics you do post are tasteful, and you are an intelligent will spoken woman. If that's not enough, it's no secret that you're married and these dudes have the gall to say you're asking for them to only see you as a sexual object. On behalf of the few decent men out there, I apologize for the total deuches who treat you like that, and I apologize for those who were appropriate in their response but then guy defensive and up in arms when you called out the total deuches.
So out of all the pics you posted was there a favorite picture or did you get enough constructive feedback to pick a favorite hairstyle?
Or is the above pic the favored one?
I voted brunette but I think it was just really long hair parted to one side that I found more aesthetically pleasing. The way it frames your face... the hair color doesn't matter. Plus that smile with the large country denim shirt/dress... it made you look full of energy. Very nice pic.
I felt I was being very respectful. Even acknowledged you're a married woman. You're beautiful, as I said. And that pic of you, it's awesome the hair works very well for you, your bone structure, and your eyes. ^^
PSA: men don't care about your hair in any other capacity than the inherently sexual one. It's a physically attractive trait doing the physically attracting thing.
If my mother were to ask me what I think about her hair, I'd cringe in disgust and reply "I don't care about your hair"- because it's equivalent to my mother asking me what I think about her tits.
You are asking people to gauge your physical attractiveness, which is inherently motivated by sexual interest.
Well we will have to agree to disagree, a hair style is not the same as breast, or make up or the cloths you wear. If anything it’s closest to nails. Also I find it interesting that if your mother asked you what you thought about her hair cut you’d find it disgusting…. That’s just odd.
The problem is, your opinion on the matter when you are asking opinions of others is entirely irrelevant. To me, hair has zero relevance outside of modifying a female's physical appearance, which is inherently of sexual nature.
When I say "your hair looks good" to a woman, what I mean is "it makes me want to have sex with you a little more so than the previous hairstyle did". This is the mechanism by which "hair looks good" to a man and the reason for which it is appreciated.
I don't care about what hairstyle my mother or any other woman who I don't perceive sexually chooses to have, their hairstyle is irrelevant to me because the mechanism by which it becomes relevant (the sexual attraction component) is absent in that case.
In my perspective, there is nothing for me to appreciate about my mother's hair, so she asking my opinion would come across as very weird to me because it's implying I should be evaluating my mother in a sexual way.
Then maybe you should change the way you look at women. Instead of seeing them as sexual objects treat them like a mother or a sister unless you’re trying to fuck or date them. Or just not sexualize a girls hair….. that’s a good start
I don't see women as sexual objects, I just see a woman's hair as a sexual trait. If I don't perceive it in a sexual way then it becomes completely irrelevant to me. I mean it's just hair, on what quality do you want me to judge it for?
Congrats, you got a tuft on the top of your head. My cat's hair however looks fluffier and more healthy than your tuft does, and so does the skinned baby sheep fur throw under my feet. Both my cat and my fur throw look more fluffy than your hair does, so frankly I'd rather cuddle the dead baby sheep fur throw than your tuft.
There, I judged your tuft in an objective and non-sexual way.
Thats not attention seeking at all, sometimes a person is in doubt and needs a second opinion and i think you did the same which is normal, i hope the opinions you got were helpful
If a female has to ask strangers how she looks online she is indeed seeking validation especially if she knows the site she is doing it on is filled with thirsty men.
No offense there are thirsty men every where… I was waking to my car in sweatpants and a jacket the other day and got cat called by some random guy. People are entitled to their opinions but I will not tolerate being sexually harassed.
Asking for on opinion on which hairstyle looks better isn’t a cry for validation, it’s a question fo preference. This isn’t a dating site, this is site to ask questions.
Their is a difference between walking in public and not wanting to be catcalled and posting pics online for random strangers to ask them what looks better, you aren't just asking females & you are asking thirsty men who are behind a screen? Lol of course they will tell you how they really feel. Maybe you should cater the question just to women if you don't wanna attract horn dogs
You can say that but then theirs reality and on this site and has not changed for the past 6 years i been on this site if you post a pic of yourself you will have tons if thirsty men in your inbox or comments saying all kinds of things, just look at certain women posting on IG with open pages it's twice as worse
Nope it's simple you can't change reality and if you're going to post a picture in a site full of thirsty men that is what's going to happen lol you can't walk into a lions den and expect to not be attacked, so you are given a solution just dont post the pics if yourself to strangers & you won't run into thirsty men saying sexual things to you.
Right so should I just not go to work because I’ve been sexually harassed by my coworkers? Or walk from the store to my car because I got cat called last time. So basically I should just not exist because some guy might harass me… yeah I don’t think so.
What I find interesting is you’re more concerned about the fact that I am calling out jerks for sexually harassing me than the actual harassment.. that’s worrying.
You again are associating real life with thirsty men behind a screen who feel more power to say whatever they want, i highly doubt you are being sexually harassed irl the same way versus on GaG guys commenting that's not real your not that hot and nope if your going to post pics to strangers especially on GaG and hate the responses you are getting but you continue to do it & when someone tells you. Hey they're a lot of creepy horny men on GaG that do that behind the screen and you keep saying but irl and irl and irl when you know this website is not irl and you know you're not not being hit on the same way here as irl, now that's worrying because their is realiy and theirs the internet everyone is more bold on the internet.
If i agree with you but im telling you that men are like that on this website not all but a huge majority and you wanna tell me. its not ok & im stating it's NOT but this is REALITY these guys do that. What do you want me do about it bann them i dont got that power? Lol their is a reason they're still allowed to say that & since the past 6 years i been on GaG the dudes have been that way. I can't control them you are fighting me when i agree with you but reality is hey dudes like that feel more bold behind the net so you can either deal with it or don't post pics here its really either or you can do whatever you want i just gave solutions that has to do with the internet and not real life.
I don’t think rolling over and letting people get away with it is a solution…and the very least you could do is say something when you see it happening.
Lol that's funny cause i could and i have and then i end up introuble with my account Frozen, im not going to brag about it but i have been in a lot of trouble on this site before it's not worth having my account deleted always calling creeps a creep i'll just let the GaG admins deal with it. That's why im stating hey its either or
Come on, i remember all the lustfully revealing images you posted here when you joined GAG, to seek men's attention and now you are seeking more men's attention by complaining about something, which was even started by you?
I'm sorry, but nobody owes you jack shit. Get off your high horse and stop thinking the world - men really - are obligated to kiss your ass. This is the internet, not your personal hug box. If you can't handle the so-called "unwanted attention" that comes with your obvious attention seeking behavior and requests for emotional validation from simps, then don't fucking post anything. It's as simple as that.
So asking not to be sexually harassed is too much to ask?
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It's only "sexual harassment" in your paranoid head. Yes, asking people to revolve their lives around you and your preferences is asking for too fucking much. You're not the center of the universe.
"Yhea she looks great in red but the brunette. Look is drop dead sexy as hell. Given a chance to meet and spend time with a lady as beautiful and sexy as she in that photo would bring on a desire to love on her with a deep deep passion of lovin' and tender touches and thanks yous that would creat a memory in her heart she would always long time experience again the rest of her life. Her beauty and sexyness. Would drive a passion in to please her and let her enjoy orgasms and passionate love for hours. "
Im not asking for anything other than an opinion, no one has to answer if they don't want to, and most of the responses were great, but apparently if I ask if you think these bangs suite me that's attention seeking and an invitation for sexual harassment?
Sorry to break it to you but it's not. How is a response like that appropriate to a question asking which hair style looks better?
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No. This objectively isn't fucking sexual harassment. They are words, princess. Sexual harassment would be him miming jacking off in front of you, or sending you dick pics or something. And the fact that you think that it is proves my point, but you're so caught up in your own little self-absorbed little feminist head, you can't see otherwise. You've just proven my point.
Are you literally new to the fucking internet or something? Either deal with the lukewarm "heat "of mild-ass comments like this, or get the fuck offline t's not a safe pace for overprivileged upper-class white women who have the emotional durability of toilet tissue and are used to living in a bubble of having their ass kissed by male feminist simps all day. And people try to say "men have privilege." Get the fuck outta here...
That is the literally definition of sexual harassment.
"behavior characterized by the making of unwelcome and inappropriate sexual remarks or physical advances "
If you wrote that to a coworker more likely than not, that would get you fired. Correct me if I'm wrong, but if some on is making sexual advances or remarks towards you in a way that makes you uncomfortable or are unwelcomed shouldn't you say something?
So then why is it when a guy does it you women think the same thing about them and say he is attention seeking or at the very least say he is insecure?
I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting a bit attention but if the girl is not looking for that then the others should shut up and mind there own business.
